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That sounds like it could be a fun game. I'd play (in a heartbeat)....

 

It should work just as well with almost any reasonable number of players.

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We are nudists who, on occasion, indulge in moderate(nude) swinging. This has only happened a couple times at a nudist resort when everyone had a few drinks and were caught up in the moment. But now we've made plans to meet another nudist swinging couple and other than putting on a porn DVD and possibly having a few drinks where do we go from there? Let's face it--we're all going to be naked in the first place. We haven't met them except for e-mails. Strip poker and strip twister would only be effective if we did it in reverse--LOL- Any suggestions?

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Back when we did this sort of thing, we would play strip poker and after you were naked if you lost the hand you had to do what the winner told you.

 

I used to play to lose.

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I say throw away the kids games, jump in the bed and have a blast. Play the ultimate adult game, we used to call it "Wife Swap". And I don't mean that stupid TV show.

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I was at a party once and someone had a game with dice. One die had actions, such as "lick", "kiss" or "suck", and the other had body parts on it. That might be a good icebreaker for you, if you need one.

 

But I am with BiloxiCouple -- if you all want to play, just sidle up to your intended with a grin and begin touching them. A caress on the thigh is a nice start... or up the center of the back...

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hotjazz said:
Strip poker and strip twister would only be effective if we did it in reverse--LOL

Ummmm...when was the last time you played nekkid twister :D It's a pretty good ice breaker...especially when the spinner fibs and calls out the color/body part to enhance positions :facelick:

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BiloxiCouple said:
... we used to call it "Wife Swap". And I don't mean that stupid TV show.

I was extremely disappointed when I turned the channel and it wasn't what I thought it was. ;)

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We are nudists too, so we understand your issue.

 

Couple of games to start things off, which in the end have become very successful. We still them at get-togethers.

 

Charades

Truth or Dare

Blind man's/woman's Bluff

 

We have even had games such as croquet, Frisbee, ping pong, and badmitten.

 

Ultimately the objective is to get everybody to relax with some laughs.

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Truth or Dare Jenga:

If you pull a block north/south then it's Truth

If you pull a block west/east then it's Dare

 

If you make it fall you give a lapdance to the person of your choice. That way even when you lose, you win!

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Thanks for the input. We both have bad backs so we might have to opted for the dice game, however, the mere thought of 2 gals bending over in naked twister would straighted out more than just my back.

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JustAskJulie said:
HOT TUB - the greatest ice breaker there is.

We don't have one now but a secluded one will be a REQUIREMENT for our next house.

 

I have to agree with Julie on this one.

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Hot tub... the giant sex toy on the back deck.

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JustAskJulie said:
HOT TUB - the greatest ice breaker there is.

Hi guys,

 

We have a nice hot tub in the back yard, and we always want to invite friends into it of course naked. Most people always shy away from the idea as being naked does not attract them. How do you suggest going into the tub naked and not look like perverts in front of your friends. We know swinging with vanilla friends spells disaster, but who says you can't enjoy hot-tubbing naked with them.

 

Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

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We have been to parties where things took so long to get started. Since then we have decided that whenever necessary we will break the ice ourselves. Why waste the time when it can be used for more fun.

 

We feel that the best way to break the ice if you are already nude is to start discussing swinging experiences. Pretty soon the guys will start showing a response to the discussion, and that is a clue to my gal to to reach out and start stroking, and the party is on.

 

That also is sort of like our favorite ways to get things started when we are dressed. We like to sit together on a sofa, MFM, or if with a couple, around a small card table. When the conversation is hot, we will reach out and start rubbing the other mate's thigh. Pretty soon that leads to the woman reaching out and stroking the guys' dicks through his pants. At that point, the party is on.

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Not too long ago we played a sexy board game (meant for multiple couples) with another couple. At first I was skeptical because some of the demands were a little cheesey but after we got into it I was quite impressed with how it truly did function as an ice breaker. I don't know name of it but I'm sure there are a few of those kinds of games out there.

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If the dares involve interacting with others at random then we would not be comformtable with that. We like control/choice over who we interact with. And having to say no in a game situation like that leaves things uncomfortable, at least for us. Been there and it was not fun.

 

We've only been to a few parties with ice breakers, one involved removing clothing..that is always an ice breaker..lol.

 

Other parties we go to, things just sort of happen.

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I was speaking with a fellow swinger the other day, one that we have known for years, and the subject came up of "whats the best, fun, party like games for swingers to play" games that would help things get started, naughty games, truth and dare, half naked twister, we even came up with the idea of putting lots of dares / actions in a hat, then people could pick them out at random and then preform the dare / sexual act. So what are the best games to play that could be fun and help things along, and why? x x

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I think for us, the best games or "ice breakers", involve social interactions.

 

We could play/shoot a game of pool and work with that, getting to know people better.

 

Naked twister? Strictly a spectator sport, until we are better acquainted.

 

Truth or Dare? I would take a dare, Mrsfun would take truth.

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Some friends of ours have a game called, "The Game". It is a card drawing game based on Truth or Dare. Basically there are cards worth 1, 5, 10, or 20 points. The more the points, the more risque the task. A 1-point card may be "Show everyone what color your panties are". A 20-point card is something like "Receive oral from all the guys. Guess which one is your mate". So, participation level is up to the individual. Shy folks can take it easy until they are comfy, while the adventurous can jump right in.

 

There are a group of us, around 6-8 couples, that get together a couple times a year and rent a couple cabins for the weekend. This is one of the running games we play. Never seem to remember who wins, or if we even finish, since half are too horny to finish, and half are too drunk (Hey, it is a weekend getaway with friends!).

 

I have no idea where they bought The Game. She used to sell adult toys, so it may have been through one of those suppliers. I'll have to find out.

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dodgechevy said:
Strip Poker, oldie but goodie.

To add a new twist to an old game allow the person with the top hand the opportunity to touch, rub, caress, and lick any exposed skin of the other players while the deck is being completely reshuffled.

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The Game is available on-line. there is a link to the website from Kasidie's toy review page. We have purchased it but have yet to play. Will get around to it soon, I hope.

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Super Bowl Foursome: Variation I: Husbands take one team, wives their competitor. When your team scores you get oral sex until the ball is back in play.

 

Variation II: Couples switch mates and form two teams. Each team picks an NFL team to "cheer" for. Scorer gives oral sex. Once the ball is back in play the switched couples are free to play "Kiss and Feeley" but can't fuck ... yet.

 

Variation III: Married couples stay together and choose sides. The woman of the scoring team is "it" with all three pleasuring her until the ball is back in play. Every quarter the couples switch mates.

 

Variation IV: Who has a good idea?

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we were talking with some swinger friends the other night and the topic of strip poker came up. Her response was "it takes too long, we just play strip high card" (aka strip war)

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I'm not really a "game" person, so I guess I'll vote for "grab ass in the hot tub" game. The wife and I will sometimes play strip backgammon on a lazy Saturday afternoon, but we've never tried that in a swinging situatioin.

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Have been looking for a good ice breaker game and havent really been able to find anything good. I have taken a game that we love to play, Texas Holdem, and given it a twist. I have listed it below. Let me know what you think and if there are any areas that may need adjusting. Thanks.

 

Strip Texas Holdem Rules

 

Played just like Texas Holdem with chips. Chip amount to be determined each game. Usually $50-$75 in chips.

 

Ante each hand is $2 each player. No small or big blinds.

 

Loosing players each hand loose one item of clothing. (Could be only 1 player or 3 depending on who all plays out hand). Each player playing hand that looses must remove one item of their choice.

 

If player folds then they loose chips in pot but loose no additional clothing. (safe play).

 

If all but one player folds then remaining player still playing has the option to buy one item of clothing from player of choice or to collect chips from pot and do nothing. Item of clothing cost $10.

 

Player may also purchase an ‘action’ to be performed. This cost $20. 20 total for individual act or 10 per person if two people are involved. 30 if three are involved. Action must be performed on existing body part that is already exposed. (if bra is still on then you cant have them perform oral on boobs.)

 

 

How to refuse clothing removal or acts.

If a player offers 10 for clothing removal and person doesn’t want to do so then they can pay back the 10 chips plus a 50% penalty. (5 additional chips). For an act it would be 20 paid back plus 10 chips.

 

If player goes all in and looses hand then they loose all clothing at once.

 

Players may pay $ to player that has no chips, however there has to be an action involved. $20 for individual act or 10 each if two people are involved.

 

Player may not refuse act if they want to remain in game.

 

Dealer options: Dealer has the option at the end of their deal to buy clothing or to buy an action from player or players of their choice.

 

 

Misc:

The only time you can buy clothing or actions is if:

 

-You are the dealer and can do so at the end of the hand before cards pass to next dealer.

 

-Everyone in hand folds except for you. Then you have option to purchase clothing item or action. You do not have to be dealer for this to happen.

 

-A player looses all chips. Then you can pay them to perform actions thus earning them a spot back in the game. This can be paid by anyone. This action cannot be refused as player will not have enough chips to pay back the penalty. If refusal then player is out of game and must watch remainder.

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Sounds like a good and easy game.

 

It also gives a person an out if they are uncomfortable with something. Very important.

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I have a drinking game I made using Jenga Blocks. Each block has an action/task or rule to perform. It gets people moving and involved. Very easily could be turned into an ice breaker game or Swinger game.

 

A few suggestions would be to have everyone sit boy girl boy girl in a circle.

Blocks could be suck as:

keep physical contact with the person to your right

re-enact your last orgasm

remove article of clothing.

host gets to make a rule

give a lap dance to person to your right

tongue twisters are always fun - make up your own penalties :D

 

There are lots of suggestions you could steal from .. just look up drinking Jenga online.

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We played strip Jenga and that seemed to do the trick. Actually got to the point where people we intentionally trying to knock the tower down so as to get naked quicker.

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This is a bit involved, but can be fun at a large house party.. Face photos or the name of the woman is placed onto three, poker style, chips. The woman can keep them or give them away to anyone she chooses. The rule is, within reason, that when given the chip is given back, she is to have sex with that person. I found it to be amazingly great.--susan

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we played a game called "sexyparty" when we had couples over.. it was a computer game like monopoly.. not very well made but was good to break the ice..

Do you guys know of any games for swingers?

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Heck we just found this thread and it is too late in the evening to read it all. However we will. Read a couple and they sounded fun.

 

We always thought the game or activity was to have sex....LOL. But we will have to add to our game skills.

 

Thanks who ever started this long running thread.

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Make up a list of sexy things, one for the women and one for the men. Things such as

 

Piercings

Tattoos

Bald genital area

Hairy genital area

no tan lines

no panties

no underwear

 

These are just a few...my lists have 12 different sexual things. You can have as few as you want or as much as you want depending on the size of the party. Women have to find men who have the things on the men's list, and men have to find women who have the things on their list and they can't use the same person twice. It gets the people talking to each other and the naughtier you get with the items the hotter things get.

 

The party we went to last weekend had a game similar they called Human bingo. They added the qualification that the person must show what they are signing. Within 5 minutes I knew and saw one gal had no panties and another gals body piercings. I ended up showing my boxers a time or two. It definitely got you around talking to people.

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Hi everyone,

 

I know this is an old post but simply had to comment on it. A while ago my wife and I got so frustrated by the lack of (quality) swingers/group sex games that we actually made our own. It was our 'pet project' on and off for years and we've recently finished it (finally!). It's called Sexy Racers for Windows. We have a demo that people can check out for free.

 

It can be played by couples and groups (up to 8 people). Needless to say, we had GREAT fun testing it and coming up with all the different naughty 'actions' you have to act out!

 

Please ask us about it if interested. We're also interested in adult games generally and how they can help people have fun! :)

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I would be really interetsed in info on the game you have designed. We love sexy games (for couples or groups) and have mainly use the greatsexgames.com ones

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JustAskJulie said:
Here is a question I received a while back:

 

Any thoughts for party games and icebreakers?

With all due respect, is this really necessary? I've always found that lively conversation and a positive attitude are the best form of "icebreaker". If these two couples are ones you have played with before, then why do you need anything else? I've gone to house parties where the host and hostess have planned out a program of "games" and such, and it made everybody very uncomfortable. It seemed too stilted and contrived. Music, finger foods, and a couple of drinks, should be all that is necessary to put people in the mood. IMHO. I go to swingers parties for sex. I don't go for party games or cheerleading.

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My apologies. I should have added , "to each , his own", to the end of my post. I am very opinionated, but it is, after all, ONLY my opinion. Sorry.

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On 5/5/2013 at 7:53 PM, IndulgentCpl said:

Hi everyone,

 

I know this is an old post but simply had to comment on it. A while ago my wife and I got so frustrated by the lack of (quality) swingers/group sex games that we actually made our own. It was our 'pet project' on and off for years and we've recently finished it (finally!). It's called Sexy Racers for Windows. We have a demo that people can check out for free.

 

It can be played by couples and groups (up to 8 people). Needless to say, we had GREAT fun testing it and coming up with all the different naughty 'actions' you have to act out!

 

Please ask us about it if interested. We're also interested in adult games generally and how they can help people have fun! :)

Hi ☺️
we would love to get more info about your game

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