Earlier this week, my wife and I were on the road. So we posted a "Hot Date", as one on-line services calls it, and a "Booty Call", as another on-line service calls it. Well, we received one earnest reply, and that was good. But we also received the usual barrage of foolish replies. The notion came to both of us that if we were not as experienced in the lifestyle as we are, we might have been completely discouraged by the bullshit responses and might have never again tried a Hot Date or a Booty Call.
So here is our advice to newbies. Don't let the on-line foolishness discourage you.
A person new to on-line searches might not find humor in these. But we have learned to laugh at stuff like this.
Actual messages in their entirety (the misspellings and lack of punctuation are theirs, not mine):
* I'm clean, sane, safe and an expert at the hind lick maneuver (accompanied by picture of a dick)
* did u find anyone yet (accompanied by picture of a dick)
* your wife is hot just my type
* Hi I saw your Hot Date post (accompanied by picture of a dick)
* hi i have a condo . this is a couples profile but i prefer play alone. give me your # i will call.
You just have to expect this sort of thing even when you make it clear in the Hot Date information that you are looking only to meet a couple. There are single men in the swing lifestyle who are worthwhile. We know because we have befriended with more than one. So I repeat, Don't let the on-line foolishness discourage you.