Hi. First, welcome. Second, I am sorry your first swap went badly. Third, have some questions:
- What drew you to swinging?
- What other experience do you have with swinging sex?
- Did the other couple know of your no-kissing rule?
- How much of your desire to break up stems from your inability to maintain an erection (I'm not being bitchy here, but I do think it's important to think about whether you'd be having issues if you had had a good experience)?