Comfort and safety are important to the game. Play with whom you will, but just don't be rude to the ones you have no interest in. There was a time where the Mrs liked the guy but neither of us were thrilled by the lady. I went out of my comfort zone to make things good for the Mrs and found that my initial thoughts about the lady were inaccurate. Making things great for the ladies comes first because if she's happy we may play more often.