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I love my husband. I don't love my friends I have sex with. I do cuddle, kiss, fuck etc, everyone essentially in the same manner. There was a man I was very fond of and considered a boyfriend, and currently a girl I am very fond of and consider a girlfriend. I still don't love them the way I love my husband. I have a commitment, a family and a life with my husband.

I started researching swinging when my wife's coworker suggested it to her. After researching it, we decided it wasn't for us. Being something of the nerdy type, I tend to research things to death anyway. I really appreciated hearing the negative as well as the positive. From reading the stuff online about swinging, it's obvious some people just want to talk about the upside. I'm sure a lot of those people have some kind of financial interest in swinging. What attracted me to this board was the open and frank conversations. "These are the upsides, but these are the risks." I once heard counseling defined as "Sitting face to face with someone and hearing things that aren't very pleasant to hear." Obviously, I know the forums aren't a therapy session, but I respect you and the other members here for having the guts to tell people stuff they don't want to hear. It is painfully obvious that a lot of the so called information boards tell people what they want to hear, not what they need to hear.