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The main reason for non orgasm in penetrative sex is the female anatomy. The G-spot is right behind the pubic bone and is mostly protected in downward thrusting. Doggy should get some contact but the woman will have to tighten her vagina to help achieve contact. No contact = no stimulation = no orgasm from there. A woman must have that contact. You can stimulate her prior to intercourse and change the angle of penetration with some degree of success. The Cowboy position will give her the best orgasm. If you have not seen the videos yet at rebootyoursexlife.com they are worth the time to watch. I have used the techniques on the wife and she now has whole body orgasms with aftershocks that are fun to trigger. Yes, they really do get the look the one girl gets in the video and she has a hard time standing after.

At one point I was very attracted to red headed girls. I high school I had a girlfriend, That was a fair redhead. I used to joke with her by asking if her collar and cuffs matched. I think she always teased me about it. Finally one day she said why don't we find out. Well her cuffs matched, or what she left there. She knew it was going to happen when I realized she had put a strawberry scent down there. She got hysterical laughing when she saw I was saying anything. I figured I wasn't the first guy she did this to. I admit she was very sexual and I enjoyed the time we dated. Yes redheads are attractive if they are real redheads. I really hate the dyed redheads or orange heads

The wife of the third couple that we first swung with started kissing Mrs Afterwork's nipples and they began to exchange those actions. As encounters increased Mrs Afterwork was the first to go down on the wife which became a 69 event. Eventually, the ladies would often keep things going while the guys recovered. Both enjoyed cream pies as yes,in those days, we were bareback. During one group grope, the husbands succumbed the the ladies demands to take turns with the ladies sharing the other husband to gauge the apprehension factor. The fellows found no apprehension with one swallowing a load on the very first attempt, but it wasn't and remains not a desire. Rather more of a participation that seems to really turn on the wives and is comfortable for the husbands. The guys have also become very comfortable masturbating each other while watching the ladies share double headed dildo. Sometimes it results in ejaculation rather than "maintenance" to be ready for the ladies. We have been with that same couple for decades and our practices remain the same. Guess we are bi-comfortable among the four of us for the fellows and the wives are very happily bi-comfortable with the other ladies during all swing situations. We seem to find that other couples seemingly are receptive to observing bi ladies, but we don't test the waters with bi males and thus far no other couples have broached the subject.

Truth to be known, the boss is probably fantasizing right about ten minutes after your interview...just sayin'

Well, what we've learned so far...only used one around base of penis...did seem to make erection harder (or was that wishful thinking on our part)... Couldn't really get it over scrotum and behind balls and over shaft but will try again, in hindsight best to try putting on out of a hot shower...if it's cold and the "boys" are clinging close to your body for warmth, makes it a little tougher to get on...lol Also, much easier if you were totally shaved down there which I'm not... This is probably one of the most boring posts ever...sorry...wish I had real exciting details to share but not as yet.

So I bought him a cock ring. Well, rings actually. A packet of rubber ones in various circumferences/sizes. Can only imagine what the guys that use the large one are carrying...lol...but that's a different conversation. Any way...no directions came with them... We're wondering which is best way...around the base of the penis...or over the base of the penis and then stretched over and behind his balls. Does one method work better than the other or does each have distinct advantages? Also, is it true it is best to remove right after orgasm to prevent any "problems"? Basically looking for something that will help a late 50's male stay harder longer... We would like to hear from the mature men in the crowd who have used them or have other ideas for "lasting longer". As for lasting longer, does stuff like Swiss Navy Endurance Spray 15Ml really work?

Body image issues is something I struggle with constantly. Even if she were willing to swing and find a playmate, it is only a temporary band-aid and it could actually make her feel worse in the end. The best way for her to feel better about herself is if she is able to recognize the problem and is willing to do something about it. For myself, I find that I feel much better about myself when I return to a regular exercise routine. Perhaps your wife might find it useful for her too and be physically active in something she enjoys.

**Tents fingers** The spider has become the fly. Exxxcellent.

*sigh* I was outed at work today...unsure how it came about, but certain (and have heard) everyone is talking about it. Isn't it a shame that others' lives are so boring that the most interesting thing they can talk about is mine? I wish it hadn't happened, I don't want to deal with it, not sure how it will affect me professionally, still absorbing / processing it.

We are Catholics and swingers. We believe strongly in our religion but don't feel that our sex life is a sin. As long as both partners remain honest with each other, commited to each other and true to themselves(hard to do I know) and all participating people are willing no sin is commited.