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Punching anyone for an imagined slight is immature no matter what YOU want to believe. Swinging should be (at least it is for us and anyone that we socialize with) about enhancing our sex, not replacing it. If we are in a siuation (as we have been on occasion) where things do not work as we want or expect we just adjorn to each other. That is where things have started and where they will end. I get pissed if someone slights Mrs. Cpl, btu I also would be MATURE enough to realize that if he had "issues" the night before, he may have them this night too, and Mrs. Cpl can always get me where I need to be even if someone else can't. I don't care how old you are, but grow up.

Sad fact of message boards. We don't know you and you don't know us. It also means you get what you get outta it. You have had no drama, good MFM's but you have also had drama with a single female? And now a couple? Go thru, in your mind, how each situation turned into drama and issues and consider what you and your g/f could do different to stop the drama...you can not change others but you can alter how you two view things and lessen your and her distress. Do not blame any of your responses on the others, take full responsibilty for how you act and react and figure out what you could think and do different.

We have, and probably will again if the circumstances are right. What that usually means for us is we meet a new couple at the club who is only into soft-swap, and it is a slow night otherwise with no better prospects. While we generally look at soft-swap as going to the amusement park but not being able to go on any rides, a little round of soft-swap with a hot new couple can get our libido pumped up for hot fun with each other latter. So, while we don't seek it out, we don't automatically never do it either.

Oh, forgot to say what scares us off. Bad personalities. Not listed here. You can still have a good personality and do "all the above" and we still would like you. And the party goes on.