Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else?

[Guest Aching]

I don't want to watch; rather let her have complete freedom and ralaxation; but want to share every detail afterward as it is major turn on.

[xxxfunseekers 19]

I find it very arousing to watch my wife with another guy. Love to be able to sit back and watch her with another guy or two (then maybe join in). Love to watch her pleasure others and be pleasured- fantastic sight!

[JustAskJulie 2,588]

Wow. The discrepancies here are quite interesting, especially the "only my spouse plays when we swing" numbers. Interesting stuff.

[Mistral Wind 49]

looks to me that more men like to watch their wives/partners having sex with another so maybe women are more practicle and just enjoy the sex. For my part I do get turned on watching Tim which usually means I join it! So what does that make me? LOL M x

[forbiddenrain 15]

Yes it arouses both of us, we both agree that the reason we want to swing is because we want to watch the each other, neither one of us would want to swing separately, it defeats the point for us. I don't want to think about it, I want to see it

[prairieshadows 95]

For me Bryan, it's a HUGE turn on when she's with another man. Even more when I can watch. For Alicia, it really doesn't do anything for her if I'm with another woman. Sometimes it turns her on knowing I'm being pleasured as well. But when she and I are with another couple, we're focused on the couple we're with.

[sailorcat 17]

I feel the same way. I love to watch her with another man. What was really exciting was a guy who was taller than me with a very athletic build and a large thick cock. It was incredible to watch him with my wife who later told me that she felt so full and really felt like she had been "well fucked" by him. She said he had a very powerful presence with his muscular arms and she enjoyed it very much. It is the reason we swing and I was really excited and happy that she had such a successful encounter. I in turn gave his wife a lesson in advanced cunnilingus... which she really enjoyed. Another memorable experience was when we did a mmf with a single guy. We were in a 69 with me licking her clit while he entered from behind, this was really mind blowing to see the action from really close up. Wow, I can definitely recommend this!!!

[Sgts19 17]

Oh yeah!! I enjoy it tremendously. Whenever we same roomed shared I don’t devote all my attention on my play pal, which isn’t right. I tend to watch my wife out of the corner of my eye despite how great the sex is with the other woman. My fondest memories are of listening to her in another room and wondering what he’s doing to cause all the moaning. We also experimented taping each other so we can put the images we heard into visual match. Our former regular play pals surprised me on my b-day once by stripping me, tying me to a chair a foot away from the bed and listen to her being fucked. His wife kept whispering things in my ear about what they were doing while sucking my cock right to the edge of exploding. This went on for over and hour until I heard my wife cum loudly which caused my cock to explode on it’s own. His wife gently licked the cum from my body and untied me. My cock didn’t soften any so while they sat on the same bed sipping wine I fucked his wife until we both exploded. We went back and forth all night with the four of us switching partners back and forth.

[GspotDPlover 84]

Well that is awesome Sgts19. I would love to be treated this way, but would rather be able to watch her being fucked as well. You clearly state how this sort of erotic play can turn some of us on with your persistent rigidity. Thanks for sharing!

[Alura 2,766]

One of our long-time playcouples were watchers. There were many times when Mrs. Playmate and I cuddled up naked with each other and watched Mrs. Alura and Mr. Playmate fuck. Mrs. Alura liked to "Play to her audience," so they put on quite a show for us, with dialogue! It wasn't all loud groans and gasps. "Can you see Ron's cock sliding into my pussy, Darling? He sure knows how to use it, Linda... Well, you know..." She provided humor, too. Once she sang out, "Oh! Nuthin' can be finah than a cock in my vagina in the moooorrrrrrriiinnnngggggg!"

 

By the time the curtain rang down, Mrs. Playmate and I were ready to star in a show for them.

[yesplez 15]

my wife and I love to watch the other pleasuring others and being pleasured by others! That's the whole point of doing this for us. If we aren't turned on by the sight of the other in a sexual act whats the point?

[ricksara 15]

I wholly agree with yesplez. After 40 years we both love to watch each other giving and receiving pleasure. I know it still gets me wet and ready for what ever happens next. LOL, You all know what I mean.

 

Sara

[frontosa415 20]

the first time i watched her was when she was offered a full body massage by a friend of our's,he told her she must say when he must stop,after a lot of thought on her side we all got naked and she lay on the massage table,he told her she can do what ever she wanted while he was busy,he started on her back not long the breathing got quicker the higher up the legs he went,when he turned over and started on the boob's i could see she was really enjoying it and both our cock's were hard,he got to the leg's taking his time this whole thing took about an hour then he started dribbling oil on her pussy she was in heaven so was i just watching this,the first time he stuck his finger in her it was like she got a shock,still no telling him to stop,after a couple of minutes he had two fingers in not long after that she started cumming i have never seen her cum for someone else before and so much,i came as soon as she put her hand on my cock,but to answer the question yes i love to watch her with other men when she enjoy's it

[DaggersNRoses 271]

When we got together, knowing Dagger was sexually active turned me on. He didn't realize that though.

 

Through our marriage, it turned me on when women flirted with him. I was intrigued by the idea of some out of the box things. I didn't really grasp it all at the time and really I am still learning how it all fits and what I really want.

 

When we had a threesome that did not work out so well, I still found watching him have sex with another woman arousing. With a positive full swap view, even hotter.

 

The Rose

[Fundamental Law 2,817]

Strongly. The sight and sound of each other's pleasure leads to strong and sustained arousal afterwards.

[Mimigirl 23]

So far we've only played with other males and Mr. Mimi really enjoys watching me touch and suck and fuck them. I also enjoy watching bi play with the two males. 6 months ago I would have never thought it would be such a turn on. I have yet to see him with another female and, frankly, it's something I could do without. At least at this point. However, we are actively seeking another couple to play with and I can only hope it goes better in real life then it does in my head. Kind of like the whole mm play thing.

[Cancuple-he 37]

Turns me on bigtime! Especially if my wife's sex partner is female!

[Fours Company 169]

Both of our answers would be a definite arousing!

 

To be honest in the early times of our LS journey, I found it only a turn-on when she did girl-on-girl and merely “tolerated” the presence of the other man. Slowly over time my view evolved to where I found watching her do things to other men and even more so, them doing things to her was giving me stronger and stronger fantasy fuel. To say nothing of the way she responded as as she was being serviced and although we were initially a stickler with protection, the first time she allowed another guy to cum in her unprotected was the turning point I think and it put my arousal levels over the top. It was then I acknowledge to myself how much I really enjoyed it to the point when we once bent our “no-single guy” rule at mainly my urging and I found watching her give oral to him, despite the fact there was nothing directly in it for me was still very zipper-busting.

 

Her response would be similar in that she was not initially comfortable seeing me with another woman, but now finds it a turn-on.

[Drof 15]

Yes, I've enjoyed watching her with men and women. I don't have an answer as to :confused why, but we both really seem to love it. We usually have a very good time together when she and I "reminisce" our experiences!

[Trophy1802 132]

I have to agree, that seeing Mrs Trophy fooling around and having sex with another male is an extremely arousing experience for me. What makes it all the better is that as we really enjoy the mfm experience, both our usual male play partner and myself can actively express our sexual desire for her. And it is pretty evident in her appreciation to our attention and passion for her by her own sexual satisfaction and arousal.

 

However, Mrs has indicated that she does enjoy knowing I am with another female when we are with another couple, but she does not get sexually aroused by it herself.

[Sirramm 111]

I voted "AROUSES ME" but then again, at least for me, arousal is the greater sum of HOT. Watching my wife with another man and then having her to myself when they are done, I personally go for the sloppy seconds anyway, is out of this world. I love watching her and hearing her orgasm with another man is insanely hot. Watching her take a guy from limp to orgasm in sometimes the matter of minutes makes for a pretty intensely hot and supercharged night!

[oc1234 430]

Over the years my best friend and the one my wife plays with either alone or in threesomes with me has been very interested in taking video of a lot of the playing. Since I have also been interested it that, my friend and I have a lot of video we have transferred to DVDs. My wife was gone for the day so I decided it was a good time to watch some of those DVDs. I can honestly say the DVD that contains video of the three of us having threesomes still turns me on more than any commercial porno DVD. It was really neat to see how our threesomes had evolved since we started in the mid 80s through the 90s. I always enjoyed watching her have sex with him, and I still enjoy watching those old DVDs of our threesomes.

[adamgunn 1,456]

I love watching Mary seduce other men. Usually we meet them in a bar after they've contacted us on SLS, and they think the date is just to find out if there's a vibe between them and us. But if Mary likes them (and I agree,) we'll take them back to our house, they'll be with Mary in short order.

 

It's so interesting to see the dynamics between them as they first flirt, then engage in foreplay. Each man is distinct, and Mary will react a little differently. And the night may vary depending on her and his mood.

 

I also enjoy assisting them, getting water for them if they need it, taking pictures so we'll all remember this, and tweaking Mary's parts that the other man isn't using at the moment. Yes, I love it when I see my wife having sex with someone else.

[Yourfunfriends 44]

Picturing my wife with another man or woman is absolutely hot! She's my favorite porn star and I love everything about her. Seeing her enjoy herself is amazing. 

[Numex 2,175]

Watching a couple screw arouses a primal instinct to do so yourself.  Watching your spouse screwing someone else isn't just a more intense version of the same, a "she's my favorite porn star" kind of thing.  In the back of your head is the fear that they could make a baby.  What does that mean?  Will I need to take care of it?  Will she spend more time with him?

 

Despite all our rational thoughts when we first go into having sex outside of marriage, and knowing that birth control is used, we are still subject to our caveman instincts and fears.  But even those can eventually be molded to our pleasure. 

 

[Chris&Suzanne 203]

When we were new, I wasn't that excited.

 

Now after a few times I am.

 

Probably common.

[Joey T 4]

On 5/4/2004 at 5:53 PM, 2New2it said:

I also would have picked the 'hot' option, but I don't just watch. She enjoys it so much, I love watching her getting her pleasures nearly as much as joining in.

 

I'm in a similar boat. My gf was much younger than me and had an incredible sex drive. I became disinterested in her romantically and I knew something had to be done. So I began encouraging her to find someone else to hang out with in hopes that I would get a little jealous and want her again. So she found someone that agreed to have a sex only relationship with him.

The first time she fucked him she really liked it and shared the details with me on her way home home. So there was a little jealousy on my part but I was overwhelmed by the idea of her getting so much pleasure from it. We had the best sex ever when she got home. I never imagined that I'd get so aroused when girlfriend fucked another guy. It was her sexuality that excited me. She's a gorgeous 23 year old blonde that does not fit the mold of sex machine. 

 

We talked about swinging but she was not secure with the thought of me being with another female. She was concerned that I might leave her because she was fucking someone else. Anyway she agreed to go to Hedo in Jamaica but made it clear she was not interested in swinging. She loved being naked though. I was afraid to strip down and needed her encouragement. Anyway she enjoyed meeting nice couples. The females tried to help her understand and I think she enjoyed the conversations as she became comfortable that they weren't trying to take me away from her. Eventually she let a girl we met play with my dick.

Then one night at the pool where things get wild we did some ecstasy with a couple we befriended. She really opened up then. I was so high that I was all over the girl. In retrospect I would have kept my cool and not have been so aggressive but I was high and horny and sucking her big tits. I did glance over and watch my gf playing with the guys dick and kissing. Kinda wish I had played it cool and let her mess around first. She was kinda mad at me but I blamed the ecstasy. The next night I played it better. I told her to have fun and enjoy herself.

 

So I spoke to the couple about letting her be the focus that night. Told the girl to focus on her more instead of me. So it worked great as he became a little more aggressive after his gf encouraged my gf to play with him. So instead of giving his gf attention I stood behind her and rubbed her ass as he rubbed her pussy. After I kept kissing the back of her neck and and rubbing her ass which made her more comfortable with his advances. So she began playing with his dick and making out with him. The cool thing was that the guy was very cool about me attacking his gf the previous night, smiling the whole time.

So were in the pool at the time when his gf whispered in his ear. He then sat up on the edge of the pool with a giant erection about even with my gf's neck. So now were all anxious to see if she's gonna take him in her mouth. So I've got a throbbing erection at the mere thought of it. So I want watch her suck his dick so bad that I start licking her (which makes her super horny) I whispered in her ear and asked her if she liked his dick. She kinda turned red and turned around to face me. She asked if I was mad at her. I reminded her much we both enjoyed the excitement every time she came home from being with the other guy. So I repeated the question and she said yes. So she turned back around and began stroking him again. He then put his hand behind her head and rubbed her head while applying a little forward pressure. So now that she had my blessing she leaned forward and opened her mouth wide as he moved her mouth over his dick. I moved over next to his gf as to not crowd them. So this was the first time I watched her perform oral sex on someone else and it was more exciting than I could have imagined. The fact of the matter is that she loves dick and I had a choice to break up with her or give her the freedom to enjoy it.

I made the right choice in my opinion. I still have hope that she will come around to swinging because I would appreciate her accepting it as I have with her. But shes 20 plus years younger than me and shes crazy about me. So as of now we love each other like crazy and I can't keep my hands off of her. She never stops giving me affection, its constant. She is less concerned with me leaving her or seeing someone else behind her back now. The key is giving her consistent positive feedback when she asks me if she can go fuck. I always kiss her when she asks that and show her my hard dick. And when she leaves she loves that I call to give her encouragement to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Ill tell her how horny I get knowing she cant wait to have another dick in her mouth. So I've enjoyed this more than I imagined I would. It is almost the same attraction guys have to porn stars I guess. Just wondering if there's something wrong with me? Lol

 

[Joey T 4]

On 5/21/2004 at 6:12 AM, eroticsensation said:

Thanks for your reply. This is the problem. My wife and I have a smoke and watch some porn, we talk about it and fantasize. I enjoy hearing what she would like to do with two guys. But it is weird once I cum all those fantasies go away. feels kind of weird. We have been planning for a while and we do want to try but that is my only concern is once I cum I will have regrets. How did you feel when another guy was having sex with your wife and then you cum.....the after sex part?

 

I’m very similar to you in this regard. I used to share this fantasy with my girlfriend who is 20 years younger than me. I knew she had curiosities being so young so rather than getting jealous or trying to control her I just encouraged her to hang out with her friends, etc. Privately I’d fantasize if her fucking someone else and get insanely horny. So when we had sex i began to start sharing my fantasy with her. She had multiple orgasms when I’d ask her if she loved dick. I’d tell her how horny I got when I imagined her sucking a big dick. So she finally acted on my encouragement and started fucking another guy she found with a nsa agreement. In my case the excitement from her actually doing it exceeded the fantasy.  We have incredible sex after she comes home and cleans up

[Anon321 481]

It is hot and 99% of the time my GF is the only one having sex when we "swing."  My GF and I were first "swinging" when we were just FWB.  It was a really good time and it was much easier to watch her with other guys because we didn't have that emotional connection getting in the way.  We got to explore different things that I wanted to try like threesome, voyeurism, roleplay, etc and stuff that she wanted to explore like rough sex, exhibitionism, gangbang, humiliation, etc.  We ended up having great sex together even though our "kinks" were quite different.  But even though we may have different kinks and I actually consider myself a bit more vanilla than her, I EXTREMELY enjoyed watching her do those things with other guys.

 

As things progressed it was still hot continuing to have sex with her in MFM and watching her fuck other guys.  I will admit there were a couple of moments early on during this phase where I would watch her with other guys and ask myself if this was OK.  My GF is very submissive and practices a lot of very rough and degrading type of sex with other guys so there were times seeing guys calling her a whore, slapping her, spitting on her, peeing on her, etc where I started to question whether this situation was OK.  I never really questioned those feelings when we were just FWB but it started to feel a little bit different so I had that conversation with my GF just to put it all out there and it really helped.  She enjoys it, I enjoy it, and if one of us stops enjoying it we would just put a stop to the whole thing.  But we realize it's very dirty and taboo but we love it anyway.

[hotwife70 574]

I cum instantly just to think how she enjoys another cock and admitted to her that too.

[couplers 4,143]

On 5/4/2004 at 3:19 AM, Karen12345 said:

Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else?

Hell yeah.  Even after all these years of watching, or just knowing, that my husband is enjoying sex with another woman and he is pleasing her, is incredibly arousing.  It makes me want sex with him (after I'm done with her and he's ready again) even if I've just finished with someone else.  Some people say they don't get jealous; I get extraordinarily jealous, but I've tamed the feeling and turned it into a force for good all around. 

Edited December 3, 2022 by couplers

[TricianMike 732]

Recently watching Mike with two women made me just want to jump in and join. Typically he watches me  and gets very aroused. 

[PeterJ 826]

It was decades ago, when I was in my mid-was, but in my first joint non-monogamous with my first wife (a soft-swing) I found watching her masturbate the other guy to orgasm was extremely hot, even though I was in the middle of fingering his wife. I knew right then that I there was an aspect to my sexuality that not everyone else shared…😉 
 

(More than a decade later, after both couples had divorced, the other wife and I got involved and now have been married for more than 30 years.)

[Numex 2,175]

11 hours ago, PeterJ said:

with my first wife (a soft-swing) I found watching her masturbate the other guy to orgasm was extremely hot, even though I was in the middle of fingering his wife. (More than a decade later, after both couples had divorced, the other wife and I got involved and now have been married for more than 30 years.)

There are plenty of stories on how  married couple got into swinging.  Better are the stories about couples who met and married while swinging and fucking others.  In the future that's how it will be - young people will be having casual sex and find their mate.

[Stillplaying 20]

Went dancing with our first couple in a different town. When I saw my wife kissing the other guy I felt like my heart stopped. "Aroused" was an under-under-statement. And I was turned on by the other woman. As time went on, watching her naked and sucking and has always excited me. Today, we're in our 70s and I don't pass up a chance to see my wife enjoying herself with another man. 

  

Edited December 4, 2022 by Stillplaying

[PeterJ 826]

36 minutes ago, Numex said:

…Better are the stories about couples who met and married while swinging and fucking others…

 

I’ve been married three times. But because of swinging, all told I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding evenings. 😉😊

[redlover70@proton.me 2]

Oh yeah 

[couplers 4,143]

7 hours ago, PeterJ said:

8 hours ago, Numex said:

…Better are the stories about couples who met and married while swinging and fucking others…

 

... because of swinging, all told I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding evenings. 😉😊

I am one of those brides who had sex with a man other than my husband on my wedding night.  David, Red, and I were already living together as a theesome.  David and I were going on an extended honeymoon, so Red and I made love in anticipation of me not seeing him for two plus weeks.

 

David didn't do this to be aroused, he did it to be fair and generous to me and Red.

[couplers 4,143]

On 12/4/2022 at 5:04 AM, couplers said:

I am one of those brides who had sex with a man other than my husband on my wedding night. .

 

David didn't do this to be aroused, he did it to be fair and generous to me and Red.

This post of mine keeps coming back into my head for two reasons.  The first was when David, Red, and I went to our room where the reception was held, David said to Red, "Have you met my wife?"  I started to cry.

 

The second is as Red and I began our ritual to have sex (you know, those small things familiar partners do when you know it's going to happen).  David, who likes to "watch the show" and never before left when he was there while Red and I had sex, left the room and went back to the reception.  Both Red and I cried.

 

The next day before David and I left for the airport, Red and I had sex again with David there.  We had adjusted to our new life. 

Edited December 6, 2022 by couplers

[PJ&Lin 181]

54 minutes ago, couplers said:

The next day before David and I left for the airport, Red and I had sex again with David there.  We had adjusted to our new life. 

That’s not swinging, that’s your life. I don’t understand your posts. 

[couplers 4,143]

26 minutes ago, PJ&Lin said:

That’s not swinging, that’s your life. I don’t understand your posts. 

You are correct.  It is, however, more generally part of a nonmonogamous lifestyle. 

[Courteous1970 169]

On 9/3/2020 at 1:17 AM, Joey T said:

 

I'm in a similar boat. My gf was much younger than me and had an incredible sex drive. I became disinterested in her romantically and I knew something had to be done. So I began encouraging her to find someone else to hang out with in hopes that I would get a little jealous and want her again. So she found someone that agreed to have a sex only relationship with him.

The first time she fucked him she really liked it and shared the details with me on her way home home. So there was a little jealousy on my part but I was overwhelmed by the idea of her getting so much pleasure from it. We had the best sex ever when she got home. I never imagined that I'd get so aroused when girlfriend fucked another guy. It was her sexuality that excited me. She's a gorgeous 23 year old blonde that does not fit the mold of sex machine. 

 

We talked about swinging but she was not secure with the thought of me being with another female. She was concerned that I might leave her because she was fucking someone else. Anyway she agreed to go to Hedo in Jamaica but made it clear she was not interested in swinging. She loved being naked though. I was afraid to strip down and needed her encouragement. Anyway she enjoyed meeting nice couples. The females tried to help her understand and I think she enjoyed the conversations as she became comfortable that they weren't trying to take me away from her. Eventually she let a girl we met play with my dick.

Then one night at the pool where things get wild we did some ecstasy with a couple we befriended. She really opened up then. I was so high that I was all over the girl. In retrospect I would have kept my cool and not have been so aggressive but I was high and horny and sucking her big tits. I did glance over and watch my gf playing with the guys dick and kissing. Kinda wish I had played it cool and let her mess around first. She was kinda mad at me but I blamed the ecstasy. The next night I played it better. I told her to have fun and enjoy herself.

 

So I spoke to the couple about letting her be the focus that night. Told the girl to focus on her more instead of me. So it worked great as he became a little more aggressive after his gf encouraged my gf to play with him. So instead of giving his gf attention I stood behind her and rubbed her ass as he rubbed her pussy. After I kept kissing the back of her neck and and rubbing her ass which made her more comfortable with his advances. So she began playing with his dick and making out with him. The cool thing was that the guy was very cool about me attacking his gf the previous night, smiling the whole time.

So were in the pool at the time when his gf whispered in his ear. He then sat up on the edge of the pool with a giant erection about even with my gf's neck. So now were all anxious to see if she's gonna take him in her mouth. So I've got a throbbing erection at the mere thought of it. So I want watch her suck his dick so bad that I start licking her (which makes her super horny) I whispered in her ear and asked her if she liked his dick. She kinda turned red and turned around to face me. She asked if I was mad at her. I reminded her much we both enjoyed the excitement every time she came home from being with the other guy. So I repeated the question and she said yes. So she turned back around and began stroking him again. He then put his hand behind her head and rubbed her head while applying a little forward pressure. So now that she had my blessing she leaned forward and opened her mouth wide as he moved her mouth over his dick. I moved over next to his gf as to not crowd them. So this was the first time I watched her perform oral sex on someone else and it was more exciting than I could have imagined. The fact of the matter is that she loves dick and I had a choice to break up with her or give her the freedom to enjoy it.

I made the right choice in my opinion. I still have hope that she will come around to swinging because I would appreciate her accepting it as I have with her. But shes 20 plus years younger than me and shes crazy about me. So as of now we love each other like crazy and I can't keep my hands off of her. She never stops giving me affection, its constant. She is less concerned with me leaving her or seeing someone else behind her back now. The key is giving her consistent positive feedback when she asks me if she can go fuck. I always kiss her when she asks that and show her my hard dick. And when she leaves she loves that I call to give her encouragement to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Ill tell her how horny I get knowing she cant wait to have another dick in her mouth. So I've enjoyed this more than I imagined I would. It is almost the same attraction guys have to porn stars I guess. Just wondering if there's something wrong with me? Lol

 

JoeyT, this is a great story and it sounds like you two are a match made in Hedo!  One thing I love about this site is that NOTHING is weird or wrong.  I am amazed at how much it turns me on to watch myself with another man.  Watching her suck a dick is incredible.  Watching her ride one until she cums is insane to me.  So no, nothing is wrong with you!  Enjoy it my friend!

[udsarge 119]

On 12/4/2022 at 7:04 AM, couplers said:

I am one of those brides who had sex with a man other than my husband on my wedding night.  David, Red, and I were already living together as a theesome.  David and I were going on an extended honeymoon, so Red and I made love in anticipation of me not seeing him for two plus weeks.

 

David didn't do this to be aroused, he did it to be fair and generous to me and Red.

The first thing that popped into my head "Here comes the bride!!!" Sounds like a wild wedding night

 

[couplers 4,143]

22 hours ago, udsarge said:

The first thing that popped into my head "Here comes the bride!!!" 

Always.  Usually more than once.

 

22 hours ago, udsarge said:

Sounds like a wild wedding night

Actually, it was an emotional, sweet time.  We had wild times before and after, but our wedding was a confirmation of our relationships.

[Numex 2,175]

On 12/3/2022 at 9:08 PM, PeterJ said:

I’ve been married three times. But because of swinging, all told I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding evenings. 😉😊

 

I would have been up for that, but my wife didn't start fucking other guys until a couple of years after we got married.

[David Lovell 142]

My wife's preference was always separate rooms. The very first time we swapped,  before we were married, I was too busy contemplating my first bareback experience with my friend's wife Vicky. I recall Amy saying to Steve don't hurt me, she knew he was about to serve her 9 inches.

We started swinging with Ken and Lesley in separate rooms and Amy was secretive regarding what her and Ken did. Lesley gave me some insights and it was evident that Ken was teaching Amy some new things like riding on top and BJ.

A couple of months ago we celebrated our 5th anniversary of swinging with Ken and Lesley. A new adventure.  Same room, lights on etc. 

It was definitely a turn-on for me. Watching and listening to her as Ken rubbed the head of his cock against  Amy's vulva and clitoris and  her gasp ashe slowly  slipped his cock inside her.  Then Amy giving instructions to Ken. "Keep it there, don't stop, don't cum yet, go slow and all  the way". 

I was in fact distracted from my encounter with Lesley, but the moment Ken filled Amy's pussy I had a terrific orgasm inside Lesley's snatch. 

Definitely arrousing watching someone fuck mybSO.

 

[David Lovell 142]

Last night we  visited with Lesley and Ken. We were sitting  around chatting when Lesley came and sat besides me. "Why did you just take off your glasses"  I asked her. "Like you can't guess" was her reply.

I put my hand inside her sweater and began to fondle her boobs. Amy asked Ken if he was in  the mood and he replied "like you can't guess".

Lesley said she wanted a same room awap and we  began in the living room. We swapped back and forth a few times  before  Amy asked Ken to finish inside her. I came inside Lexley.

We had another drink, and then went for seconds. 

Somehow, seconds has become one of the most exciting parts of swinging. A perfect reason not to have separate rooms.   

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On 9/2/2020 at 2:53 PM, Chris&Suzanne said:

When we were new, I wasn't that excited.

 

Now after a few times I am.

 

Probably common.

Which of you posted this reply, Chris or Suzanne?

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When we first got into the lifestyle, it was so Daniela could get the sexual variety that she was used to as a single woman, so we hotwifed.  It didn't really affect me either way, neither turn on nor turn off, particularly since the first guys were men she had fucked before anyway.  Later as I did MFMs with her and her lovers it did turn me on.  Now in our married couples group, it really turns me on to watch her fucking other men.