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A lot has happened in the last ten days. I showed my blog and comments to my hubby. He was so surprised and excited, he said, “Why did you not tell me earlier, we wasted so much of time” We both were so excited that most nights we kept awake till well past midnight. The very first night, we talked and talked. We surfed so many websites. We even put in our profile at different websites. We emailed to some of the couples and thereafter even met a couple but did not find them compatible On my suggestion he emailed the couple with whom we had SRSP. We got a prompt reply from them; they said that they had relocated to another town, not very far from us. However, they said that they were open to our suggestion to get together; they invited us and said if we can not travel, they can come down here. This Friday night they were here. It all went on very well. We decided on same room. However, when it came to sex, hubby noticed some hesitation in me to have sex in front of him, so he said that they are moving to the other room and they left us to ourselves. After that there was no problem what so ever. We got together again at four in the morning We both are now in such a heightened state of sexual excitement. We are unable to think of anything other than sex. I don’t know what the future has for us

Wow!! Had an amazing weekend!! We had a great time. I was so happy to find that the people at this club were so newbie friendly. Many people made a special trip over to chat with us. Great great people. We did play our first night. And loved it. I think we may be hooked!! Thanks to all of you for answering my questions.

I know you are trying to be nice, but that is the kind of thing that irritates girls in the lifestyle, ie. implying you are better, more willing, more open-minded than someone's husband. As I stated, it's not something he'd be appalled at, it's not something that could happen and I do share the majority of my fantasies.

We love sex, swinging and feeling our sexual partners bareback including creampies and sloppy seconds. "Working" with condoms and try to enjoy getting pleasure with half erected cocks is for us seconds class sex , which may be necessary for sailors and prostitutes but not for regular couples in happy marriages without bi husbands. Either we exchange all liquids or no liquids = no sex. If we think contact with other person can lead to STD, we avoid any contact. Therefore we never go to swinger clubs and never fuck in darkrooms with unknown people. We are care about quality ans not quantity. We do not feel the pressure to permanently fuck fresh bodies every weekend in clubs. During the last ten years, we were swinging around with 10 couples bareback and either we or one these couples had never a STD. We had only first class sex with hard cocks and many creampies & sloppy seconds. Less is often much more... Are they any other couples with similar preferences here ? Sorry for our English and greetings from Switzerland / Europe

Sounds like you know what works for you. Others will still see First Class Sex with a condom. A label is yours to define but expect others to have their own too.

Greetings from another part of Europe. Welcome to this forum! You said: I disagree. I'm not a sailor nor bi, MsDiscover is not a prostitute and our relationship is a very happy one. And we are happy condom-users. My wife reacts very badly on any birth control containing hormones (pill, nuvaring etc etc) and libido was basically below zero. Then we decided to stop her taking birth control and I started to use condoms. Which was not a great success because of the feeling or handling but once we discovered XL condoms that fitted me well, it turned out to be wonderful. Libido was back in the meantime and the fucking itself was almost as good as bare, especially when I discovered to add a drop of lubricant on the inside. When we decided we don't want to have another kid, I had my surgery and now we can fuck without condoms. However, we still use them once in a while, for anal (making anal to mouth easy and clean) or oral. Or to have sex in inconvenient places like while camping etc., so MsDiscover stays clean. No problems for me. As far as your question: no, we don't have the same preference. For intercourse with people outside our relation, we always would use condoms. The health risks as simply to big, especially HIV. Only using the judgment (how?) 'if contact with other persons can lead to STD' offers far too less security for us. MrDiscover