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You were right to call a break. And you should stand steadfast in that decision as I believe you will. Your wife's attitude is of concern though. One thing in this LS is that everyone is responsible for their ability to say yes as is their ability to say no. It is also the responsibility if everyone to know when it's time to step back and to know what is important for them, but not at the cost of another persons' relationship or their well being. Your wife is not being responsible because she is acting like a spoiled child. Thankfully, you are making a sound decision that is in the best interests of your relationship as well as for yourself and I hope, after some time away from this other couple, your wife will eventually see the benefit in taking a break. After all, the LS is not the place to lose your head like a silly little school girl...this is real life stuff with real people and real relationships. It should be fun, not a chore. And it should enhance our lives, not bring them crashing down into ruins. Best of luck with everything, the break will be hard for everyone, but a necessary one judging everything that has happened so far and what has been felt and said. Take care of yourself and your relationship.