How quickly are you willing to go bareback with other swinging couples?
1,028 members have voted
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1. How quickly are you willing to go bareback with other swinging couples?
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We never go bareback with other couples.266
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We won't go bareback unless they have written proof that they are STD-free.120
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We are willing to go bareback after a few months of getting to know them really well.243
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We are willing to go bareback after a few meetings, provided we feel comfortable with them.319
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We are willing to go bareback with perfect strangers.126
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By Husband1988
Hello everyone,
Me and my wife are new to the lifestyle and so far we've only met 3 couples.
We have a few rules/boundaries and one of them is that we only do a full swap and have sex if we both have sex. I suffer from ED which I've started getting treatment for which is helping, but before we even went into the lifestyle I felt my penis might not get hard so we added this rule to kind of take the pressure off if I couldn't perform.
So with experience 1 as expected I didn't get hard at all but enjoyed giving oral and watching my wife give and receive oral, experience 2 was same again. No problems so far and after both these experiences the sex with my wife has been incredible and my favourite part of all this.
Couple no3 is where things for me at least went wrong.
So we met up for dinner at our place and we got on great and everything was going perfectly and the wine was flowing. First problem is I drank too much, I wasn't drunk but I was closer to drunk than sober. We started playing a game to break the ice and started with the kissing and oral, as before my penis isn't getting hard at all but I just focus on the other wife and use my mouth and hands. I'm not sure how much time had passed but this is where the second problem comes in my wife stops everyone and asks me if it is ok if she has sex. I wasn't thinking clearly due to the alcohol and said yes. She had sex (with condom) with him and I watched it and when the guy finished we all stopped and that was it.
The day after I felt incredibly conflicted and I explained all this to my wife and how I feel like she should of asked me in private if she could have sex and how we had a rule about only having sex if we both did. I know I shouldn't have drunk so much to keep my mind clear.
I've told my wife I need to step back and take a break from everything and she is fine with it. I'm not angry with my wife or upset, we both made mistakes I just feel disappointed with myself more than anything.
Has anyone else had experiences like this and how do you avoid things like this?? Any advice would be great.
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By HotCplUk3040
Ok so this may be a bit taboo and yes there are plenty of issues that come with this… but our conversation (and fantasies) revolve around swapping and sex in this fashion.
It might sound silly but is this frowned upon in swinger circles? Would we be blacklisted or is there a place for this?
We wouldn’t be sleeping around and maybe hope to find a regular couple or 2 to have this fun with, but as a general rule what’s the community’s approach to those coming in and looking to have bareback sex?
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By njbm
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