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The two, IMO are very different. I am not saying you are, but hiding behind a computer screen is very different to physically getting to a club and being intimate with a) each other in front of people b) with other people in a club or c) bringing someone in to your own bed. I would discuss it with her, if she has taken baby steps with the cam, she may be open to it... I would just be careful that you don't let your own desires push her to the point where she does it to make you happy and not because she wants to. It is great fun, and I have met great people.. If you find a club out of town, you can say that you will go to have a look, and see what happens and the only promise you make is that if either one of you feels uncomfortable or unhappy with the situation, you leave Just my thoughts! I am sure more experienced members will chime in

I would recommend that you continue giving attention to your swapped partner. Girls can stay entertained by more things than just a stiff dick. Fingers and tongues and nibbles on nipples can keep the pot boiling and even make a woman boil over again. You might loose interest, but she doesn't. Treat her well and she'll be on the phone wanting more again the next weekend.

Just as an aside there have been times in my marriage where I have had bags packed, stayed elsewhere, stormed out the door, looked for a divorce lawyer, swore I'd never spend another moment with her and on and on. I can also tell you she's hit the same points. Yet over and over we've managed to pull it out of the fire and now have 26 years under the belt. It's not up to you to judge where they are in their marriage or it's current state. Ethical swingers NEVER intrude in a marriage unless invited by all parties. Even if invited to a marriage that is in obvious distress they should decline.