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imsnowman started following Should I tell her about my past cheating?
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Should I tell her about my past cheating?
imsnowman replied to AlbertaSwing's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
You need to figure out why you want to tell her. Most counselors say that merely assuaging your guilt is not really good enough. You're merely unloading your problem on her. -
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What are the parameters on your soft swing? Do you actually play with the other people or is the touching just between you and your wife? Do a search for both HPV and HSV. There are many, many pages of information about both. This site ASHA is one of the best.
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The whole cert circle is "at risk". The risk is probably negligible if the people involved practiced safe sex. That doesn't mean only condoms. Reread the posts and do some searches for information on transmission. For instance, H-positives who use a daily valtrex suppression regime present a very small risk. We have played a lot over several days with H-positives and not had any problems. Only you can decide if it's overly cautious. We would say that it is more risky to play with those in the circle who you think have been exposed but who don't know if they have it then it is to play with known positives and take appropriate precautions.
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What's with the subtle but, gratuitous insult? I don't see him insulting you!
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Sounds like it might be helpful for you to be upfront at the beginning of your conversations. Make sure the other folks know what you are available for and make sure you find out what they are available for early in the conversation. It doesn't have to be the old "Hey, you wanna fuck?" question but since yall seem to be well-spoken I'm sure you can figure out something a little more subtle. Then you know whether to spend more time with them.
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After you both spend some time reading past threads on this board (do a search for similar topics) I'd recommend the club route to start. You're in the environment with no chance for misunderstanding what someone else is suggesting. Look at reviews of clubs in Colorado and pick one that suits you both. Maybe on you first visit plan to just dance, smooch etc. I think you'll find as others have said "No means No". So any problems you have will most likely be of your own making. (You'll discover that just by reading threads on this board about others' problems.) If you trust yourselves and have talked about your expectations and fears I'm sure you'll be able to go and have a good time
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A qualified no. If I felt that the woman was not really comfortable with herself then she would be sort of slutty. But........... I'm not really crazy about labeling other's behavior (except for bad drivers and right-wingers) and (no that's not an invitation to hijack this thread ) so I would probably just avoid a woman who was uncomfortable with her own behavior. A woman or man who is confident and happy can't be too slutty.
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I can't believe the host/hostess continue to put up with that woman's "stuff". In my opinion she should not be reinvited. I can't believe she could be so good as to be worth overlooking her bitchiness.
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The police weren't summoned. He was on-duty in the hotel as security.
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The police officer who was there said he didn't see anything illegal. I would imagine that floks dressed like the complainers said would have been illegal. So who do you believe, the policeman or the complainers? How much effort did the complainers have to make to see the action?
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Wonderful response. Thanks