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Wow! We decided to take an afternoon off of work and go down to an adult theater about 30 minutes from our house... They have a few general theaters and a couples theater. We went to the couples theater first and we were the only ones in there. New experience for both of us! We played for about an hour while watching some great porn, then decided to go down to the regular theaters to see what they were like. Amazing how many single males were there on a Thursday afternoon! Anyhoo, I saw this gorgeous woman coming out of the bathroom as I was going in. When I came back out, she was still standing there so I said hello. Then hubby came out of the bathroom and her partner came up. We all said hello and decided to go scope out one of the general theaters. We went to a large couch in the back, all sat together but there were about 10 single males in there. I thought the idea of a few guys watching would be hot, but they were gawking. We decided after a few minutes to head over to the couples theater. We ended up swapping and all playing for over an hour in the theater. Such an amazing afternoon and so unexpected!!! Awesome first experience!!! We've had a bit of an SLS dry spell lately, so this was an awesome treat!

Sex without kissing just falls short. We know who we are going home with and while sex between us is great our relationship is about a lot more than sex so we don't feel threatened.

If there was an ironclad "no kissing" rule in swinging, then Mrs two4you wouldn't swing. One of the very few times we have experienced drama in swinging was because the female half of a No Kissing couple decided that since she was drunk and flirting at a swinger's party it would be OK to walk up and lock lips on me. Husband saw it and flipped out.

We don't have sex with people that we can't kiss. Not sure how putting our lips on another persons mouth is any more intimate then putting them on someone else's sex organs. If people want that rule it is their call, but it is enough for us to look elsewhere if they do. It is such a natural part of foreplay for us that it would just be a burden having to stop ourselves from doing it in the moment. Personally a good kisser will get me hard faster then anything. If I wanted to have sex with someone I could not kiss I might as well just start hiring hookers.

Just the same as you did. If these play partners have showed up reliably on all other occasions, they'll be OK for next week's get-together. It has happened with us too. Think of it this way. Your pool is now clean and the carpets are all vacuumed.

Kissing can say, "I love you, Darling." Kissing can also say, "I'm gonna fuck you silly, Mr. Playmate. Lemme suck that hot tongue of yours!"

We don't think it is too personal, after all, we're about to have sex with them, right? We understand that's just our opinion though and others are certainly entitled to have their opinions too and they are just as valid. I will add we will pass on playing with no kissing rule couples. At least from our end, it would feel too detached for us to have sex without kissing, and the other reason is that for us, it's such an integral part of sex, that we would have to be constantly on guard that we wouldn't slip up in the heat of the moment and break one of their rules and potentially cause them problems. We wouldn't want to be the cause of that, and honestly, having to concentrate on what not to do instead of just enjoying what you are doing takes away the fun for us.

First off, my wife and I are new swingers. What I mean by "new" is that we haven't dipped our feet in all the swinging lifestyle has to offer as of yet. (Which will change with time.) Instead we've been taking things slow, and currently are only having MFM (Male-Female-Male) threesomes. I enjoy sharing her with other guys, and she enjoys being shared. Anyways, I'm 5.5" inches long, and about 5" thick. As I mentioned above, I enjoy sharing my wife with other guys, and with that said, the idea of guys with bigger penises filling her pussy drives me wild... Unfortunately she has brought up that she prefers smaller, because anything above 6" inches and within my girth is too much for her, and is painful. She admits she would like to try bigger but is hesitant due to the discomfort/pain. I bought her a 7.5" dildo but she doesn't like to use it because of the pain/discomfort. My question for everyone is: "How can we get her use to it so that she can enjoy cocks bigger than myself?" After all, it seems like the average size guys we come across whom seem to have the best potential in what we're looking for are often 7"-9" inches with thick girth. Because of her discomfort with anything bigger then 6" inches our potential playmates seem to be limited. (Not that there is anything wrong with anyone smaller then 6" inches, but overcoming this would leave a bigger window of opportunities!) Thanks.

Part of our selection process eliminates couples with "no kissing" rules. If you're going to plant your tongue on Mrs Docs clit or wrap your lips around my dick yet won't kiss us because its "too intimate' than you probably ought to take up bridge for recreation. The fun of this hobby for us is sharing intimate encounters with friends. That includes erotic exploring with our partners and THAT includes kissing. What's even more difficult to understand is the possibility of achieving oral orgasms. Mrs Doc can cum all over a guy's tongue or I may cum in the woman's mouth or on her face (if she's not a swallower) but that's somehow less intimate than a kiss? Give me a break!! We've also found over the years that couples with a hard and fast no kissing rule tend to have lots of other rules as well. Worrying about a checklist of does and don'ts tends to be a mood killer. And, generally speaking, the more rules a couple has invariably equates to much more potential drama, something which is also a mood killer.

I agree that the less "rules" the better the experience. Watching my wife experiencing an emotional bond with her playmates is disturbing and exiting at the same time.

We'd be disappointed, like you are when anything you are really looking forward to doesn't happen just like you thought it would, but not disappointed in the way that carries any negative feelings toward anyone since we know things happen. If this was a first meet with someone and they cancelled last minute, then that would be a strike against them, but for someone you know, then you just chalk it up as another example of how in life the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry.

This is par for the course in the lifestyle. There must be a correlation between swinging and inability to keep a date. I am pretty open if other couple wants to reschedule. Just avoid those who are chronic no shows. We leave the burden on them to reschedule, in the event that they are trying to ditch us.

I think it would be good to postpone the lifestyle until after the baby is born. The meantime can afford you an opportunity to communicate more closely. Learn about her. Ask her questions that begin, "Sweetheart, how do you feel about ...?" Begin with "... The Sooners' Running Backs?" and a hundred other questions until "... group sex?" gets to the top of the list. Tell her you're trying an exercise to improve y'all' communication. It's true. Good luck! Keep in touch and updated, please.

We enjoy hosting! Some of our guests may pipe in! Our typical pre-game spread includes cheese and crackers, grapes and something like hummus, a dip and tortilla chips. We are well stocked with booze if a little lubrication is needed. Sometimes we have these snacks, then play, then host dinner or go out to dinner. Friends taught us to play before dinner so that all that food isn't sloshing around during sex.

Our hosting has always been limited to just one other couple, but we always have some munchies available, and for close friends, we'll cook something just like we would if we have vanilla friends over for a come early and stay late visit. We also of course share our drinks and mixers; people often bring their own for whatever they are in the mood for that night, but it never hurts to have some extra on hand just in case their supplies run short

Dang! I hadn't thought about breakfast! We don't offer all of the amenities that you do, but we do have a pool and a hot tub! It's our redneck paradise all thanks to walmart.com! We live quite rural! I'm glad to have sparked a nice memory for you!

Well peeps, I have to say I think I love prednisone. This weekend may not include any acrobatics or contortionism, but what the hell. I'm in my 40's so I'm not about to apologize for that. I'm still a little sore, but 90% normal is okay with me. Methinks it's game on. Wish us luck.

Personally, I think 20 and 21 is way too young. I never could have been in a non-monogamous committed relationship at that stage of my life. I'm not sure what your laws are in Brazil, but here in the US you must be 21 to go to any of the swing clubs I'm aware of. I think you might find it difficult to find swing partners your age, around here most couples have been married for 10 or more years and are typically in the 35-65 age range. Most are looking for friends with similar life experience. Your relationship is new and there are many things for the two of you two explore without introducing other partners. Enjoy each other and your youth.

I think this traces back to being completely accepting of your partner. You accept everything about them including their cum! When swinging with younger men I feel it's a power thing for them but I still oblige. One has to question who is really in control when woman is on their knees and the man is about to lose their load!!! I've been with countless young men and they all ask the same question when they are about to blow..."can I come in your mouth?"!!!!!!

You are not the only one who spews some verbal humiliation during play. My husband and I frequently act out cuckold fantasy in threesome situations and sometimes I just get too much into the moment and say the same things you did. Like others said, communication with your husband is vital here. For us, we understand it's a fantasy role play and I limit my outbursts to cuckold role play. I don't say any of those things during foursome or couple play. I think having mutual understanding and clear boundaries can make for better fantasy which leads to better enjoyment for you and your husband.

When I first encountered a bald pussy (did I just express an oxymoron), it was a remarkable novelty. It now seems pedestrian. What is more important and more socially engaging is the life-support system for the pussy.

Over the years we have been involved with this hobby we've encountered a few couples with the no kissing rule. As others have said, we can't understand how sucking my dick is somehow less intimate than kissing us?? For us, kissing is part of foreplay and a big part of the discovery process with new playmates. It's also part of the process of elimination for us because there are good kissers and not so good. If a guy does it well, Mrs Doc's toes will curl and her clothing will fall off, if he doesn't, the evening becomes mechanical or simply doesn't happen. We've lamented that kissing is becoming a lost art. Remember making out in a car in your high school days and beyond??? Didn't it always involve kissing? And didn't kissing evolve into more? Just because we're pretty sure we're going to boink another couple doesn't mean that we don't want the erotic stimulation kissing provides. On a side note, we've found that couples with this rule often have more rules than just that. It becomes way too complicated and not a lot of fun to have to work through a check list of do's and don'ts. So for us, a no kissing rule really is a deal breaker.

We are new to swinging. The first time we swapped spouses with a couple we met on a cruise. It was a moment where we decided to do it. We had unprotected sex and my husband did as well. I knew I couldn't become pregnant but of course didn't take other problems that could cause into account. Lucky for all of us, nothing was transmitted. Our new friends were new to this as well, they said. My new partner did cum in me. He was going to withdraw but I said it was fine. We both continued and both of us had great sex.

So far, no. In fact swinging with others has made me realize just how sexually compatible we actually are.

Now I can't get the image of a snail trail out of my mind.

At first, we weren't sure how we were going to react. But I found out that I find it highly exciting to see Amelia with another man. It's amazing to simply watch another man's cock sliding in and out of my wife's pussy, and to see the look of bliss on her face as she feels him in her. And those times when we go bareback, watch his semen leak out of her is an amazing experience. Amelia tells me that she really enjoys the sounds I make when we play. She says that she likes hearing me talk dirty to my playmate, and positively gets off on hearing me gasp and moan when I orgasm. I think a big part of it is being able to see her pleasure from a different perspective then if we were monogamous. For example: If he's entering her from behind, I can see how much she enjoys it in a way I wouldn't be able to experience if it was me making love to her.