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It's been a long time, so I don't remember the vows word for word, but I'm confident the word "sex" wasn't in there anywhere. They were pretty much the standard traditional vows, so there may have been a "forsaking all others" somewhere in there, but we get to define what that means, not you or anyone else. That would be another example of the complexity spoken of above that I think you are missing.

Coworkers and neighbors are off limits for swing activities in my world. If you want to sexplore, I'd do it outside your circle of coworkers.

Sad as it is this has been going on since the Internet started in all aspects of life and business. You have people putting up reviews of their self. You have clubs that will make "fake" names to make good reviews and also bad reviews of other businesses. I know a couple that has six profiles that have owned a couple of clubs in the past. They made great reviews for their places and would slam other clubs, some that they had never been too. I also see people that go to other clubs that have never been to any other club slamming other clubs on line. Sad that people feel the need to do any of this. Honesty seems to be something that is not so common in life or this Lifestyle these days.

Producing an ejaculation is not, in my mind, the goal of a meet-up. The goal is simply to have fun.

I recently posted a thread about the crush I've developed for my hot ass boss. It would be less tempting I think if it wasn't even in the realm of possibility. But the fact that, on our side at least, extra-marital adventures are not off the menu, it makes it that much harder to just put it from my mind. So I can empathize with your struggle here, LOL. As I mentioned there, I personally don't have an issue with playing with a coworker - or even my boss, for that matter - as long as everything was on the up and up, and I could be sure they could keep their shit together. I am 100% certain of my ability to keep a poker face at work, not panic at any insinuations by office mates, and know where the lines are drawn about hanky-panky around the office. Work and play would need to be totally compartmentalized, and my coworker/boss/whomever would need to understand that be able to keep up. If there were any doubt, I wouldn't do it, period. It may not be a popular stance, but the coworker's age is a bit of a red flag for me. It would depend on the person, as some 22-year-olds are more mature than others. But the simple truth is, they don't have the same life experience of someone even 10 years older. By that, I just mean that a 22-year-old is potentially a higher drama risk than someone who's been around the block a time or two. Your mileage may vary, of course.

A subform is not needed IMHO, discussions about gangbangs (and other specific themes that don't have their own forum) fit here well.

I'm in!!

I once had a beautiful co-worker. She was witty, intelligent, creative, and wise. Fortunately, we were both available so I married her. We spent almost thirty years together. At the time I was vice-president of the corporation and had a fast rule: Never date a co-worker. It took about an hour to decide that rule was a bad idea. Careful, Intuition!

I hear there's a couple of porn stars that attend one of the local clubs in Columbus Ohio...but never had the pleasure of making their acquaintance.

Our theory is that the facial accomplishes two things. First, it provides a visual effect that's difficult to accomplish any other way -- you see proof of the man's orgasm and you get to admire the woman's pretty face at the same time. Second, it symbolically represents unconditional acceptance of the man's semen. Semen is extremely important to every man, as it represents his virility, his masculinity and his very identity as a sexual being. Men spend a lot of time and effort (and money) expelling semen from their bodies, so to have a woman position her face (which represents her identity) at ground zero of his orgasm and have her accept his semen this way without reservation can be a huge turn-on for a man. All that said, we rarely do facials in private as we generally prefer oral finishes to chin-to-hairline facials. After all, there's less clean-up that way! Most of our encounters end with semen in the ladies' mouths, but if we're taking photos, we'll do facials at the end specifically for its visual effect.