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That is very disappointing to hear. I feel that in a healthy relationship if one partner is uncomfortable with the fantasies and desires of the other that no one would be forced to do something they aren't ready for. I think that both my wife and I would be happy to keep something a fantasy if either one of us were uncomfortable. The concept that someone can't control their sexual urges is bullshit. That is just a way to paint yourself as a victim and remove blame. "I couldn't help it, my desire was too strong" "If you were more supportive I wouldn't have had to cheat on you" Pure crap.

This is not necessarily true. Counselors who are members of AASECT AASECT :: American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators & Therapists are particularly well-equipped to counsel couples who are swingers or interested in swinging.