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Dec 17 * our weekend with Tom and Carol This is the Monday after a weekend that may have changed our lives completely. Or not. A weekend that threw us sailing through the air, topsy-turvy, and let left us with our fee firmly on the ground. A weekend so moving, I had to relate the story of it, but not a story that could be told to our pastor, a neighbor, a relative. So I've come here to tell our story. In part, to get it off my chest. And in part to look for advice and guidance from this curious and wonderful community of the Swinger's Board, that we know nothing about and where we're very unsure if we belong. (You can help us judge that.) So here I am, the "I" of Bob and I, to tell our tale. I'm relating it here a week late, because after I promptly submitted to the Erotic Stories section, it has just sat there, unpublished. (Maybe I pressed the wrong button to post it, I don't know.) But since I found a dead end in the stories section, I'll try writing it here where it says "Want to share your experience? But not up for writing out a story, share it here." This is a week-old story, written without knowing if there would be another weekend to follow. But there was and so I'll send that in shortly. Here goes, Our Weekend with Tom and Carol, a weekend that began to change our lives. = = = = = = = = After a very active Saturday, my husband Bob and I and our close friends Tom and Carol were sitting quietly in our hot tub, looking at the stars twinkling in the dark. Rather than chatting, we all sat calm and absorbed. Then I noticed that Carol was quietly masturbating. The boys noticed it too, even though she was being quite discreet. "Sorry," Carol said, "I just can't help it" as she went on with it. My Bob, naturally enough, got an erection and I reached over began to fondle him. I could see Carol quietly coming to her climax and soon my Bob began to spurt too. I leaned over and licked him off; I love having him in my mouth. After a moment, Carol turned herself around facing her rear to her husband and Tom began to mount her, doggy style. At this point I was the only one who wasn't getting any, so I sat up on the edge of the hot tub, spread my legs and pointed to Bob to go down on me * which he likes to do and is pretty good at. After we'd all come, we all sat there and shyly looked at each other. As couples we spent a lot of time together, but had never done anything sexual. It was striking that there was no sense of embarrassment among us. By mutual agreement, we decided to try spending the night with each other's spouses. An experiment. We agreed that if anyone started to feel uncomfortable, we'd go back to our partners and forget about the whole thing. I took Tom by the hand and led him to our spare bedroom while Bob took Carol to our room. I had the most amazing orgasm that night and nearly as good a one the next morning. And I know why. It's not that Tom is terribly special in bed; it's because I hadn't had a new lover since dating days in school. It was a thrill. While fixing breakfast the next morning I thought about how great it was to now have two lovers. Carol was thinking the same thing and actually said it to me. We gave each other hugs. When we served up breakfast to the guys, they both had smiles on their faces. This made me happy. If they'd been smirking, I think that would have killed the whole deal right there. But nobody was smirking and nobody was showing any morning-after regrets. I think we were in some kind of heaven. The four of us spent what was for us a typical Sunday together; backyard Frisbee, barbecuing and such. Mid morning Bob and I went off together to make love and demonstrate to ourselves our love and affection for each other. Mid afternoon we had sex with our new lovers. After dinner we had sort of a round-robin in the hot tub. And then Tom and Carol drove home. I don't know how long this new affair will keep on. It might be just another weekend or two. Or never again. Or it might last for months and years, I don't know. But for now, for me, it's some kind of heaven. Really. Is this usual? Is this what happens with people who begin this "swinging" thing? Tell us, we need to learn from you.

On a related post, everyone talked about dp (simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration) and how awkward or great it was, but noone discussed a simple way to do it: Susan here--okay, I've done this my share of times but I enjoy it and I'm 'built for speed' as they say. I only do this with men I know well, who know my body well. Here's one recipe: It really helps if the guys have flat stomachs, or close, because 'reach' does matter. Okay, one man is on his back at the edge of the bed, his legs hanging over. I straddle him, my butt even with the plane of the edge of the bed. I don't enter the man I've straddled yet. The other man is standing behind me. With plenty of lube he pushes his cock gently against my ass. I relax and push back into him at my pace. This is much better than having the man enter you at an uncertain pace. Then we position forward and have the man I'm straddling enter me vaginally. The three of us are positioned well, they're both inside me and the gentle pace of fucking begins. I'm typically completely leaned over and embracing the man underneath me. This gives great 'lines' for being pumped anally and vaginally at the same time. It's always an incredible ride for me.

This will be embarrassing to write but I feel it needs to be said- Please read this before you try DP From a woman's standpoint I will tell you it is/was my fantasy... I love being with Mr. Body with a vibrator in one place and him in another... It is mind blowing when both your derrière and your vagina cum at the same time...and I have always like anal sex with Mr. Bodyscape (more than he does actually) , I think it is the one thing he had not tried until he met me... lol In so far a surprises...well on my end (pun intended) I really prepare. I shave, take a laxative the night before and do an enema and insert anal lube and make sure I have lubricated condoms . I want everyone to have good clean fun and it puts me at ease. In a dp... I would suggest you never ...never... let anyone in the backdoor ...other than your mate. WHY? Well, it is something I can no longer engage in due to a very ignorant and rude single male we partied with. I explained that I liked DP; but you have go SLOW and let me control it... and I will invite you. Well there I am enjoying riding Mr.Bodyscape and facing him in a chair...this man comes up behind me and rams me in the derrière. I had not prepared, I did not invite him to do it, and there was no lubrication on his condom and he went full in- in one hard stroke. Needless to say, I was injured, he broke blood vessels ripped the inside of my anus and it caused me great pain for months and will never heal ( it is a stabbing pain that will come out of now where and blood vessel issues if I am not very, very careful). I babied it for months and then I wanted to try it with Mr. Bodyscape again recently- when I prepared and we tried a vibrator in my derrière again (after 5 months) the pain is excruciating... and surgery may well be in my future. To top it off this moron asked us to provide him with a certification on sls. So there goes my fantasy right out the window. And the moral of this story kiddies? The discrepancy between a tender lover and someone who is out to fuck you makes all the difference in the world when dealing with this. And don’t worry, I will be OK .