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For me I've always been super sensitive inside my vagina. To me I feel the thick hot spurts, it feels sticky and hot almost like melting frosting. Since I've been with other men now I've really felt the differences in ejaculations, some are more intense and harder, others thicker, hotter. When I first felt cum shooting into me it was on my honeymoon and I honestly didn't know what to make of it. I knew what was happening but it was kinda like a thick sticky blazing hot goo was filling me, which it was I guess haha.

I do not think that there are a lot of people her who advocate being disrespectful of their spouses. I actually like to think that SwingersBoard is a place that helps people to understand that it's not all about their own selfish pleasure, that couples are in the lifestyle together, and that communication, respect, and love are at the heart of a successful lifestyle adventure for a couple. Like Lionheart72, I fear that your impression may be skewed by seeing the posts specifically in forums where people come to discuss problems they're having. I think one refrain you may hear in those forums is that there is great value in trying to do the right thing by your SO. We should, of course, make every effort to avoid hurting each other, and toward being respectful and sensitive to each other. And I think you will read of people advocating this approach over and over throughout the forums. But another point you may see made from time to time is that we must, as fallible human beings, admit that sometimes mistakes do happen. Often, they are not intentional, premeditated breaches on the part of the offending spouse; rather, they are the result of the basic biological fact that a person's rational thought process is often not working at peak efficiency when they're in the throes of sexual arousal. This is not an excuse for ill-advised behavior, nor is it an endorsement of it. It is simply an acknowledgment that it happens sometimes, despite our best efforts to prevent it. Speaking for myself, I encourage people facing this situation to consider whether they have a good reason to trust in the basic goodness of their spouse, talk it over, explain the hurt feelings, understand the thinking of the offending partner, come to a mutual understanding of what happened, how things went wrong, and how to avoid a repeat-performance of the problem. I hope you can see that this is not in any way advocating for people to be disrespectful or hurtful. It is an attempt to help people to recover in a healthy way from a bad incident.

have just fucked a woman (my wife) on her 70’Th birthday, it was as good a fuck as when I first fucked her (and took her cherry) 51 years ago. She has had lot’s of different cocks fuck her over the last 35 years while we have been swinging and having M F M threesomes and still loves sex. She still gets plenty of offers when she goes on web cam. Anyone here top that?

I think guys definitely know when they had their first while girls might think they had a real orgasm. There is no mistaking it for a guy. I thought I had one as an early teen. Kissing and maybe rubbing on the guys leg, I was pretty wet. I know it felt good. I knew a guy would squirt something but hadn't witnessed it at that point. The first time I was touched (felt up) I know how it felt but also hurt somewhat because he tried a finger in me. I also know I was very wet, scared and flushed. I looked forward to making out because of the feeling. I know when I made him orgasm he was much more aroused than I was. I think my first real orgasm was given to me orally. I still hadn't had sex. I lost my breath and jerked plenty. It was different than I had felt before.

Yes. I think it's a matter of which forums you're reading. Most of the people who start threads in the Situational Help or Curious About Swinging forums (two of the most active) are either new or are asking questions about problem situations - because that's the nature of those forums. Since we only see a slice of their experience, usually during a problem or when blundering around in the dark, we aren't necessarily seeing posters at their best. This doesn't mean they are always like that, or even often like that. It just means that they're posting asking the rest of us to help them, most often because they find themselves in a place where there is trouble with their SO.

Yesssss! This is hot! I have enjoyed my wife's cum filled pussy now a few times when other guys have emptied their load in her. I absolutely love it. It turns me on to see her getting fucked anyway and knowing the guy is going to unload in her makes it even better. She has many orgasms anyway so she has normally cum about 10 times before the guy does. Once I see and hear he is about ready I about explode myself. Once she is full of his cum, I go over and lick her pussy. OMG it is great! Once I eat her good, I put my throbbing cock in the wetness. That makes me cum very quickly. Then I go down and lick her again. She has also enjoyed eating my cum from other women's pussy. In fact, she really gets off on it. Once when we were with another couple, I came in the other woman 2x while my wife was getting banged hard by her husband. Then when he came, I ate his cum then finally fucked my wife's dripping cunt.

That's because you're a single male. They are a dime a dozen on line and gee-whiz, what 30 year old single guy isn't curious about group sex and swinging? Find a woman, build a relationship, discuss group sex and swinging with HER and if she is interested, you won't find it nearly as difficult to find people on line. Otherwise, you're just another horny guy looking for NSA sex.

...but you will keep posting here (we hope)

For what it's worth, our first "soft" experience... We were just getting settled into a relationship dynamic, and as the more experienced partner, I was often egging her on to try new things. I've always gotten a kick out of some light dominance, I'd taken on a trainer role and it was great. So we're at this party and I start giving her a hard time about these two guys we'd been having a couple of drinks with, all in fun. It had been a big step to get her to wear something skimpy to begin with, she was obviously having fun on the dance floor, and didn't mind when I lifted up her skirt to show off her ass. When I suggested she should fool around with one of them, I was kidding and figured it was ridiculous - until I wasn't kidding anymore and she was protesting that she wasn't going to fuck anybody and her dress was unzipping. Fantastic testosterone rush to lead a woman into that position and very different dynamic from the cuckold/hotwife pattern. I think it was a sort of pattern where my bad influence gave her license to do things she enjoyed but felt like she wasn't supposed to be doing, so it worked well. Our second experience, more recently, was a little different. No power dynamic that I can think of: we just both wanted to screw around a bunch with mutual acquaintances, and now she's much more open-minded than she used to be. Some of the novelty about getting wild is off, it feels like reproducing some of the taboo would be difficult - some. I can think of a few ideas to challenge her.

I agree with you in principle, Alura, but in point of fact, I think the analogy should be that the single person is the Porsche and the couples are the mini vans. As a single guy in the LS , I'm given a status that most couples don't give to other couples. Perhaps it is that threesomes are very popular , and possibly it's because the single person represents a kind of freedom that a married person doesn't. Or maybe it's just that I'm a hell of a nice fella. lol

One of the few advantages of being an older swinger: you can't get pregnant after menopause. As exciting as bareback and cream pies may be, we devoutly use condoms when playing. We don't pretend to know who has been where.

Your uncertainty about this fellow's inexperience is understandable. As a general rule, we don't bother with lifestyle newbies at all. It sounds as if you sincerely want your wife to enjoy the experience of being with this guy, but you want some reassurance that the situation won't blow up in your faces. The first thing to do is discuss your misgivings with your wife. She may, as luvin eye full suggested, decide to dump the guy, but if she would still like to go forward, the next step would be for all three of you to have a chat so that the guy knows what your boundaries are. Then when you wife goes off to play with him, trust her to enforce those boundaries.

I can't feel the actual fluid, but I can feel the pulsing and throbbing of his cock inside me when he does, if he happens to stop thrusting when he cums.

Watching my wife is really awesome. We simply love MFM with the proper guy. Cannot be described, simply very hot...

I dont set any limits on age. Personally I am more attracted to a gals personality rather than looks. So if an 80yr old lady caught my fancy I would have no issues having fun with her.

We sometimes play with a couple in their mid-70s. They are both still very attractive, have kept their figures and their interest in sex. They are very good in bed and are among our favourite playmates.

It just goes to show you that there's nothing to fear of running into family or friends at a swinger club. We are all there for the same reason.