What are your requirements on STD testing?
53 members have voted
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1. What are your requirements on STD testing?
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We require it of all playmates8
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We do not require it of our playmates27
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We are regularly tested and always have current results available14
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We are tested occasionally (or never) and aren't likely to produce test results if asked.18
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