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Women, what's your preference on men's hair between the legs?

Women, do you prefer men to shave or go natural between the legs?  

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  1. 1. Women, do you prefer men to shave or go natural between the legs?

    • I prefer it when they shave.
      431
    • I prefer it when they go natural.
      101
    • I don't care either way. A penis is a penis!
      166


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OK, there was a poll for men on whether they prefer hair between the legs on women. So let's make this one for the ladies. Do you prefer men to shave between the legs? Or do you like natural?

 

Men feel free to chime in on whether you like to shave it or not!

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Red says "shaven", but I can't persuade to click on the poll button for herself!

 

It's not as though she would refuse anything tasty on offer.... ;)

 

CB

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I voted for shaved...BUT I like some hair on top to play with. :D

 

I like to softly tug & tease and run my fingers through it.

 

But my tongue likes it smooth everywhere else. ;)

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Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty

I prefer very neatly trimmed at the least. :bj:

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So far I'm the only one that voted for "either way", but I have to add...

 

One way or the other guys please! The hair is fine, shaved smooth is fine, a trimmed combination of both and that's fine...but the razor stubble from a shave that isn't kept up can be little rough and irritating in delicate areas!!!!

 

Laura

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Same can be said of the shaven female with some trimmed growth. Leaves a very red raw section above the fun area.

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For me it really depends on the guy and how well they keep it if they do shave. I have encountered very few that didn't shave that were so overly hairy that it was bothersome.... and only one that did shave that I wished hadn't. He didn't do a very good job right at the base of his penis and it would get stubbly to the point of causing serious irritation.

 

Then there was the one guy who actually had hair ON the shaft of his penis.... I wished he'd shaved.... but now after encountering the other guy maybe it's a good thing he didn't.

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There wasn't an option for trimmed which is how I like it. Shaved is fab too...Just don't like picking hairs out of my teeth ::P: Yuck! So I just voted for shaved.

 

Mrs Venus

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I prefer shaved or neatly trimmed... overly hairy men are a huge turn-off... *shudder*

 

:kissface:

 

Mrs WA

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You know I really don't care either way...but I guess overly hairy would be a turn-off...I am thinking of talking my hubby into this...hehehe!

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Yay I get to participate! I personally feel that all people should be totally hairless from the neck down.

 

However...my husband has shaved for me before and he had horrible, horrible razor burn from it. I do ask that he trims. He keeps it cut with scissors or a beard trimmer very close to the skin. It's much, much better than full bush (we call it 70's porn bush) but hairless is my preference. I actually wax myself when I can.

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I shave from balls to bellybutton eveyday. Have done so for years. I like the feel and find most ladies do not want hair in their mouth. Also, like the feel of their pussy on my bare skin. Very sensual.

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My wife shaves but leaves a 'Porno Star' cut above the clitoris...and it widens out to an upside down pyramid.

 

Me? Oh my I could NOT shave bald...the irritable chafing from my groin muscles to balls would be (I know...I've done it) driving me nuts. NO pun intended.

 

I do neatly trim...which is OUR preference...she wants some fuzz to play with, but not some Sasquatch body hair like the dude who played against Ben Stiller in 'Along Came Polly'.

 

I use my Norelco and trim it down so it's still soft, but not gone.

 

I've had plenty of pubes in the back of the throat...it's not really pleasant!!

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Neatly trimmed is my choice. Shaved has never held much appeal for me - either on a male or a female. I guess I correlate it with pedo somehow so it makes me uncomfortable. I have seen a few porn stars that look attractive completely shaven, but very few photos of "real people" have held appeal.

 

I would have to say, however, that I probably would prefer shaven to a very hairy person leaving it totally natural. [Male or female, once again]

 

I didn't vote on the poll as the option for neatly trimmed wasn't one of the choices. And given my druthers, that would be my choice - with special attention in the 'action' areas. :rolleyes:

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We both like the look and feel of shaved for both male and female... Very neatly trimmed at the absolute minimum!

 

H/J

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I definately prefer me to be bare. But, I refuse to put a razor anywhere near me, because I can't even use one on my face without slicing the hell out of it. An electric doesn't quite cut it (no pun intended). I know it's not exactly "safe", but I find Nair's No-Touch to work quite well...even though it warns against genital/vaginal/perianal use.

 

The only negative I've seen from using it is, rarely, a tingly sensation on the "taint" (can never remember the real name for that region). And that tingling doesn't last long. I'm a bit discouraged, though, when it comes back just as dark/rough in a matter of 4-7 days. I'd rather be waxed, truthfully. Yes, scrotum too. The pain is nothing, if it will only start coming back softer/lighter and take longer to come back.

 

I'm planning on asking the few full service salons in the area if they do full service waxing, but I doubt it. Problem with living in a rural town.

 

As for the wife, she says she likes it MUCH better. Personally, I'd remove all hair from the neck down forever, if I could.

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Neatly trimmed is my choice. Shaved has never held much appeal for me - either on a male or a female. I guess I correlate it with pedo somehow so it makes me uncomfortable. I have seen a few porn stars that look attractive completely shaven, but very few photos of "real people" have held appeal.

 

I would have to say, however, that I probably would prefer shaven to a very hairy person leaving it totally natural. [Male or female, once again]

 

I didn't vote on the poll as the option for neatly trimmed wasn't one of the choices.

And given my druthers, that would be my choice - with special attention in the 'action' areas. :rolleyes:

 

WR ;)

 

 

Ditto...every word of it! :D

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I prefer completely shaven to very trimmed. Lots of hair is a complete turn-off for me and I definitely don't want it stuck between my teeth. LOL! :lol:

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Ok. I guess I'm an odd ball...I tried shaving, OUCH...couldn't stand the itch as it returned (I'll never ask another woman to shave again, but I do prefer them that way). I would wax if there were a location close enough that would do the service, so I do the next best thing, I pluck. Yes, I said it. Not at all hard to do, been doing it for quite awhile now, and it's gotten easier as time has gone by, less and less hair, plus as it does grow back, it's soft, no irritation. I do this to balls, shaft, area around base of shaft...the rest gets a nice close trim. ::P:

 

I've been wondering if there were any women who preferred it like that...guess now I know...plus I really like the feeling... plus it's more hygienic.

 

I don't like to remove all of it because I don't like the pre-puberty look of it. Kind of creepy...

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I keep the pubis lightly trimmed - more or less au natural, but carefully pruned to avoid that 'out of control' look. Both shaft and balls are shaved hairless. So far, I've avoided cuts, razor burn and stubble by respectively being careful, methodical and regular. Lady B seems to appreciate it (can't remember the last time she had to break off a BJ to pluck some guitar string from between her teeth), as have those women we've played with. I personally feel more hygenic (may be an illusion, but so much of what makes us happy is all in the mind), and as an added bonus, I no longer suffer 'snags' when I'm out in the saddle on a fifty mile cycle ride.

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Ok. I guess I'm an odd ball...I tried shaving, OUCH...couldn't stand the itch as it returned (I'll never ask another woman to shave again, but I do prefer them that way). I would wax if there were a location close enough that would do the service, so I do the next best thing, I pluck. Yes, I said it. Not at all hard to do, been doing it for quite awhile now, and it's gotten easier as time has gone by, less and less hair, plus as it does grow back, it's soft, no irritation. I do this to balls, shaft, area around base of shaft...the rest gets a nice close trim.

 

I've been wondering if there were any women who preferred it like that...guess now I know...plus I really like the feeling... plus it's more hygienic.

 

I don't like to remove all of it because I don't like the pre-puberty look of it. Kind of creepy...

 

Ditto. Won't shave. My legs are bad enough and MUST be shaved daily so I am not going there with my pubic hair. I trim with a beard trimmer and pluck the bikini line and all of those damn coarse hairs that grow on my upper thighs. (!) I also have two daughters and the idea of looking like a kid creeps me out.

 

T will trim but he has full body hair in front and I am not sure how to make the transition from hair to none.

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Au Naturel is the easy way out but ladies like to see a groomed man as much as we like to see them groomed. Removing all of the hair is functional but makes you look like a 14 year old. From the comments above I'm thinking the general consensus on how the gardening should be done is silky smooth cock and balls with a neatly trimmed patch on top.

 

This is all great feedback, please keep it coming. Any design ideas?

 

:lol:

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We both prefer shaved, on both male and female. We both feel that when someone is shaved, the sensation is magnified and increases the sensitivity. Also due to shaving, we have also met many "friends" in the lifestyle. When we are showeing in public (like at gym), and someone is shaved, it's usually a good indication they are also players. ;)

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I like a shaved cock & balls, husband likes it to as he claims it is more sensitive. When we shower together he shaves me & I shave him. During the winter because our schedules (his) he lets it grow out because I can't stand the prickly stubbles. Just like men can not stand hair in the teeth, neither can I.

 

Plus I like the feeling of a hairless cock against my hairless pussy (can I say that?).

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Guest letsplay33

I prefer shaved. Not saying that I will not suck a guy with hair, but if he wants me to stay down there and finish him off he better be shaved.

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I guess I am unusual. I prefer au natural - pubes and pits. What the hell is wrong with everyone? Would most guys not go down on a hot woman just because she was not shaved? The hair in your teeth the next day is just a reminder of the fun the night before...

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I also prefer shaved or at the least neatly trimmed. Not that I would turn down a nice piece of man meat if there was hair, I just wouldn't prefer it hahahahha. My SO cracks up when I call his cock man meat.

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I prefer to be shaved, and I prefer my husband to be shaved. As such, I also prefer my play partners to be shaved, but this doesn't seem to be a very popular "look" amongst men ... but I can handle neatly trimmed - our single male friend is neatly trimmed, so it's doable. :lol:

 

I would not like very much the "bushman" look at all. lol

 

My husband doesn't mind being shaven, he just doesn't like to take the time to actually DO it ... lol. And he is not terribly fond of the itchy scratchy when it starts to grow back, but he hasn't gotten himself into the habit of keeping it shaved so that he doesn't have to deal with that. :rollseyes:

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I myself am shaved clean, I prefer the neatly trimmed hairy look on guy, "the Happy Trail" as it was called in high school is a turn-on for me, as long as I'm not gagging on a hairball after going down on him. :eek:

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Mr Body turned me on to men who shave their balls and phallus... Oh my god yummy...it makes it such a joy to suck and lick and fondle... and I will never touch a fuzzy pair of balls again..

 

So men if you really want women to love eating you and want to eat you more and more often... follow mr Bodyscape's lead...Shave those balls and up your shaft!

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I really can't go the shaved route myself. Tried it once and like a lot of guys on here it was sheer torture. Though I do keep it closely trimmed.

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I'm gonna run with common courtesy here. If I'm going to ask somebody (politely) to place my balls in their mouth, the least I can do is remove the long ones that are going to get stuck between their teeth. ::P:

 

Z & I have taken to shaving the naughtier bits, but leaving enough around so we don't look, well, pre-pubescent.

 

Thankfully, I don't seem to have some of the problems that are complained of here. I'm tossing that up to liberal use of hair conditioner before to soften things up and skin conditioner afterwards to smooth things over.

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I'm all for men having body hair.

 

Hooo-ray for body hair!

 

 

now this quote is hysterical...considering your avatar... it doesn't even have SKIN ! lol

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now this quote is hysterical...considering your avatar... it doesn't even have SKIN ! lol

 

Hahahaha!

No bones about it, I do need a better avatar.

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I would vote for the hair being trimmed, just so there's just not so much of it. Shaving all the time is a pain in the rear, I wouldn't make my Man do it, just a nice trim would be great.

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Well, from the male perspective, mmmm... I don't know if someone else ever bring this subject here, but the fact is, a picture can be enhanced a lot if properly framed, and trimmed hair makes the penis look bigger. :cool: Didn't you noticed? :hahaha:

 

So guys, trim your pubic hair and then let me know ::P:

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I personally don't like for a guy to be shaved down there. Trimmed yes, but not shaved. I like a dominant man in bed anyway, having that little boy look takes away from that for me. I have kept myself shaved but I always end up with an unattractive rash (even after following all the shaving tips on this forum- conditioner, 3 or 4 blade razor, and Dove Deodorant afterwards). So I shave right between my legs where it's less sensitive to irritation and around the bikini line. The rest of it is trimmed. My hair down there is light (blondish) anyway and fine so it's not a big deal.

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Wife started shaving when we became nudists. She loved the feel and asked me to shave all over too, as she likes to lick all over. It feels so good for both of us that neither one of us will ever again sport any hair down there. I have found that many women we play with like it too.

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So men if you really want women to love eating you and want to eat you more and more often... follow Mr. Bodyscape's lead...Shave those balls and up your shaft!

Well I'm certainly going to test your theory...lol :facelick:

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I started shaving, triming & shaving, about 8 years ago and she loves it and has turned into an oral fiend ::P:. I love it too it feels great up against her. I figure if she goes and gets waxed for us and our friends, that is least I can do! :)

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Well I'm certainly going to test your theory...lol ::facelick

 

So holdfast... how has the oral been since you made the toys all smooth and shiny...lol

 

 

btw... I adore helping mr shave... he has to be hard to do it... it the shower...it is so much fun to soap him up and then get the first meal afterward... after all I have to do quality checks to make sure he didn't miss anything...lol ::P:

 

Mr. S&E...bravo for you...great attitude...waxing is a cruel and painful thing to go through...especially a Brazilian bikini wax...OUCH

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Originally Posted by BodyScape02:

So men if you really want women to love eating you and want to eat you more and more often... follow mr Bodyscape's lead...Shave those balls and up your shaft!

 

You are right!

 

After swinging for about a year, I decided to shave my balls and shaft. Maybe it's my imagination but after that it seemed women were much more inclined to do a lot more "exploration" rather than just doing the piston-action thing. So I think I did the right thing and keep the area smooth now. I do leave some pubes above though; otherwise it would look too weird to me.

 

After the first time I shaved "down there" I went to a party at an on-premise club I used to go to every month or two. I didn't tell anyone I'd shaved. I was standing near the dance-floor with a woman that I'd played with before. We were doing a little groping. She slipped her hand into my boxers...and her eyes lit up and she started SMILING! "You shaved!" I received 2 1/2 blowjobs that night. One from her. (The second one was abruptly ended when the "blower" broke a nail...seriously! :lol: )

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Count me in as a guy who is smooth. The only thing is that I got sick of shaving so I now get waxed ever 6 weeks or so. I hate it when it grows out, but it lasts so long and it's so much smoother than shaving. No rash, no stubble, and the SO loves it.

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Nice and neat. It shows that they care about their playpartner and themselves. I don't mind a little bit of body hair when it's trimmed up and neat but left a bush.....well come on guys - you really don't want us hacking up fur balls do you?

 

The Other Mrs. Menage_a_Trois

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