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Intuition, I like your empowerment speech for your girl. However, also be sure to tell her that SHE has to have the same considerations for her partners, too. It can never work if it is just one way.

The club is really great!! Clean, high energy dance club like vibe. The people are a little cliquish but I think you'll find that some everywhere. The crowd heats up later in the evening from my experience - so go early to get comfortable and stake out a good seat at the pit couches around the dance floor or at a table. The staff is super friendly and helpful.

I am sorry if my focus on the female side of things made it seem that I didn't believe the same of men. I think it's just that no one has been shy about encouraging men to find their power. Women, on the other hand, have generally (and historically) been encouraged to toe the line, not rock the boat, not make a scene, get along, roll with the punches, and above all please, please, please. That has been changing, but we still have a ways to go.

I was thinking males are gods too. A vessel of the mysteries of all things masculine, unique and beautiful and powerful. So get up off your knees and own your divinity. It does mean you find two people who understand how special being alive and sharing is.

We've always tried to normalize sex for our kids, but in a balanced way. Now that they're older, we're not shy about telling them to find someplace else to be for the weekend because things are going to get drunk and dirty. Photos might be taken. Which usually gets a reaction like, "Oh my God, that's gross. Yeah, I'll be at my friend's place, good luck with that. And stay the fuck off my bed." We're at a point where I can now give my daughter better advice about sex. Advice that isn't just "don't do it." It's more like, if you're going to do it, don't be stupid about it, and don't put up with a man who doesn't worship you like the goddess you are. And I try to remind her who and what she is: an actual goddess, a vessel of the mysteries of all things feminine, unique and beautiful and powerful. So get up off your knees and own your divinity, girl! Expect respect. Require it.

I am able to access. There are no uninteresting women; only those who do not know how to be interesting.

Maybe you were just unaware of this rule but fortunately you all have time to correct this. It's summer so you can put both to use as soon as you get either (or both). Speaking of non-swingers: Are we the only couple who spends too much time seeing various people in public and wondering if they would be interested in swinging and/or what they would look like naked (in a hot tub or a boat, of course)?

There is a gay B&B close to my place that hosts "Bi-Married Friday". For $20 the place is open from 11 to 3. The parking lot is packed on Fridays. They recently started doing every other Saturday as well and last week I saw an ad for Wednesday. There appears to be no shortage of married bi guys looking for an orgy. I hinted to the wife about the place but her reaction was really negative so I haven't joined them. Sounds like a blast to me!