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couple
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Mississauga, ON Canada
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sex, gardening, sex, reading, sex, dancing, sex, home improvement, sex, bargain shopping
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professional
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7 years
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Amanda69 started following Opinions on hiring a male escort for MFM?, How has swinging changed you?, I want the wife, but my wife isn't ready to do the husband and and 5 others
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From the reviews on Amazon.ca it seems this film shows mainly older participants in the 55 plus range. The film was also made 7 years ago. Tried to see if it was available through the Torrent sites but no luck. If anyone else sees it let me know what you think but from the reviews I have seen so far I think I will give it a miss.
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Would you appear in a swingers documentary?
Amanda69 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
No wouldn't do it. Then again I wouldn't go on TV or video to talk about any other topic either so why should the Lifestyle be any different. We are private people and all aspects of our life remain so.- 42 replies
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I want the wife, but my wife isn't ready to do the husband
Amanda69 replied to Darkblue's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
The thing is here that both parties don't agree. Yes at times in certain situations you can get her to agree it might happen but she always goes back to NO in the light of day. My advice, stop the pressure, it is not helping the situation. She isn't ready, that is clear. If you truly put her first and won't do anything without agreement, then that is the end of the discussion for the time being. -
I wonder how long this trend towards shaved pubic regions will last before we move back to the natural look. I don't have a preference though I keep myself closely trimmed.
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Female on SLS went from sweet to mean!!!
Amanda69 replied to Taylor74's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Sorry but looking at how defensive he got to Thrax's comments about his second post I can see where the communication between him and this woman may have gone astray. In email and postings you cannot assume that people will pick up on sarcasm, humor etc no matter how many smilies you put in the post. Many an argument has happened on this board and others do to a misunderstanding or misinterpretation of the post. In this case we are only hearing one side of the story. If it is accurate then yes the woman or person he was communicating with appears to have some issues. Other than that we really can't offer an opinion. -
The sexual thrill of her "cheating" on me
Amanda69 replied to 30sCoupleInKC's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Is it really cheating if you are giving her your permission to do it? Isn't this more the thrill of just knowing she has been with another man? -
Want to swing so that I can have an orgasm
Amanda69 replied to loladoreen's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
with the majority of posters here so far. As for the orgasm issue you really need to look at WHY you can't orgasm. Is it your husband? Is it a medical issue? Is it an emotional issue? Have you tried masturbation? Use of toys etc? Bringing another person into the mix is only a recipe for further problems. If you have a basically good relationship except for the sex, then fix the sex part first...then come on in and join the fun. It will be a much better experience for both of you at that time.- 31 replies
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Stood Up, and I"M playing a game?
Amanda69 replied to MoonLightKiss's topic in Adventures in Swinging
It was bad enough he blew you off in the first place but to then not accept the consequences of his choice and try to turn it around on you is just foolish and idiotic. As someone said some people are single for a reason. -
Opinions on hiring a male escort for MFM?
Amanda69 replied to sugar-nightlife's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Sorry can't imagine paying anyone to have sex...as someone previously said there is so much out there for free. -
We are Female - 44 and Male - 48 (sorry couldn't figure out how to get the poll to allow more than one choice). We play with people approximately 35 - 55 but keep that a little flexible for those special people who we make a connection with.
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Slight Dogleg Left, or, Grading on a Curved Penis
Amanda69 replied to Jack&Jill's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
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Why are Clubs So Expensive?
Amanda69 replied to ATAK's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Clubs in Ontario, Canada charge approximately $30 for a couple and slightly more for a single male if they allow them (only 2 clubs in the GTA do). You have to become a member of the club, at least for the night in Canada to get around certain rules of behavior in public places. Most clubs here have onpremise parties in private spaces at hotels or condos, they usually charge anywhere from $50 - 75 for the night. Most clubs have membership fees that get you reduced rates at the doors. Ours usually operate 1- 2 nights a week at most with a few exceptions. They take the risk running the club and organizing the events so they should get something for it. Heck look at the prices for the conventions these days, now those are expensive. -
As a couple you decide what is right and what is wrong for you. Keep in mind this also means couples you play with also have that right to decide what is right for them. Everyone decides from what is communicated verbally and nonverbally who will or could be a match for them. This couple has decided they don't like the way things are going. You are not "bad" swingers. You are not "taking too long". But I do agree with a prior poster given your boundaries we wouldn't be interested in playing with you either. Boundaries and rules are set to make your play time fun for you, enjoy but also don't fault others if they decide you are not for them because of those boundaries and rules.
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Other girl's date assumed I'd do him
Amanda69 replied to Tybee Swing's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I would have had a more detailed discussion with her first before consenting to play to find out the situation with her and this guy. While there are men who will happily sit on a chair and watch the action, most men want to join in, can't really blame the guy. You have to consider what you are comfortable with is not always what others consider to be normal or comfortable for them. Maybe they go to a lot of parties where they enjoy anonymous sex. Maybe she essentially is the bait to get him laid at these parties, she does the trolling and when she finds a couple gets him involved. I would certainly be open asap about your lack of interest in him and see where that takes you. Maybe she is open to partying on her own, then you have a winner. If not then maybe just a fun friend to hang with occaisonally. -
Meeting Swingers That Don't Converse
Amanda69 replied to avgcpl4u's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
It is interesting that we have put so much on the actual conversation here. My first reaction was, if they aren't talking I would also put a halt to everything. Though after a little thought though some encounters realized it is not about the talking but about the non-verbal communication. I have nights where I sit quietly but if I am interested I can still give a look to a partner or potential partner to catch their attention and let them know things are possible. I can also behave in a manner that says while they might be doing a lot of the talking, that I am interested in what they are saying. I can make eye contact, lean forward, nod my head, (pull my top off - lol just wanted to see who was paying attention). It is all about the interaction between the couples. If there is chemistry it can work no matter who does the majority of talking. If there isn't then no amount of conversation will save the day.