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This is a very very dangerous path you are going down. Please be careful. If you want some truth about cuckolding then go to the website ourhotwives dot com. You have to be careful to separate the wheat from the chafe but there are some very very wise people on there and some couples who tell the truth vs just playing to the jerk-off crowd. It may be very beneficial to you. There are people,who,talk about how their marriage blew up when the respect was lost to those that are happier today because they recognize the difference between the game and real life. If you are going to do this go slow to understand and make sure that you are both on board and that your marriage comes first. Best of luck and hope you enjoy yourself.

Thank you for the advice! I should probably give a couple more details. I've talked about it afterward with my husband. I apologized because it sounded harsh as the words were leaving my mouth. He said it's fine because he then knows I'm really enjoying myself. Watching me with the other guy is a massive turn on for him as well as hearing about it from me. I just know I'm tip toeing into new uncharted territories. We've had more sex lately than we ever have and sometimes he asks me to talk about the other guy. So, I know it isn't totally out of bounds. However, I know what's in my head and it surprises me. I've never been one to degrade or talk down. I'm wondering where my own head is! I know I enjoy it but it's not only about my pleasure. Oh and when finding a guy, it was paramount to my husband that the new guy have a bigger dick than he does. So I believe there are some deep rooted humiliation fantasies in there. Maybe I'm wrong though.

Hey all, First I would like to thank the creators for making this website, there is a lot of interesting information on here that I have read up on. Let me start by introducing ourselves and tell you our story. I hope to receive some feedback from other members, tips and help are much appreciated. We are a couple together for almost 3 years. We are now 29 (Me) and my gf is 21. I met her when we were 18 and she is a fantastic woman both in and out. She matured next to me and we have lived together for over 2 years. We get along great and are very open with each other. Last year we started talking about swinging, she has only been with one man before and I have told her that I have been with many women (over 20). This of course opened her up in her interests in having a threesome. She is a bit jealous about having full on swinging but that is something that I am also not overly interested in. For the last year we fantasized about it. This Friday we went out and she mentioned the local swing club, she was a bit tipsy and so was I. One short time later we saw each other entering through the doors of such a place. I have been to a upscale sauna club before and it reminded me closely of that. We started making out and guys started groping her. In the end she started making out with a woman in her late 30s who was there with her husband and her lover. We took a room and started playing around. She was super open and it was something I was surprised about. She did not hesitate to go down on the guys and since I was with the girl i made out with her. It was all very sexual and really unbelievable. I ended up having briefly sex with the girl while she with the guys. They had problems with erections and finished fairly quickly. I carefully watched them and they where very nice and gentle with her, they never even went close to her without a condom. She took a liking in the woman's lover, a man in his late 20s that was virtually all muscle and a very large member. I nor she was that attracted to the older couple. We ended up taking the guy with us. It was amazing how well we got along. On the way I found out he was a PhD student and a really smart guy. We talked for a while and at home fooled around a bit, he was really attracted by my gf which not only looks great due to her age, but is also a very beautiful woman both in and out. He again was very careful and did not have any intercourse without condoms. It quickly got to be morning and we went to sleep. Him in the living room, us in the bedroom. At this point she told me how jealous she was that I did it with the girl. I explained to her that I was simply bored of just sitting there and that it did not mean anything to me. She reminded me that I promised not to do it (something I later remembered doing). I reassured her and she asked me how I felt. I told her that it was my biggest fetish/sexual dream ever and that it was amazing. Seeing her having that much fun turned me on, and I did not have any problems with it as long as we respect the boundaries of sex being sex. In order to make her feel better I sent her to him, told her to seduce him if she wants and that I will settle watching through the door. She went and they started making out. Hearing them kiss turned the hell out of me. It was great to see her that outgoing, I was pleasantly surprised. This lasted around 15 minutes or so until I heard her moaning and him moving back and forth. When I got to the couch I saw that he was inside her sans condom. I was a bit surprised and of course also worried. He was big and she made no secret of it. We have great sex too but I never saw her like that. They had sex until I passed out because I was tired. The next day he left and I was still hard most of the morning. It turned me on! We talked about condom use and explained to her the dangers. She talked about her jealousy . I explained to her that maybe it is an age thing, but she has nothing to be jealous of. Clearly it was something to do with age and her insecurities I guess. I did say I won't but in the middle of the fact I did not see it a problem. We had great sex since (on average 4 times a day since). The sensory overload we received on that day is probably gonna last us over a week. We are meeting him in 2 weeks and am looking forward to it. She is ecstatic! I am ok with it and I know what I feel for her. She is natural and told me that she couldn't believe that we could do that. This was the third guy she was with, she truly enjoyed it and I hope we can continue without hurting each other. Sorry for the long ass post, felt like sharing everything. Can you guys give me a bit of pointers or advice on what to look after? What did we do wrong? What are the dangers? At this point I feel liberated. Finally I have a partner I can do these dark things with. Sexually I do not see myself ever cheating on her, there is absolutely no point. The same I think goes for her. The freedom this has given to our relationship is incredible!

We are seeing a guy for a while now and I am constantly away from work. This week I told her she can see him and just him without me if she feels like it. Any advice from the more experienced ones on here?

Hello, I mentioned in my other storys about having a threesome with my girlfriend Mayumi and her best friend Keiko. On Friday night last week Keiko turned 38. We were in the lounge watching a movie. Keiko's mum and dad rang her. She always asks me and Mayumi to be quiet while her parents call her. She doesn't want mummy and daddy knowing she has threesomes. I think it's funny as she lives with us and we have threesomes on a regular basis. I wanted to do something to celebrate our threesome so we went out for dinner at a very expensive place. Afterwards we decided to go to a nightclub where it's mostly a younger crowd. Keiko and Mayumi didn't know why. The reason for this was I wanted to really enjoy both woman more and I find it hot when 18 year olds are trying to pick them up because I won't let them lol. I also wanted Keiko to understand I want her to be my girlfriend as well. Keiko is always laughing and giggling when we dance. She always says "oh my god I'm a naughty Japanese girl and this is crazy what am I doing". Tonight was about making her feel like she is part of us. We had few beers at the pub then went to the nightclub. We got drunk and I had both girls cuddled up in my arms. I told both woman how much I care about them and want them to enjoy the night. Both the girls giggled and said "You are Rakki Otoko" many times, which means I am a lucky man. As the club got packed and drinks flowed the three of us where dancing very sexy. Lots of young guys were saying 'you should be with better looking guy and younger' but it didn't work. Other guys cheered me on. There where a group of guys who encouraged us and made dares as to what we would do. One guy was like "I bet they won't let him squeeze there asses". I told the girls they have to both giggle and make it look like it's the 1st time. They where awesome. They both pretended we just met up tonight, They acted shy but I squeezed both there bums. The girls both jokingly Told the guys this was their first meeting. We decided we wanted some time for just the three of us so we went home. I got both girls in their G-strings and bras to dance with me. I squeezed there asses so firmly and wanted to fuck them. We had sex from 4:00 am to 11:00 am. I was exhausted from all the kissing but God I love Japanese girls. I want to in the future make Keiko feel like she is part of us. Any advice? cheers

Welcome from Oklahoma, YourSexyPanties! It's more fun and a lot sexier to say complimentary, if outrageous, things to your husband... and to the guy you're fucking. Try it. The man you love will appreciate you much more. Read the free sample of our novel for some ideas. Alura

I was at Disney Springs this evening and found myself noticing all of the wonderful MILFS with very little on because it was so stinkin' hot and humid. Every one that got my attention had smaller boobs. Just confirms that I am an itty bitty titty man.

I don't know what the rest of your life is like at home and work, so just guessing here, but maybe it makes you feel totally in control and that feeling is lacking in other areas? When you are playing in this scenario, you are in total control of your own sexuality and freely exhibiting it, you are in control of the guy you are fucking, and you are in control of your husband too and the more you let that be known, the better you feel. Get all of those things working together and I can see how they would start to feed off of each other and spin up into a very heady sensation indeed. If there is a line here, I think it can be found in what your husband thinks. If he is ok with that being part of the game, even though it may not be his favorite part, then no harm done I think. But, if it crosses the line from being part of the game to being truly hurtful for him or causing you too much regret later, then it might be best to try to tone that element down or replace it with something just as rewarding but less potentially hurtful.

We have met single women at clubs or events. You will need to be outgoing and proactive. There are far fewer single women than couples or single guys, but they are actually quite easy to get to know and play with if you reach out. The nice thing is that she makes her own decisions and is there to play, so it's not as complicated as a couple where all four have to be on the same page. A club is also a good situation because it's more anonymous, you don't have to exchange numbers and you won't be bringing a stranger to your home. I would start by creating an online profile on a swinger site that is popular in your area. Find out what clubs and events are available. Oftentimes clubs have bi-girl nights where you might find a single girl or a married girl looking for just girl girl play. I think when looking for singles it's a good idea to know what you have in mind as far as a relationship with the person especially if you are meeting people through websites. Do you picture an ongoing thing or one time? Will she have your husband's number or just yours? Some singles just want sexual experiences, some are looking for a boyfriend. Everyone we've met has been upfront with what they are looking for when we've asked. As far as your weight, there are many single girls who are plus-size and most likely would be happy to play with you. Some clubs even have BBW (big, beautiful women) events.

To me it is not any different than the size of a man's penis. It's not about the size. It's about attitude. If you feel sexy, it will show no matter what size your breasts are.

I have 32A/Bs and I have always been very insecured about them. It's something I raised in other postings on this board and everyone has been so supportive. And in hindsight, no one we played with has actually said they're too small. People have different tastes and preferences, and I'm fine if someone doesn't want to play with me because I have small breasts because I have come across plenty of playmates who loved them. So I'd say they haven't impeded the lifestyle, although it's difficult to get rid of the self-doubts completely. I really try to banish the thoughts from my head. As for implants, I considered them too but decided against it. For one thing, I have asked many male and female playmates, and the majority of them told me they don't like the feel of implants. They can also lead to health problems later.

I think I was born with a hardon ready to fuck anything. Had I lived in a less conservative area, I would have been having bi experiences my whole life. As is, some playing in the woods with boys, barely sex really then nothing until I met my first actual gay man and started exploring. So the tipping point for me was the birth canal.