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new to swinging...looking for a female for a FMF

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jezzebell    15

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Hello,

 

My name is Jezzebell,

 

My husband and I are new to this whole swinging lifestyle. We are interested in looking for a female for a threesome. I have been with women and have had threesomes before. My husband has never had a threesome and I want to give him his first threesome. We are located near Chicago. How can we go about contacting women for this?

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SW_PA_Couple    4,019

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I will give you the same recommendation that I give to anybody just starting their exploration into swing: Get out to see and to be seen. Meet-n-greet events and swingers' club parties are good for this. Do not expect quick results. A few visits might be needed for the regular party-goers to become familiar with you. But you will have opportunities to talk to people and ask questions.

 

The places to find listings of these events and parties is at the usual hook-up sites: SLS or SZC.

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JandKinBoise    851

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The thought of a single woman swinger (unicorn) is popular. Finding one is very frustrating. Possibly look to your circle of friends. Our fmf sex was always with friends.

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Bluespruce1    701

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We go to a local nudist resort where about half of the members are swingers. Very easy to connect and meet folks in a laid back atmosphere and then proceed if desired. We usually have a cabin there so we can play on site if desired.

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Numex    2,175

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.. Possibly look to your circle of friends. Our fmf sex was always with friends.

It worked for us as well. The benefit of approaching friends is that you already know who is bi and have some idea who finds your husband attractive, etc.

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On 7/9/2019 at 10:35 PM, jezzebell said:

Hello,

 

My name is Jezzebell,

 

My husband and I are new to this whole swinging lifestyle. We are interested in looking for a female for a threesome. I have been with women and have had threesomes before. My husband has never had a threesome and I want to give him his first threesome. We are located near Chicago. How can we go about contacting women for this?

I use a dating app for women that are Lesbian or Bisexual, it is called HER.  Make sure to code yourself a Bisexual and search only for other bisexual women seeking casual.  Then ask them if they would consider a FFM.  

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