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Ms. CC goes totally crazy watching me go down on another man, or him going down on me. We've made both wives watch before, and they both admitted it made them hotter than ever. But Ms. CC and I are both bi and know it. If the other couple are both bi (our preferred couple to be with) then all of us being together is about as natural as you can get since no one is hung up on accidently touching the other one in the wrong place. In fact, we have found if you stay with the same couple over a period of time, a really deep friendship develops.

Had bi sex with couples and it did not look like the men were very self conscious about their wifes watching or participating. Granted it was not the first experience for these couples, but they both seemed to enjoy watching me having sex with the guys and us enjoying each other. In one instance she was kissing me and I was sucking her boobs while he was going down on me...nothing better than that, a true 3-some.

Hi, Blake. There a lot of variables when it comes to having sex with a man. There's the level of attraction, physical and emotional, that can come to play. Those unmeasurable qualities can play a bigger part into the equation than the size of a man's penis. Second, have you heard the expression that it isn't the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean? A man can be "packing serious heat" but might not know how to use it during sex. They might not know how to maintain a rhythm or think that sticking it in is good enough. Or they might do that because their size actually hurts a lot of women so they have learned to be careful. Third, dildos feel different from real penises no matter what. I find dildos to be mostly be too rigid and prefer having a man on top of me for many reasons. Fourth, fantasy is different from reality. Some fantasies won't go any further because it isn't safe or logically possible or the person just wants it to stay that way. In fantasy, you can have the person look exactly how you want them to, act the way you want them to, and they won't disappoint you...for some, when they experience a fantasy for real, they sometimes wish they didn't. Your wife, when she is ready, will undoubtedly have situations when she will enjoy herself and others that won't be as much. There are women who are "size queens" and seek out only well-endowed men but I think a lot more women prefer more of a well rounded "person package" where penis size is much lower on the priority list.

What a crazy night, full of surprises and emotions. It was like riding a Rollercoaster, there were ups and downs throughout the night.

Hi everyone, my wife and I are very open sexually, there is probably little that we haven't tried or talked about, and we both love sex. We are stable, with some problems in the past, but we have moved past that and are very happy together. We communicate very well, and have no issues telling each other our desires. First thing first, we do have experience with fmf threesomes, we had one friend that we had threesomes with for almost a year, at least once or twice a month, then we had a threesome with another woman one time. My wife is pretty bi curious and loves being with women, I have always been open with this and I have always told her that I don't have to be present if she wants a women on her own. She's not up for that though, she would rather have me there and have a threesome with it, which I am ok with as well. We have recently talked about swinging, and we are both open to it and excited, but I personally think that we should find a single man and have a mfm threesome first, just to make sure that we can handle it, as I would prefer to take part with her and another man in a straight mfm threesome, not only does the idea turn us both on, but she doesn't want to play with a women without me, and I don't think that I'm comfortable with her playing with a man without me, at least not yet. My question is, should we find a single man and have a mfm threesome before trying to meet couples, or should we find a couple first, and hope that they are ok with the man joining us, which would be safer and have a better chance of everyone having fun?

I had my first MM bi experience last weekend. It was with a couple we are very comfortable with, and with whom we've played many times. All four of us were together in a playroom. Mrs. CoupleInMD was curious to see how she would like the sight of me sucking a cock or getting mine sucked by a guy. It turned out that she "kinda liked" that view (we already knew that the other woman goes ga-ga over that sight)! I wanted to know how the Mrs. felt about it, because we would not engage in any activity that either of us is uncomfortable with, including this.

Intense sex (rolling around naked, jerking, sucking, LOTS of body contact, licking, etc) with a bi male while his wife watches is the hottest thing ever! Last time I was with a bi couple, I was pounding him, slapping his ass while she masturbated and told him to keep taking that cock like a little bitch. Amazing sex.

Ms CC and I used to get jealous over the simplest of things. Is my cock too small, does he do oral better than I, is she tighter and feel better, can she perform oral better and a thousand other questions. I guess for your first time, it is natural to ask since you now have someone else to compare yourself too. A couple is used to each others styles, techniques and methods. Bring in that first 3rd person and all of a sudden things change. Swinging can strengthen or destroy a marriage. And I guess most couples start out with 3somes. Not to say that is a bad thing, but we have made it a habit to set rules and never ever break them. Three basic rules we have, have served us well over time. 1. If either oppose for any reason, nothing happens. We don't try to talk the other into it, no matter what. We may discuss it later to find out why, but we never break that rule. 2. We never compare or compete against the other. We have had MMF and FMF 3somes. If another male is brought in, I don't compare or ask about his style, technique, size, endurance, etc... Nor does Ms CC ask about her "competition" since that is not what this is all about. For this reason, we generally tend to stay with couples and make friends first. This isn't supposed to be a fuck fest. We don't view swinging as how many guys she can let fuck her, or about how much pussy I can get. Our general attitude is, swinging MAY be a natural progression with another couple IF and only IF things take that direction. We both have to genuinely like the other couple - both of them. 3. Each reserves the right to call it off at anytime, even if in the middle of it all...no questions asked.

You are all entitled to you opinions

I do not like dildos and I can't come from them, but I can come from men all sorts of sizes fucking me. I think it's a completely different experience and really, like Sun said, depends on the man attached to the cock. I also have to say that I can make myself come reliably very quickly because my own brain, hand and nerves are working together. It's very different when someone else is involved. I think that's true for most people. So, just because your wife loves they way she uses a dildo on herself doesn't mean she'd like it attached to someone else.

In both cases, you weren't particularly interested in the other female, so it doesn't seem like this phenomenon is worth analyzing too deeply. Perhaps you've unconsciously developed a way discourage couples that aren't a good match? Or perhaps the other ladies coincidentally used the same excuse to indicate they weren't interested in you, either? Regardless, there's no real cause for concern unless this starts happening with couples you do like. However, one statement in your original post stands out... If you think this approach is turning off other couples, just dial things back a bit and see if you get different results, or, just keep meeting new couples until you and your lady finally meet one that does appreciate this part of your personality.

I believe we've said it before but just to make sure we did: This is a matter of numbers. At the current estimated average there are 2-5% of the population who consider themselves 'swingers'. If you live in a big city, that can be a swingers 'pool' of several thousand other people that you get to search through. If you are not in a big city, that can be a couple of hundred people of all ages, race, and backgrounds. Limit that by trying to find a couple that you feel a connection with makes the number in the 10's or less. Not an easy task...If you ever make it up to Sacramento, we all need to go out for dinner and just talk. Yes, that's an invitation.

Earlier in this thread there was a question on the sensation after swallowing cum, called numb or tingling. Cum tends to be alkaline (as opposed to acid) much like mints can be alkaline. That feeling comes from the change in your mouth and throat's PH as a result of the cum. I feel a similar but often stronger tingle after eating mint such as chocolate covered mints. Pussies tend to be slightly acid, so the mixture of cum and pussy juice is a perfect balance.

It happened so fast i was kind of taken back at first. We had a couple of drinks then had a nice light dinner. Then we sat in his living room and she was drinking another glass of wine. He asked me to switch spots with him and the next thing I knew I was sitting across from them and they were kissing. Ten minutes later we were in his bedroom and all I could do was watch. I was totally shocked at how fast everything was happening. I don't even remember taking my clothes off. He was all over my wife and she was all over him. Watching him go down on her was a sight to see and he is an expert at it. The most incredible thing of the night was watching him enter her the first time. I was amazed how fast she was able to take him, and I have to admit I felt a little insecure about my size compared to him.

I told my cousin about your post. She enjoys giving blowjobs but not letting her man cum in her mouth. They have played with couples but never with bi-males in the couple. I told her about your post and she loved it! They are busy seeking couples with bi males now. He husband said he didn't care who was sucking him as long as he could cum in their mouth it'd be awesome. They are so hot about it my cousin said they have had sex 13 times since your post. Too funny! She said she didn't even care if he husband returned the favor and as a matter of fact finds it very erotic and they have never talked about bi sex. Now what I want to know is about the topping. Can you pm me with those details? How did it come about, etc.? Please don't post here - pm me. I do not want to hijack the thread.

Oh my goodness I want to be right there when and if it ever happens. I do not want to miss a single minute of anything my husband does sexually.

Both of the guys I have had sex with have been friends that my wife and I have had MMF threesomes with so she thoroughly approves and actually enjoys it. With my wife's approval and encouragement, I have played with both of these male friends both individually or as a MMM threesomes or a MMMF foursome with my wife.

I was present when hubby had his first bi experience. My role was to watch only; that was his request and I was happy for him to set the tone for that play meet because I wanted him to be happy with what he was doing. We talked about it at great lengths, about what he wanted to try, who he wanted to have his experience with, what I was to and what I wasn't to do, even how we would feel if either of us did not like the experience or even if we did. To my surprise, I loved every minute of watching him play with another man right in front of me. I was pleasantly surprised by how aroused it made me and I was proud that he handled it so well. Afterwards on the drive home we joked about how he could finally appreciate what I enjoy about going down on a guy....:-) I have since seen him play with another guy in front of me. It was a MMF, but at times they played together right in front of me and I was not always involved. It was hot to say the least. And personally, I can't wait to play like that again if and when the time arises. :-)

For us, perhaps the biggest part of the experience is how excited she gets when she watches me with another man... she gets so wet, and can't keep her hands off herself. She also likes to get in the on the action and will sometimes wear one of her harnesses and cocks and have the guys suck her "cock" as well. So much of sex is mental as well as physical.

I played with a bi husband once whose wife wasn't into watching two men. She encouraged him to embrace his bisexuality and didn't mind if we played alone w/out her. That was kinda fun for me. Felt naughty even though she knew.

You are so right. I remember her not wanting to watch me with other women. As much as I loved watching her with other men, we usually went to separate rooms or at least areas of a room. As much as I'd want to go down on her after another man had been with her, or taste her on another man's cock, I'd probably refrain and just enjoy the other man when we were alone. But, of course, I'd ask her what she'd prefer.