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I have two responses to this. First, my read has been of the folks that have responded, the majority is split between the "I don't do it, never would" crowd and the "I don't do it, or only occasionally, but don't have any real problem with those who do it casually." And then there's a minority of people who actively smoke who respond. A vocal few who are adamantly against is is hardly a majority. Telling them that they're just uptight probably won't change their minds any. Second, it seems like a lot of folks whose personal preferences are gone against by some number of respondants drag out the old "swingers are supposed to be so open minded" response. Well, I'm here to tell you that's a load of crap. As a whole swingers are no more open minded than the rest of society. Merely going against a social norm in no way makes someone "open minded." Swinging may attract a large cross section of white middle class society, but they often have little in common other than swinging. Most swingers either don't talk much about their beliefs, or they seek out other swingers who share their beliefs.

When a child sees its mother apparently having sex with a stranger,this is the kind of activity which gives Swinging a bad name.Not to speak of the effect it can have on the child.