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I always encourage my wife to dress on the provocative side when we go out and she is glad to oblige with low cut tops, no bra showing her pierced c/d breasts. 
 

I always get turned on seeing the double take from people and knowing people are looking. Last night she wore a DEEP v neck that laces up almost the entire front. NO bra and she loosened it up pretty good for the viewing pleasure of others. She loves the attention. We will recap on the ride home about “did you see that guy looking” 

 

As the weather is warming up I picked up an outfit which consisted of a pair of Short torn/battered shorts that lace together at the hip (I will

try to include the online ad for them) and a thin very slinky shirt. She tried them on and OMG instant arousal. She didn’t wear them to any stores and had to change to deal with some gardening but the thoughts of her wearing this out hasn’t stopped running in my mind. 
 

Last night she had a amazon package come which was a lightweight top that looks like someone cut some holes throughout. Around the left breast area 3-4 holes about a 1-1/2”  that once she puts the shirt on areas around her breasts are pressing against the holes Very erotic (think of side boob in a tank top) 

 

I’m looking for thoughts or fun scenarios to parade her around. Usually we will go to the home improvement store for reactions ( not just, I do a lot of improvement work) Honestly her attire is nothing over the top/criminal and if you look around you see the same out there.

 

Next I was thinking of going to an auto part store ( we need steering fluid) and me walking in first, having her come in shortly after and act like we aren’t together and see her ask for help and see people’s reactions. Have her buy what she needs and leave and see if there is any shop talk after. 

We thought about the bar scenario and have done something like she stays with her friends and me with mine. Only 1 or 2 of our friends know we are in the lifestyle. Well thank you for making it to the end. Would love to hear ideas. Be safe.

 

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If you have a tourist area in your town, that could be one. Think Fisherman's Wharf in San Francisco or Times Square in New York.

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Upscale hotel bars/cocktail lounges and those with pool bars are go-tos for this kind of thing. We have a few we like but the W hotels are reliable weird evenings in nearly every city. Drinks are overpriced but people are largely there from out of town and doing their own thing and want to have fun, and the bartenders have already seen every kind of hookup there is and aren't going to think anything of you.

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I prefer to dress in a way that allows me to look fully dress, but able to do a quick reveal - a knee length skirt or dress with no underwear, a loose top with no bra.  Lora and Clair do the same except that Clair is too bountiful to go braless.  We're not much on public displays, but the potential is always there and sometimes it's a thrill to flash.

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I tend to wear very little when we go to casinos.  You know, like just a thin dress or top with a skirt, no bra, no undies, maybe thigh highs.  Afterall, Casinos are kind of adult only places.  In the winter, we go and get a room, that way I don’t have to worry about coats or walking through snow, etc.  Can just put on a little dress and heels and go on down.

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I have tried looking risqué but I always felt it didn’t work for me. A short dress and I seem to be pulling it down. A tight tee but I don’t think my breasts make them the way I want. I have bought sexy lingerie for home use. For the most part it’s sexy for a few minutes. For some reason a Catholic school girl look turns not only my husband on, it excites our friend and it was noticed by our group when I wore it to a party. Funny because I’m Jewish and used to think I was lucky I didn’t have to wear that to school. 

I’m just wondering if and when I will get to dress up again. I just want a mani/pedi, put on shorts and tee and more importantly, no mask. 

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I have to agree with the idea of upscale hotel bars and being subtle. You don't need to be risque to get a man's attention. I do go without panties and very good at letting men get a peak up my skirt or of the top of my stockings. I can add another great place to go trolling...RV and boat shows. We went to one after church and I was wearing a red dress with bustier underneath, crotchless white pantyhose, and red pumps. I had no problem wearing that to church. I was over dressed for the boat show and it was a conversation starter for some of the boat guys. There were a lot of men following us around. They try to be so sneaky. Anyway, we met Mikey there. He's now a good friend and my husband's golf buddy. He came over in the afternoon and that was the first time I played with him. What I liked about it was that he was a confident guy, but he was super affected by me. When I went to suck on him, he was leaking and said that he was so turned on that he was going to cum fast. I told him it was okay and asked him to hold my tits and squeeze my nipples while I fucked myself. When I got on him he was amorous and said I was the most beautiful housewife he has ever seen. Who doesn't like a guy like that? And I landed him without dressing trashy. He came fast and had a big cum for me. I've dated him a lot since. I was going to say try the mall but maybe not now that I think about it. I had also met Mikey for lunch at a mall and I sat on his dick in a bathroom near the couture dress area at Dillards. You might have a long day trying to pick up a guy at a mall but you will get a lot of teenage attention if you dress trashy.

 

 

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8 hours ago, PSULioness said:

... a Catholic school girl look turns not only my husband on, it excites our friend and it was noticed by our group when I wore it to a party. Funny because I’m Jewish...

As a (former) Catholic (former) schoolgirl, I cry, "Cultural appropriation!"  But I also say have right at it and have fun.  For me, those memories aren't fond or exciting.  As I've mentioned, however, there are two good things that have come from it from the sex standpoint.  One can be summed up by a quote from John Waters (whoever he is), "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty."  The other is sex ed class (which was euphemistically called something else, like "Family Health") where I associated sex with (and became obsessed with) having a man's sperm, a living part of him, swimming around in my body for days.  It is still something that thrills me, especially when it's more than one guy; it makes me feel special and powerful.

 

BTW, do you wear glasses?  For me, coming home, taking off my clothes and glasses, standing in front of the mirror naked filled me with thoughts of the possibilities.  In my clothes I had no tits, no ass, but naked I had small tits, pubic hair, and pussy lips/clit that belied everything else.

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6 hours ago, couplers said:

BTW, do you wear glasses?  For me, coming home, taking off my clothes and glasses, standing in front of the mirror naked filled me with thoughts of the possibilities.  In my clothes I had no tits, no ass, but naked I had small tits, pubic hair, and pussy lips/clit that belied everything else.

Yes glasses. And I have small breasts, flat butt, and my area is shaved which I think makes my labia and clitoris look bigger. Maybe we are related?

 

We have a really close friend who sometimes takes my husband’s place when he is away on business that also like my plaid skirt and knee highs. He also tells me to keep my glasses on. 

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15 hours ago, chiccouplexx said:

I tend to wear very little when we go to casinos.  You know, like just a thin dress or top with a skirt, no bra, no undies, maybe thigh highs.  Afterall, Casinos are kind of adult only places.  In the winter, we go and get a room, that way I don’t have to worry about coats or walking through snow, etc.  Can just put on a little dress and heels and go on down.

This is gold! Surprising I never thought of a casino turns to parade her around. She has suggested it in the past and I shut it down quick. I’m not a gambler, and was only thinking about the gambling aspect. I sense a overnight stay coming up. 

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Lbd or mini skirts with SO on hotel bars or paint nights.  Ripped denim shorts is bf's fave when we go out daytime and lbd with no undies when we go to casinos. I get wet easily when turned on so I always resist a 'no undies' arrangement ?

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17 hours ago, PSULioness said:

Maybe we are related?

I would like to think so.

 

17 hours ago, PSULioness said:

He also tells me to keep my glasses on. 

It's probably that both your husband and "your really close friend" "who sometimes takes my husband’s place" like intelligent women.  I like men who like intelligent women, although having a man take off my glasses is as exciting as him taking off my clothes.

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I've sort of been waiting for someone else to say this. Swing clubs. 

 

Mary always comes to the club in rather vanilla clothing, circulates, then after half an hour or so goes into a bathroom and changes into whatever she thinks is sexy that night. And she might do it again, later, even more risqué, such as revealing lingerie. It's a turn on for her, it's even a bigger turn on for the guys. 

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10 hours ago, adamgunn said:

I've sort of been waiting for someone else to say this. Swing clubs. 

 

Mary always comes to the club in rather vanilla clothing, circulates, then after half an hour or so goes into a bathroom and changes into whatever she thinks is sexy that night. And she might do it again, later, even more risqué, such as revealing lingerie. It's a turn on for her, it's even a bigger turn on for the guys. 

So it is possible to change clothes once inside? I've never been to a swing club. I'm always curious how it is like in there and just needed a push. But maybe after a year when there is a vaccine. Or maybe after 2 years... I will observe first for a year if the vax has side effects on the eager beavers...unless it becomes mandatory! ?

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Well, not all swing clubs are equal, so . . . At our club, DJs Island, there are around 18 private rooms. Early in the evening, before 10:00 or so, not all of them are in use. Mary goes into one of these rooms to change. And some women change in the stall in the ladies room.

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People were even more amazed when she began to fly.

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Yeah, but not real fast. She's more like an A-10 than an F-22! Damn…Im glad she seldom looks at this site!

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On 6/3/2020 at 6:23 AM, Guest said:

I tend to wear very little when we go to casinos.  You know, like just a thin dress or top with a skirt, no bra, no undies, maybe thigh highs.  Afterall, Casinos are kind of adult only places.  In the winter, we go and get a room, that way I don’t have to worry about coats or walking through snow, etc.  Can just put on a little dress and heels and go on down.

We have had A LOT of fun at casinos.  Not just the casino area itself but the bars and clubs within it are great.  We have gone together and with friends. 

 

Just a warning - my GF has dressed very provocatively (like a slut) in the casinos late at night and has been mistaken for a prostitute more than once.  Just something to be aware of if you're alone approaching men.

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Casino trip sounds fun, she is a big fan of casinos (me not so much) but now that I think about it it’s the perfect place. 

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