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Ok, what about in a public setting? How many ppl like to show their goods maybe a lil up skirt action or some obvious "you want someone to notice" you being naughty activity? Then on the other side, how many ppl like to look for those kind of activities going on? For myself, I know I love to see a glimpse of panties or some ass cheeks hanging out of the back of some short shorts. I also love it when SSW wears something that can be revealing at times. I just love it when other men look at her!!

Long ago, hubby and I agreed that if one of us was ever in the situation where we really wanted to have sex with someone else, it was ok. No prior approval, no notification, no subsequent debriefing required. We talk about (and listen to) sex in the same way we talk about everything else in our marriage. Sometimes all the details about the day at work, sometimes hardly any. Sometimes I describe a sexual interlude that I had with Red in detail, other times I mention it in passing. Or hubby will ask if I fucked Red, or whether Clair and I went down on each other today, just because he wants to know. P.S. I've never used the hall pass. I'd be surprised if hubby has either, he doesn't hide anything, but it doesn't matter.

Fundamental, you have a good point. However, I'd like to point out that she only stated that she found out a year ago that he had been cheating. We don't know if perhaps he had been cheating for the entire 7 years (perhaps more or perhaps less), if it only began a year ago, or if she even knows how long the cheating lasted. No matter what, some honest, non-judging communication needs to take place between them to figure out the root of what is going on and what needs to be done...whether it is to stay together or not.