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Great fun! Perhaps some of her role play can involve a little flirting with other bar patrons before working her way to you 😛

Hi , thanks .( once again ) to answer a few questions. yes I would like to see my wife play with another guy and him her , maybe go all the way , if she’s into that . I would like to have a soft play with a woman and then and I can have sex together. perhaps a soft swap with another couple at some stage would be something I would like to do together. But atm in good to just let her get played with . Your right about the taboos and what’s said , we have worked hard on getting where we are today , and near enough every area we can say things like how we dress and other stuff , it’s not about what’s said but how it’s delivered. You know the story I guess . anyways I like the suggestion about eventually I’ll have to cross the bridge , she’s not stupid and as I said in a previous post there’s not a lot we do t do other than swingers / threesome and couple swaps , we ruled out anal as neither of us are into that and that’s was easy to discuss . I think she would be blown away if I just said would you Like to have a play with another man or sex , at this time it would freak her out and not only that she was not there yet . from my wife’s conversations o think she wouldn’t mind going to a swingers club and just us watching a bit and getting turned on at first and see how it goes . We got an evening planned where she will Meet me in a bar and rile play an escort, something she said yea perhaps that will be nice , which means in her language yes.

I think I created a monster (in a good way). As I mentioned before, singles males are probably the lowest on the swinger totem unless you look like Henry Cavill or something. But a good friend at work and her husband invited me for brunch one day in the West Village (my old stomping grounds before I moved to Brooklyn due to outrageous rents), and confessed to Me that they were curious about the lifestyle and that her husband was Bi curious. Im fairly open about the lifestyle with my close friends, so they wanted to arrange a play date with me (out of all people, a husky big Latino bull). Turns out hubby is into “bearish” looking dudes. We ended up having a very mellow, fun play date in which I technically took the “swing” virginity of both. It was also hubby’s first time giving oral to a man. Now I can’t stop them. They go to Hedo every year. They have a place there. They go to podcasts, events, they host naked yoga parties. She tells me “your crooked brown cock catapulted us into swinging”. It’s not really a “badge of honor” nor does it give me “bragging” rights of any kind. But it makes me feel good and it’s one of the few reasons I remain in the LS despite the brutality of it.