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I think your friends are swingers with very little experience and are not exactly sure how to approach you or they are "wanna be" swingers and have found a couple they want to experiment with and are still not sure how to approach you. I think your first step is to decide if you two are interested in swinging, whether it be soft swing of full swing. Then if you are interested, I would pop the question to them and find out for sure. However, if you are not interested, I think you should let them know that their sexual flirting is making you uncomfortable and you hope you are not hurting their feelings, but please stop.

I've been bi since the first time I played doctor with another boy. I have always been infatuated with girls, then women, but the taboo of a penis turned me on, even when I was terrified of the thought of it. When I met my wife I was starting to understand that at least a part of me was bi and that the few experiences as a teen weren't just random. As we continued on our sexual exploration into group sex, little by little I dared to try new things, and discovered that there is a degree of m/m play I enjoy. I am getting a little bolder all the while and have a great group of LS friends who are all pretty open minded, and so far I think I know this about myself: I am turned on by cock more so than by men. I know when a man is generally attractive but I don't feel attracted to men on the street, but get them naked and in a group sex environment and I crave tasting my wife on their todger! Also I've always loved porn, from too young an age as I should have found it, and in recent years the content I like has become more varied. Bi porn has become a staple in our masturbation, and as we look for future MFM partners we have put more of an emphasis on finding bi guys to join us, just so the option is there to explore further. So, to answer the question... finally, yeah, I am still learning to enjoy being bi!