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Our take on the Bi, Bi-curious and Straight question is this: If you are straight, play only with the opposite sex and have no interest in the same sex, You are STRAIGHT! If you are Bi-curious, play with the same sex 2-3 times, decide it is not for you, you are Straight. However, if you play with the same sex 2-3 times, enjoy it for your own personal reasons and not just to please others, you are no longer curious. The curious portion of the label should be removed. HOWEVER!!! If you are into the opposite sex more and only enjoy the same sex as an appetizer (so to speak) then you are Bi-comfy or Bi-tolerant. If you are equally attracted to both sexes, you are simply Bi. The best way to find out if you are truly Bi would be to have an experience with the same sex and no interaction with the opposite sex in that event. If you walk away feeling satisfied...Well, you are most assuredly Bi. Perhaps the owners of the swingers sites could add the options for Bi-comfy or Bi-situational and even Bi-tolerant. A few other options could not hurt. It would also save on the profile size. HA HA HA! Like our profile is short! HA HA HA! Again, this is just our .02

In my opinion, ass sex can be rather exciting and fulfilling for both. However, for me, I do like it better when its planneed and anticipated. Then i can use a gentle lube in my butt before he arrives. That helps soften me up back there. Also, I can probe gently with a finger to help guide some lube inside. After, if time permits, I do try to use a small ass plug to begin to open myself for him. I can leave it inserted until he arrives. This does help easy the process and helps me enjoy it more. I do think the most important thing about good ass sex is for the couple to discuss it and plan for it. I meant overall discussions. The man must understand her sensitivity back in there. Talking about it before hand adds to the excitement. Also, a man who slowly enters gently with his finger first helps open her up. A nice tongue before hand helps too. Finally, when its time, a man who penetrates slowly with his cockhead....letting her open as he goes..makes it much better. Slow and steady - wins the ass sex race every time. Ask any other woman. I think that helps make it pleasurable for both. I do understand that occassionally, some men feel the need to "plow" into our behinds. But, in the long run, if he is more gentle and understanding then he may find more willing anal opportunities. Just my opinion Michelle

Well WE HAVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT... With the exception of being too drunk to remember or know what we were doing. It was just a month ago or so when we were out at a club with a group of vanilla friends. A couple that we flirt with on a regular basis, was flirting back, but a little heavier than normal, and we were all doing some minor touchy feely with the other couple. Our whole group decided to leave the club and go to a different bar. While on route to the bar, boobies started coming out and talk about going to a hotel was brought up. The four of us never made it to the bar and ended up stopping for condoms and then got a room for some adult fun. One out of the four of us did have too much to drink, so the night was cut a little short. Nothing was really talked about the next day, but there were no ill feelings about what happened. A few days went by and I decided to called and I talked to the other husband to make sure that all was well between the four of us, and he said it was.... For us, we didn't know what the other couple was thinking so that is why the call was made. We are all still friends and we are glad that a call was made. What we are saying is communication is key and you will never know the answer until you ask. It is a lot more fun when your mostly sober!!!! don't let alcohol ruin a good friendship or fuck.

With the right partner for me, anal sex can be incredible. The sensation building can be more intense at times than vaginal. And depending upon the build of the man the variety of positions may be more fulfilling than similar ones vaginally. Quite often my desire for it can be such that lubrication is completely unncessary. It has never gotten boring for me when done well. Changes in lubes used, posititions, movements maybe some of what keeps it from being same-o-same-o. The desire to engage anally is sometimes a question of intimacy, sometimes pure fun and playfulness, at other times raw sexual power. Having said all that, it is not something I engage in all the time. Requires the "right" connection. And that is hard to explain.