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Hi Glida! I'm a nudist & I LOVE it! I had been getting invited to a nudist resort for 10 years & always declined saying "I don't want to see myself naked, much less anyone else!" Finally I decided to give it a shot & my only regret is not doing it a decade earlier! After about 35 seconds of my arrival I was naked feeling free, liberated & natural! I met all sorts of wonderfully kind people of all shapes & sizes. I'm a rather curvy, busty gal so when I'm clothed many people talk only to my chest. The most interesting thing I discovered was that more people spoke to me while I was naked, not my boobs. I was astounded so I asked one of my new friends why this was. He told me that when I'm clothed he had to wonder what I looked like naked. While naked he saw "the goods" & could instead focus on learning about me. How wonderful that was! The one question I'm always asked is "Aren't the just a bunch of erect dicks walking around?" Well I've been going for about 4 years & I have only seen that happen once. He simply excused himself, wrapped a towel around his waist & went to take a dip in the pool. No one even seemed to notice. I was at the beach one day & a young girl (9 or 10 maybe) was playing in the sand. She was looking for someone to play with so I sat in the sand & helped her build a castle. She was completely free, liberated & natural, not caring one bit that we were both naked. We had fun building her castle, playing in the water, all with her parents laying on chairs nearby. It was a family, friendly resort with no overt sexual activity allowed (behind closed doors only) so it was a completely natural & welcoming environment. The American Association for Nudist Recreation (AANR) has a terrific website with a resort locator that should be helpful to you. You can find resorts in your area simply by entering your zip code. Visit it at aanr.com. Obviously I highly recommend visiting a nude beach! I've never felt anyone was just looking at me, even as a single gal. I simply felt free, liberated & natural. Enjoy it! After all it is how we came into this world & how we'll go out so why not spend most of our life that way!

I'm from the UK but we live in Israel (Mr Glida is Israeli)...we've only ever played in Israel so I can't compare but I will say here, people seem to be very open and casual about playing,we have never met a couple with 'rules' like no kissing which I've heard is a rule for some but certainly not here. you are either a soft swap or full swap! Or perhaps there is no rule about asking before touching There are two kinds of parties here, one where everybody gets to know everybody else and can be selective or even just meet other couples, swap details and meet them again...like a way of just meeting people if you don't want to play that night...And other get-togethers where it's everybody with everybody no questions asked. Here there would be no 'asking before touching' it would just be assumed that you're fair game...I was at one party once where we had meet another couple and the 4 of us had gone to a separate room to be a little more intimate and after about 10 minutes, one guy walks in, takes off his shirt and just starts kissing the other girl....his partner was nowhere to be seen, he just felt like playing with the lovely blonde lady....now! Organized parties here a few and far between, and the protocol is that if you are at a party and feel like playing that you are not allowed to enter the play rooms without a partner, you can only go in as a couple (unless you are a woman) I don't know how it is in other countries.... There aren't many clubs and organized parties here so most swingers have private parties in their homes, it's hit and miss really what you find once you get there. And soooo many fakes, people who send other people pictures, people lying about their marital status, some people just want to get laid so they bring along a casual girlfriend who will pretend to be the wife for the evening, just so he can 'get his rocks off' because all of us swingers must be 'easy' and up for it. You do meet lovely couples, genuine, fun and 'together' but you need to do a lot of filtering first!

Key points--it's natural, people come in two basic forms, no one wears a bathing suit to take a bath so who really wants to wear a swimsuit to swim?

We go to the local nude beach a few times each summer. It's not a huge difference to us. We hardly notice anymore. It's wonderful to sit out with your friends enjoying a warm day and a cold beer!

My wife and I have been nudists for over 40 years so we get naked as often as possible, be it at a nudist resort, a clothing optional beach, a secluded park, or with a group of like minded people at their homes.

Swimming suits are icky wet, that why we only swing when we can do it naked. Naked beach, pool or hot tub. It did guarantee the kids never left the house when we were in the hot tub. As according the them they wanted to avoid being scared for life. It's just skin.

Chocolate.

I'm a bottom but versatile with men. Love oral, particularly messy, deep-throat face fucking (I'm very good at it, as anyone can be with desire and practice). Anal takes more work, but I love it as well. I'm dom with women, but sub with men. Many men aren't submissive (which is great - more tops for me). A high item on my bucket list is getting it deep, fast and hard from both ends. Yummmeee !!!

My wife and I both have quite a semen fetish. We like to see and feel it inside and outside each other and we've discussed at great length and detail how we want other men to fill us and coat us. The more the better. She agreed that the more cum on us and in us, the better it is. She even confided in me that she has a strong desire in getting knocked up by another man while I watch. She really (pleasantly) surprised me with that one! -- That's a subject for another thread (if not an entirely different forum), though. We both like cum, but I believe I'm more comfortable with it than she is. She doesn't like the smell or want it in her mouth. It totally turns her off. I, however, like every aspect of it. In me, in her, on me, on her. As long as there's lots to play with. We both though it would be fun to try Bukkake. Fun, fun, fun!

We agree that cum is a sexy thing to play with. He likes to lick cum off her body. He has also had a guy cum in his mouth. However, much like the original poster, he's not much interested in a "traditional" gay relationship but more as an additive to our intimate relationship.