I remember going to a club in Toronto once and met this woman in the ladies room. She was rather plain, and stood a good 6 feet tall. She was what you might call big-boned. Amazonian stature. The polar opposite of petite, cute or delicate. But she was wearing this GORGEOUS gold lace gown and heels and she exuded a powerful, confident femininity that oozed sexiness. She had presence. She glowed. Her size was just a number, and it didn't matter. What impressed me about her was this shining happiness and confidence that said, "What man wouldn't be drawn to me??" It was magnetic. And anyone who was blind enough to not see it wasn't worth her time. Be that woman. Find that goddess in yourself and let it out for others to see. When you are your genuine self this way, it gives others permission to do the same. It draws people to you.
UPDATE: Okay just read the last post. I'm so sorry to hear that, 911Junkies! One of the things about the LS is that it's harsh that way. Don't take it personally. Other people are imperfect, they have their insecurities and weird preferences. And sometimes there's just no chemistry. I mean, we have to do what we can with what we've got, but no one is everyone's type. Chalk it up to experience and try again, seriously. Dust yourself off, lick your wounds a little if you like (because it sucks to be rejected), but get back in the saddle. If for nothing else, to say you did it. Get dolled up and go to a club and shake what your momma gave ya. Everyone is someone's type, you just didn't find it this time.