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My husband and I posted about Clubs in a different area. We are talking about on-premise. There are serveral reasons for this. 1. The kids issue-it is very difficult for us to get a baby sitter, so if we want to play, we have one night maybe once everyother month if we are lucky 2. It would seem that if you went to off-prem and meet a couple and suppose you all went back to your hotel and nothing happens (I don't want to sound crass, but if we have payed a babysitter to stay all night and a hotel we want to make sure that we are truley doing what we want that night) 3. We are only going with soft swing in mind and feel that this might be the best environment for us to play in for now. We don't want "relationships" maybe friends someday but for now we just want to give it a try no strings attached. However I will say that after reading these post I am afraid I will walk into a club with my eyes looking huge. How do you take it all in and process quickly enough so that no one can tell that you are new to the whole lifestyle?