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I feel this site attracts some pretty hard core swingers. Many are the type of swingers we all yearn to become. There's almost no jealousy and most people seem genuinely happy to watch their significant other enjoy themselves. What I am wondering is how often you actually reach orgasm while swinging? Is it most of the time? My husband is pretty hard core but rarely cums with other women. I do on occassion but definitely more often I do not. I enjoy the sex but don't climax. Is this normal?

Yes, it's a busy club, so possible to play first time there or every time there, it all just depends on how wide your compatibility strike zone is. One bit of advice though...the surest way to come away disappointed from any swinging evening out, whether it be a club, meeting another couple for drinks, or whatever, is to have strong expectations going into it. My advice is to just go with no other expectation other than having a fun evening out together, then anything that happens beyond that is just icing on the cake.

I've Googled the name of the club with no hits. The ad said to contact the club "secretary" which would lead me to believe it has some sort of "organization" and thus would have some kind of website. I'm going to pass on this and just wait til the February hotel takeover that I know is legit. Thanks for the feedback

If it seems sketchy it probably is.

Yeah they say there are no membership fees or dues of any kind. That it is a private residence.

Up until the age of 22 (when i first swung) my number was 53. Been swinging for nearly 25 years now and i would say 300 is a very conservative estimate Hubby has notched up around 50 or so during the time. I guess blondes do have more fun!!!

If the chance is that small, I wouldn't have mentioned it to them unless things later pointed more definitively that it could have been his. Water under the bridge, move on, and congratulations.

I was embarrassed into dieting when my urologist referred to my pubic area as a fat pad. He was not trying to insult me (I think), but clinically describing it. As I have lost 45 lbs., it is shrinking and my pubic bone is closer to that of my partner with increased stimulation. I have 15-20 lbs to go, but I am on the way to better health and better sex.