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You probably shouldn’t swing together if one of you has no problem continuing fucking someone while their own spouse is drunk, by themselves and vomiting.

You say this is new to you after several years. Is this divergence manifest in other areas of your life? It might be a good time to do an in depth assessment both individual and as a couple. Somehow this looks more like a symptom than the problem.

Instead of trying to make swingers out of friends, we also make friends out of swingers. Nothing like having friends that you can talk about anything to...and clothing is always optional!

Having great friends is great. Having swinging partners is great. Having great swinging partners who become great friends is greater than the sum of its parts.

Linda and I just got back from an all day and overnight with great friends. We just have to say that swinging with friends is simply the best.

A good game of truth or dare might provide you with some clues - only if she is willing. Don't push her!

It can be problematic if the friend is hard wired mono, but just occassionally did swinging due to curiosity....or is attracted to one of the couple.

We both agree. We have been blessed with many very close friends in the lifestyle; women, men. Couples and a number of female couples. We never really met many male couples. Bi men yes, but the only male couples we met over the years in the lifestyle was at LS social events not at any clubs, parties etc. we have a number of them going back to when we first started out in the lifestyle and we are still strong today. sharing sex play is still an option but not the reason we are still tight.

We made friends that were originally new swingers. We now say playing with friends is the best.

LS friends are the best friends.