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My daughter, son and I have the same issue, but the internet is your friend!! Department stores that don't carry Tall sizes do on the web, and then I take them in to be tailored so they don't look like I am wearing a bag...

Interesting. Mrs. EastInWest loves the attention of being looked at and admired, but is usually initially pretty shy about showing herself. Did you find any particular things that put your wife at ease? Finding clothing that fits me and encourages my best posture is difficulty, because I'm tall and long-limbed, but I agree. It makes a huge difference, as does having something flattering and risque on Mrs. EastInWest when we're out together. It also helps to trim my facial hair and even, eh, other hair. Knowing I'm altogether well-groomed makes a huge difference. I think it's hormones. It's very difficult to maintain that feeling during extended weight-loss because dieting can really wreck your hormones, but it helps to make sure you're getting enough fat. When I'm working out and eating adequately, though, the rush of a heightened sense of confidence can be unreal.

In my very first mmf situation the couple wanted to swing with someone who was uncut. We barely sat down on the couch at their home or she scooted over towards me and said: "show me what you got" and it proceeded from there.

I think our NoBalls Prize Winner was "I need to fuck." Any closer to a neanderthal and it would be pointing and grunting. Which would translate to keyboard-mashing. Ugh.

We were on a Couples Cruise in Jan 14. Had a great time. Met a ton of people and still converse with some online. Found by a Unicorn on day one (they find you, you don't find them). Ran into people we knew, but didn't know they were on the cruise. One of the best times we have had. As with any Lifestyle event, the fewer expectations, the more likely you are to exceed them

We went on the Bliss Cruise last year. And yes, it was a fantastic way to meet (and play with) people! We chose to "pre-meet" people online before the cruise, rather than taking our chances with chance meetings on the ship. That said, we found even total strangers to be friendly and open. We made a point of sitting with people at meals, rather than sitting by ourselves. That was a nice way of introducing ourselves to new people. There were some existing groups of people who knew each other, but somehow those groups seemed more open, and less "cliqueish" than groups sometimes can be at clubs. We fell into a great group of couples who all seemed to know each other, and they seemed happy to treat us like old friends! One advantage of the lifestyle cruise setting is that everybody is treating this like a special occasion, and a unique opportunity to play! So I think people are more ready to be friendly, flirty, and playful than in other settings that are more "routine". Hmm, disadvantages? I'm having some trouble thinking of any. I guess people could find the sheer number of people onboard to be intimidating. But if you try to make contact with some couples beforehand, the numbers seem more manageable. Also, there are so many meet and greets and other social events, making it easier to meet people on an individual basis. My opinion is this: if you are considering a lifestyle takeover cruise, sign up now! You'll have a great time!

Two members of our shul; we were surprised to see them but they were not surprised to see us having spotted us already at a swingers' Web site.

I just came across some Blue Flannel for my husband - not too strong, and once it settles in to his skin, yummmm....