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How many swinger sites do you belong to?

By JustAskJulie, in Polls & Never-Ending Threads

How many ads sites do you post your ad on?  

168 members have voted

  1. 1. How many ads sites do you post your ad on?

    • Just one! I have a favorite and I stick with them cuz they are the best!
      91
    • As many as I can find, I'm trying to increase my odds of finding good matches.
      60
    • None, I don't do ads - or I just reply to everyone else's
      24

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Brian and Jo    344

Brian and Jo
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We do most of our swinging with a group of six couples. However we are lifetime members of SLS and have met several playmates via our ad there.

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newbieswinger    33

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i'll post my ad anywhere. on certain sites i find all i get is junk from people that we stateed we were not interested in so i take of my picture and think about deleting the ad. i'm talking aff and CL

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realcplub2    513

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i'll post my ad anywhere. on certain sites i find all i get is junk from people that we stateed we were not interested in so i take of my picture and think about deleting the ad. i'm talking aff and CL

 

 

We post a profile and give each site we come across a look/chance..

 

For the past year, we have been paying members on AFF, and SLS ( an unforunate turn of events early on with SLS, made us stop using them for a while but we are back on there.. )

 

Now, I can agree that YES, you do get plenty of BS replies.. and then you get a letter or two that arent..

 

Sometimes, you have to go thru the BS to find the people you really want to connect with.

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red96    17

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I chose the second one but we only have three ads out there. We are paying members on AFF which is about to lapse and we probably won't renew. We have an ad on SLS and are paid members there too. We also have an ad on SCZ,we got in in time for the free life time membership. We have had some limited success on SLS and AFF but they have been few and far between. So far we haven't had any luck on SCZ but the site is new and the membership is growing daily so hopefully things will start to happen there for us too.

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