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Hi, Sophia here! Well my husband and I went out to Trapeze for the first time last night! I must say the atmosphere was wonderful, the music was great, the food was deliscious and the staff were all just lovely! I felt comfortable most of the night, which surprised me as I am very shy and private, particularly when it domes to sex. We chatted with a few couples and were interested in one that we had met while being given a tour once we arrived. Unfortunately, by the time we moved to the dance floor, the wife was so visibly drunk that I wasn't interested in chatting to decide if there was mutual interest in soft swapping or sex next to each other. I figured either drama would ensue, or my husband would get stuck trying to keep her from falling into walls- something her own husband seemed to be spending a lot of time doing. So, we went to the back and I decided on sex, just he and I, in a room where another couple were already engaged with each other. At some point, another couple joined us on the platform, all of us with our own dates, and there was a small group that had amassed to watch. It shocked me how turned on I was! We had a great time together, then I put on the pretty bra and panties I brought, and we returned to the front to dance, enjoy breakfast, and then return to our hotel. We hope to return next month, and hopefully meet more people, and perhaps a couple to get to know and play with. I am very happy with how comfortable we both felt being there and discussing the other couples and what we wanted together.

I know Toronto has several swing clubs. I don't know if that is near you or not, but it might be worth a weekend away. We like Desire a lot. They might have groups that are younger people. There is a variety of ages when we go with the Life on the Swingset group in Nov. You could check with Char Travel. They arrange a lot of group trips to Desire and Hedo and can tell you when younger people go.

Welcome to the board! I'm not sure what they were trying to show you when they whipped out that cock, but in our years of swinging, that is a new on on us. MOST swingers try to pick up other swingers. They don't spend time taking chances pissing off the wrong couple when there is a world of swinging couples that will happily play. Oh, you did good coming here. This is a GREAT resource for those interested in swinging. Whether you decide that it is something you want to try or not, you'll leave here with a wealth of info that will help you make the right decision for you.

It has been awhile since our introduction here. After our first experience with a couple this past summer, we met with them two more times and enjoyed swapping partners. That experience triggered a previously unknown sexual desire for the wife. She opened a profile on a dating site and we agreed that she can meet with guys with my prior approval. Since then she has been with 6 different guys and with two of them multiple times. She surprises me with pictures and videos from her encounters and that excites me a lot. We have great sex when she gets home from her adventures and I love to enter her knowing that she recently been penetrated by another guy.This is just an update of where we are now. The forum provided us with great insight into the lifestyle.

Sometimes I wonder if people aren't actually doing this stuff to really meet people. As others said, the goal, for us at least, is to meet. When we do, we will immediately realize you basically lied to us. For that reason, it leads me to think that at least some of the people doing this online are not actually planning on meeting people, they are just getting some thrill out of talking to other people online and looking at sexy pics together, if they are even really a couple at all and not just some random guy with fake wife pics. It gets annoying, but that's the anonymity of the internet for you. There are plenty of others that are telling the truth on there, it's just finding them in the sea of fakers and flakes.

First, I see this is your first post, welcome to the board. Second, let me tell you a little about myself, if you ask a question, I will tell you what I think and not necessarily, what I think you just want to hear. With that being said let me say, that the first thing to know about swinging is that it doesn’t cure problems in a marriage, and in most cases will just exasperate existing problems. I wouldn’t advise anybody with relationship problems in their marriage to explore the lifestyle until and unless those existing problems are rectified. The first requirement would be an open and honest line of communication between both parties. If either of you, are reluctant or refuse to express your feelings and desires with the other verbally, there are going to be major problems when those feelings and desires reveal themselves when you engage in lifestyle activities. I think long-term success in the lifestyle requires both members of the relationship to focus on the other member of the relationship. Everybody has fantasies and desires, if both parties focus on fulfilling the fantasies and desires of the other without hesitation is the key, in my mind to success in the lifestyle. The lifestyle can’t be a one-way street, if both members of the relationship aren’t rewarded by the experience, then the experience is a failure. It is through communication that you establish the boundaries that you are both comfortable in fulfilling the fantasies for the other.

That's the big problem right there. That is something that MUST be done. Also, as soon as you engage in an encounter with anyone else, you should talk about expectations not just with your bf, but with your partners as well. Set the ground rules for what can and can not happen. My wife and I had the firts part down, but failed a bit on the second part and it was a tough time for us as well. Pretty normal to make mistakes the first go around. We stepped back, took a break and did not even try to do anything else for a while, almost a full year now. We are going back out there, but will discuss things with the other couple more this time before play starts.

Yay! So nice to hear about a positive first experience.

I'm so happy for you!

Once I was at a scout function at the elementary school and there was a Swinglifestyle logo pen on the sign up sheet. I casually asked a bunch of people who it belonged to. It was not clear where it came from. The person who owned it seemed oblivious, so I didn't persue it. It did get my heart racing though!

Well done you, sounds like a very positive experience and you had the sense to dodge a potential bullet, we visited our first club last month and found it much like your experience , laid back , relaxed , sensual, and exciting.

That describes how things were at first when she agreed to try having sex with another man in front of me. We were all on the bed. She was in the middle. It was just as you described with him sucking on one nipple while I sucked on the other and our hands roamed over her body. It was funny how we both wanted to rub her pussy at the same time. She started out nervous but ended up loving it! We did this at a party we hosted. We had talked about this before. She was horny to do it. I led her in to the bedroom. Undressed her and blindfolded her. I tied her wrists to the bedposts. I went back to the party and picked one of the single male guests, told him the situation, and he was more than happy to fuck my wife. I discreetly led him to the bedroom. Nobody was paying attention. They were all busy partying. He went back to the party after he finished. I untied her, she got dressed and we went back to the party. It was driving her crazy trying to figure out who had just fucked her.