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Well, now I am going to make a point of calling you Debbie Downer. Both of you. So, the Mrs. and I are both over 50. And we both are doing some hormone replacement therapy, including testosterone (for both of us). We have heard of the increased cancer risk, as well as the increased heart disease risk. But we believe that our doctors are managing the therapy in such a way as to mitigate those risks. And in addition to the increase in energy and metabolism, as well as making weight loss easier, the effect on libido and performance is significant and unmistakable!

Y'know, lookin' back, I think most of our playmates were "out of my league." I don't know why; it just seemed to work out that way. On the other hand, I always thought the other husband got the better part of the deal. One might even say to me, "Man, you got screwed!" And if it weren't for that, I'd probably not have swung. As it happened, I rather enjoyed playing "out of my league."

Well, she does, in fact, approach others. It simply puzzles her that others do not approach her.

Wow! I really appreciate your genuine responses. It's funny because it's not like you can really talk to your friends about this (and the ones in the lifestyle don't need to hear about it). You have all in your own way helped me more than you realize and a few of you touched a nerve which means you're onto something I had'nt thought of. Very good point about spending way too much time in the lifestyle and needing to back it up and get back to real life. Funny thing is we met in the lifestyle so we haven't yet explored a real life together. Might be time to do some serious thinking. Thanks and I hope I can help you guys out one day!!

This is normal for the aging male. Erections themselves are less rigid and the interval between ejaculation and the next erection gets prolonged. A great deal depends on rest, stimulation and sobriety. A great deal also depends on blood flow--vascular fitness and dilators such as Viagra. Pacing oneself and enjoying sexuality beyond intercourse are useful strategies.

My parents would have guys and couples over as friends and they'd stay up late drinking after I went to bed. The only problem was they weren't exactly quiet after that, lol

Count me in. I fantasize about a bukkake someday (doubtful it'll happen). You guys in this forum are beyond cool.

I used to not like cum too much but the more sex I've had with other bi men, the more horny it makes me. One of my favorite things while sucking dick is the feeling of his shaking as he's coming combined with the hot load going down my throat, on my face or I LOVE him telling me know he's about to bust, then jack off onto my cock.....his hot load feels so good on me and then he can immediately go into sucking my cock with his cum on it.....omg so hot

I consider, or label, myself as an 'orally only bisexual male’, it is MY desire (AKA choice!). I am not at all attracted to men; meaning I do not look at them and desire 'them' as a man, nor do I want to give or receive anal with another male, but have him drop his pants, get hard, and now HE has my attention. I do not want or desire to be ‘intimate’ with a male in any other way than swapping blowjobs. However, with that said has the ‘fantasy’ ever flashed through my mind of anal, etc.? Yeah! Sure, it has! That is where and how I separate fantasy and desire. I desire sucking a guy’s dick and eating his cum in reality but my fantasies and thoughts of those other situations will NEVER in my life occur simply because I don’t desire them to nor do I want them to be more than just fantasies. Sometimes fantasies are just better off staying as fantasies vs. realities. My desire to be orally bi waxes and wanes just like anything else in my life. Hey sometimes I like to ride my bicycle and sometimes I prefer to drive my car. It is simply about choices and the heat of the moment. There were times in my past, before my opening up to my bi-ness, that I use to like watching my ex-wife with other men and NEVER gave a thought of sucking him clean or eating her out after he came inside her. Now however! Well I’m sure you can see the picture here. So far my current wife and I have yet to explore my desires or hers but we are working on it and like me her ‘desires/choices’ come and go as well. I think it’s pretty much normal and to be honest wouldn’t change a thing!

You sure hit it on the head! LOL! I love sexual adventure and playing with another married man who feels the same way is fun. My wife isn't interested in swinging anymore and she's OK with me having a male FWB. She wouldn't be OK with me having a female FWB. If my wife were to want to join me again, and I still hold out hope, I'd be fine with only heterosexual swapping again. But if she wanted to try a MFM with a bi guy, absolutely! But, in thinking about your post, I'm not really bisexual at all.

I had to think about this one since I hadn't really thought about the taste. As a bi guy, something happens when the guy gets close to coming. I am so in tune to what he is feeling, having been there about a million times, that when he starts to ejaculate, I feel what he is feeling. i call it an oralgasm. When finished, I could go about my day as though I had an orgasm. But it seems like the sperm just slips down the throat and is gone before it's really noticed. It's really easy to swallow. it does however leave a lingering "afterfeeling" which some consider off putting.

We'd like to thank looking for using our quote, even though our thanks come a year late! For us it's always been about intimacy and sharing. There is nothing more arousing and intimate than sharing another man with her. Watching his cock slip into her mouth, or her pussy, going down on her while she's being fucked by another man, and enjoying the resulting orgasms of both. For us it is an intimacy, the connection between us, that we share. It can be an intimacy shared by the third, or it can be mainly an intimacy between us. I have shared sucking on a cock with her. She suggested it, inspired me, and helped me suck the man. It was quite obvious that it aroused her greatly. It aroused me also, being within that storm of sexual energy and intimacy. The man came in my mouth and my wife told me to swallow his cum. Of course I did, the sexuality of that moment was enough to ensure I would swallow. I found that the squirting of a cock in my mouth was very hot in and of itself, a male sexual intensity equivalent to the female sexual intensity of inspiring a woman's orgasm with my mouth, yet different and new. It aroused my wife so much that she became quite aggressive in fucking me. Yes, we've done it more than once. Does it mean I'm bi? Who cares! What it means for us is that there is new to share even when you think you've shared so much of what is possible within sexuality. It's always about sharing.

Love a facial shot, never know where it's gonna hit!

Creampie eating, licking cum off her breasts, and snowballing isn't really about the cum, or being bi in any form. It's all about intimacy, sharing such a closeness with your partner that her sexual experiences with another man can be a bond of intimacy between you. That the ultimate result of his orgasm with her can be shared between you, an intense connection, an act of serious intimacy even as you share others sexually. That level of intimacy makes sharing cum delicious!

I normally label myself just as bi-oral...love sucking dick and getting sucked by another guy as a change from a woman sometimes...but that's it. Not into anal, kissing, etc....just 69'ing and on my knees...jacking off together is fun too.