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He Said, She Said!

It is best to live without expectations. That way, you are never disappointed when things don’t work out the way you planed them! Such is the case of my recent experience.   In the last year or so, I have been communication with this individual through swingersboard, Yahoo and texts! It has been a great learning experience and ever better friendship! What I have learned from her I will use with Mrs. CXXC. This is the perfect relationship if you ask me! It is a great give and take!   As I
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14 days of Valentine’s!

Within the last 15 years that Mrs. CXXC and I have been together, I have come to the realization, it’s the little things that matter most! Case and point:   I started something a few years ago that has become a tradition in our household. I call it the “14 days of Valentine’s”. Sure, everyone celebrates the 14th of February! That’s easy. Valentine’s day is a Hallmark holiday! It is forced down our throats and men throughout the USA have been made to endure it. We shell out ridiculous sum
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Whatever it Takes!!!

There was a time, not too long ago, when the gym was not just a place to exercise. It was the next best thing to a pick-up joint as any bar. Women, dressed in tight little outfits of spandex and low cut leotards, would have more workout partners than they would know what to do with! The Mirror athletes would parade about like the proud peacocks they were, fanning their plumage (muscles) to attract the prettiest females. Like any good pick-up bar, many couples formed in these health clubs.  
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REVENGE of the Hot Tub!!!

Today, good reader, I will regale you with a tale that may help you understand how my year is ending! This story is based upon the love/hate relationship have with my hot tub. Oh the joys one imagines when, with eyes closed, one sees that crystal clear and steaming water, churning in turbulent motions just waiting to sooth the sore and aching muscles after a long hard day’s…….. (Fill this section in with whatever activity you happen to have been doing just before reading this blog. The creato
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File to Larger!

Last week, I started a poll about this topic to see where others stand regarding “sexting”. https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/36908-sexting-not-just-for-school-students-anymore/   Well, the numbers seem to favor the practice. For various reasons, individuals and couples are enjoying the ability to instantly share their passionate desires, wishes, thoughts and fantasies. It has become another medium with which to share our lifestyle.   I am taking a guess here, but I
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NICE!!! (A Holiday Tale)

I guess you could say I am one of those individuals who really enjoys the Holidays! There is something about the season that gets me going! It could be the “cool” in the air. (Savannah doesn’t really get chilly) It may be the pretty lights and garland. Perhaps the festive colors and decorations bring a certain joy to my heart. The music, while rather repetitive and simple, is one of my favorite parts of this season. I also notice, by and large, the people seem to be just a tad bit nicer.
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With the Snap of the Fingers.....

I was thinking back to the days of my youth, particularly high school. As most of you will remember, those were some pretty tough years! Many of us had no clue regarding sex. Some of us had parents with the hidden copy of Playboy, hustler, Penthouse etc… Most didn’t or never found them. My story is not that different from anyone here. I started a little younger than the average (2 months after my 13th birthday) but for a few years, I was completely clueless.   I remember, clearly, that aw
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The Glorified Thank You Note

Its funny how I will write a blog a couple weeks in advance and come to find someone has posted the same topic on the discussion boards just before my posting date! Well, forgive the redundancy. I figure this may be a different take on the topic and perhaps will generate some interesting feedback.   About three years ago, I started to look into the numerous sites devoted to the Lifestyle. I am certain you are well aware of the fact that there are a GREAT number of them. The number grows eac
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Light Bulbs!!!

As most of you know, the CXXC house is all about comfort for the weary traveler or occasional lifestyle guest(s). I have suffered great pains in my pursuit of making my home an oasis of rest, relaxation and pleasure. Much of my efforts have been focused upon my back yard. Unfortunately, Mother Nature is not a member of the lifestyle (well she should be! She fucks me every year with leaves, rain, broken limbs, the list goes on!) and therefore refuses to co-operate in helping me keep the area
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Watch the Birdie!!!

A little over 14 years ago, I met the absolutely amazing creature with whom I would later date, become engaged to and finally marry. Yep! This wonderful woman is Mrs. CXXC. In all these years, (It really feels like yesterday) I have looked upon her and wondered what I have done in a previous life or in this one to deserve her. I have had many men AND WOMEN ask me the same question. The only answer I have ever been able to give with a margin of certainty is, “I love her with all my heart!”  
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Nothing against you but,………

Mrs. CXXC has been in a veritable tizzy these past few days. I guess it all started two weeks ago while trying to replace her boy toy! As you know, he left our lovely little town and moved back home three months ago! Since then, Mrs. CXXC was looking around in search of a suitable replacement.   Mrs. CXXC fell upon a handsome lad who fit the bill perfectly. Granted, he is vanilla by our standards, he is unattached and truly enjoys her company. They have had fun in various activities but at
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Every Girl Has Her Limits

As everyone here should know, Mrs. CXXC is Bi-sexual. Now, by every definition of the term, she fits the bill perfectly. Her desires for both men and women in sexual congress are virtually matched. She draws GREAT pleasure from both sexes. Her fantasies are of both men and women. She enjoys pleasing and being pleased by both men and women. In fact, when it comes to sexual activities with another woman, she will not let one please her without returning the favor. So, it is safe to say, she
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I Just Don't Fit!

I am drawn back to my youth and how things never seemed to fit very well. As a pre-teen, I hit a growth spurt that had my parents and virtually everyone around me scratching their heads. You see, in the 5th grade, I was your normal but slightly taller than normal boy. I was still 5’6” at the end of the school year. During that summer, I guess I got too much fresh air, too much exercise and too much food. By the time school started again, I was not just in the 6th grade, I was also 6 feet ta
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A Very Slippery Slope!

Years ago, a friend of mine in the vanilla world confided in me, a tale that struck me as both humorous and horrifying. Please, walk down memory lane with me. I promise, it will not be so painful.   Here is the tale:   My friend, while in college, had the opportunity and good fortune to engage a lovely co-ed in sexual congress. As the evening grew hotter, she, unfortunately, became less self lubricated. Not wanting to end the festivities, my friend took matters into his own hands and
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Don't Touch that Dial!!

One evening, on our way back from one of our countless trips north to see family, Mrs. CXXC decides to plug her iPod into my stereo. This is not unusual as she generally takes over the music selection on our longer trips. So, per the norm, I sit back waiting to hear the selection. 36 gig of music will cover the 9 hour trip from the Mid-Atlantic States to home easily. Here we go!   Mrs. CXXC has a rather eclectic taste in music. On her sy
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Bye By Boy Toy!

In my time on this planet, I have noticed a few things. A while ago, I decided to compile a list of the things I have observed and found interesting, and to a point humorous, to me. If you will indulge me, let me share a small portion of my list with you.   I have noticed that virtually every woman I have ever met possesses these same desires. Certainly, there exceptions to the rules and age plays a factor in many items on this list. However, by and large, I have discovered that nearl
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I Never Thought

Mrs. CXXC and I have been having a most interesting conversation, on and off, these last few weeks. One day, while sitting in the “Soak-n-Poke”, (our term for the hot tub) Mrs. CXXC announces that she would like to let everyone know that we are swingers. Ok. After I lifted my chin out of the water and gathered my thoughts, I was able to ask why and when.   My wife hates limitations. She is not one to suffer an inability to pursue her hobbies or desires due to some societal constraints. Whe
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That Guy!

Last weekend I had and accepted the opportunity to attend a house party. The hosts, a couple Mrs. CXXC and I had entertained at our home months before, are truly wonderful and loads of fun. In the year that I have known them, we have gotten to understand each other quite well. So, needless to say, when they extended the invitation to us to attend, I jumped on it.   Unfortunately, Mrs. CXXC had to work the evening of the party and could not attend. The hosts were gracious enough to continue
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Sometimes I am like a Kid at Christmas!

Both Mrs. CXXC and I have dates tomorrow. I have the privilege of spending the day with an absolutely wonderful woman with whom I have previously partied. Mrs. CXXC also has her boy toy visiting during the early evening.   I am quite excited about my date. As I will arrive at her home at lunch time, I suspect we will enjoy a little bite before the festivities begin and then it will be all about pleasure. Her husband will not arrive until 19:00 tomorrow evening. I am saddened by that as I r
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Not Accepting New Applications

Mrs. CXXC and I were looking over our schedule for the next 6 months and came to a frightening revelation. Once we come back from our vacation in early August, we are SCREWED! Actually, we are NOT getting screwed to be honest. You see, once we return from vacation, our schedules are going to be diametrically opposed. She will be working the 16 hour six day week (one 24 hour shift every other weekend) and I will be up to my normal travels. In short, we will be lucky to see each other in pass
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Knit One, Perl Two

I try and try and try to never tell a falsehood. Telling the truth is so much easier to remember. This is a lesson I learned as a VERY young child. I just knew my mother could read my mind so, I figured that I may as well come clean. Plus, by admitting the truth and/or the wrong doing, the punishment, although many times painful, was not as severe.   Unfortunately, with my family, I am forced to spin a little web every once in a while. You see, my sister just asks too many questions. She
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Celebrating the 4th with a BANG, BANG, BANG, BANG!!!!

Mrs. CXXC and I had a most splendid Holiday weekend. Together, we celebrated both our nations and our moral independence. We stood among thousands of celebrants on the banks of the Savannah River and enjoyed a wondrous fireworks display. Civic pride always fills my heart this time of year.   We invited a lovely couple to spend the holiday with us in our home. As this was one of the last free weekends we have on our schedules this summer, we wished to take advantage of it with some Lifesty
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The CXXC House!

As you know, Mrs. CXXC and I live in Savannah. This is a great place to live and even better place to visit for a long weekend or a vacation. The sights, the history, the activities and even the people are in many ways better than Disney. Anyone who has seen the movies, “Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil” or “Forest Gump” knows where they want to go immediately upon entering town! Find the “Bird Girl” statue. Locate the bench Forrest sat upon. The fact that both items are no longer t
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Ooooo! Ahhhhh! Ohhhhh! Applause!

Mrs. CXXC and I had a fantastic weekend past. Friday morning celebrated the end of a two week visit from a family member. The entire day was then spent in more hedonistic pursuits ending in an evening at our favorite music hall to enjoy a truly wonderful band! I must say, after being starved for each others company, we took every advantage of being together. Saturday, Mrs. CXXC enjoyed a lunch date with some Vanilla friends and a wonderful time at the spa. The highlight of the weekend, ho
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Purple Potatos, Condoms and the 1st MFM

There is so much to be said for anticipation. One feels the excitement, longing, desire and pure adrenaline surging through their body from the moment the idea is decided upon. Both Mrs. CXXC and I are no exceptions to this rule! In fact, I believe we personify it. And so begins the tale of this last week.   As you may well know, Mrs. CXXC and I play solo on occasion. It adds an extra level of excitement to our lifestyle experience. This past week, while out with Vanilla friends, Mrs. CXX
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