Brazilian before swinging

[ROCKlandCpl 436]

I don’t remember not being shaven but I felt I needed to be even more hairless before meeting our first couple. I had never had a professional waxing only heard about bikini and Brazilian and decided to go the full bare way. Being fully inspected, not internally, only by my doctor now I’m there for some strange woman. Those of you who go for waxing know it’s not painless. I just told her go for the full thing not just the bikini.

My husband normally trims but I talked him to fully shave everything. He agreed to do it for me.

We met our first couple and she was like me, hairless. I figure she gets waxed. He was trimmed on top, his balls smooth. I was happy I had gone for the full treatment. I even thought my husband looked great shaved.

We are now playing with friends of ours and it’s our first time with them. She has what my husband called a cute bush. Not a big bushy bush, just a trimmed soft bush. I am still new to doing anything with a woman, I just figured she would have shaved or waxed. I didn’t know what to think as I am seeing my friend and expecting to have my mouth there.

We have since gone to a nude beach and noticed plenty of untrimmed people, male and female. My husband says it could be sexy. Sexy and I just had all my hair yanked off of me. I told him all the bare men were sexy, maybe he should be waxed and I’ll let mine grow back in. 

[PeterJ 826]

50 minutes ago, ROCKlandCpl said:
We are now playing with friends of ours and it’s our first time with them. She has what my husband called a cute bush. Not a big bushy bush, just a trimmed soft bush. I am still new to doing anything with a woman, I just figured she would have shaved or waxed. I didn’t know what to think as I am seeing my friend and expecting to have my mouth there. 
We have since gone to a nude beach and noticed plenty of untrimmed people, male and female. My husband says it could be sexy. Sexy and I just had all my hair yanked off of me. I told him all the bare men were sexy, maybe he should be waxed and I’ll let mine grow back in. 

I believe a person’s age has a lot to do with what their attitudes regarding general hair will be. For my part, I started seeing porn in the early 1970s. Any of you here on the board who remember “Deep Throat", "The Devil in Miss Jones" or other classics of that era, will call that few if any of the actors were shaved — they all had full bushes. And if I recall correctly, none of the women I had sex with in my real life were shaved until well into the 1980s or maybe early ‘90s. 
 

In my own infrequent lifestyle activities in the 70s & 80s all my partners had bushes. But beginning about 15 years ago, when I got more deeply involved in the lifestyle, it was rare to find women (or men) who had anything more hirsute than a neatly trimmed landing zone.
 

Shaved, full bush or somewhere in between, body hair is pretty far down on the list of reasons I want to play with people. But, I admit that for me looking at a woman’s shaved pussy leaves me with a just slightly queasy sense of pre-adolescence. And on those rare occasions when I do play with folks with full bushes, it adds to my enjoyment.

[njbm 2,728]

I played with a woman originally from Japan. Her husband forewarned me that she had a bush because that was culturally favored in Japan. I worked around it.  Sort of nostalgic. 
 

A local shock jock said that when he went to college, no one shaved. He said that when he performed oral sex on a woman, it was like wrestling Chewbacca. 

Edited July 25, 2021 by njbm

[findinganswers 356]

Almost all of the women we have been playing with are fully shaved, not all. My wife is always shaving her legs and parts, and has been doing it forever, even before swinging. She also went for waxing before the summer, DIY treatments during the year. One thing she started playing with her good friend was anal bleaching. I say it’s not needed and dangerous, she went with her friend for treatments. I told her it’s normal to have a darker circle.

We have met other couples that are not as fastidious with shaving. A little hair is not a thing we would think odd. We did play with a couple with Mediterranean background that were not groomed. For me it brought back a memory of my first, a girlfriend who finally agreed to go all the way. We dated a few months, during the time she surprised me with being fully shaved. In college I was lucky enough to see many different grooming styles. My observation, non-American born women had more hair, which made first dates interesting.

I have trimmed more since we starting meeting others. My wife thinks I look better with a buzz cut and insists I need my nuts shaved. 

[Numex 2,175]

I'd like to swing with a Brazilian woman.