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Hate to burst your bubble, but if it didn't happen at Desire, either Hedo or Temptations (or any type of resort like that), it probably isn't going to happen. IMHO it sounds much more built up in your head than hers, and she is trying to keep you interested by mentioning fantasies, but it probably won't go further than that. Our first foray in the lifestyle after getting a few years of FF hints was a trip to Hedo III; my idea, but to satisfy her curiosity (which she didn't reality admit at the time). It was do or die time, and she did without encouragement from me (ok maybe a little from Senior Sambuca) but nonetheless she took to it like a fish to water.

Your right on here I am not sure how to really approach this, when I first told her early on when dating about how I would love to watch her with a another guy, she was offended and border line pissed, she said she was very confused why I would want to see her in action with another guy. I just explained how it turned me on. Sense then we have had a couple good conversations out of the bedroom about it and she has seemed to really open up and talk about it more as well as now we occasionally tease each other in and out of the bedroom on introducing a extra male at times. We have had a few very good conversations in the last few years. It has gone from "No way and offended" to, "if she wasn't in a serious relationship she would do it without a second thought" "she didn't think she could ever do that", then it was its "your fantasy", the one we had a few weeks ago was she couldn't do it with any of my buddies and not with anyone from the town we live in My personal take this goes from she is willing to test the waters but not with any of my buddies ( that is fine with me don't want one any of my buddies involved) But then at times I think its just my wanting to that I miss understand that maybe she is just playing along with the fantasy. Yes we need a good sit down chat about it to find out what her thoughts are, as well as to reassure her that I love her no matter what direction it takes, and that our relationship is all that matters. Over the last year she has really seemed to open up and express her desires more, We were chatting one afternoon and the topic of watching porn had come up , I asked her if she ever watched the porn tapes that we have and she admitted she watches them fairly often when she masturbates, I was kinda shocked i had no idea she ever got them out on her own and watched them. I don't want to push her into anything so I am just taking it slow but at the same time looking for how others had gotten past if this point if at all.