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BeStylnIT last won the day on April 23 2013
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114 ExcellentAbout BeStylnIT
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- Birthday 04/04/1981
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
Single Male
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Location
Memphis
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Interests
Older housewives behaving badly, non-fiction, Web 2.0, Music, Role Playing
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Swinging Experience
Only been with two couples. 1 we had multiple threesomes. The other it was only once. Each time was
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BeStylnIT started following Prospecting younger single male for MFM: any suggestions for older couple?, Flirting in the beginning?, Trying not to get frustrated with online swinging and and 6 others
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Awesome feedback, thanks. I didn't see any of you mention a problem with things getting too boring and losing interest. That was what I was concerned about from not being flirty enough. So lesson is, keeping it classy and using the good manners momma taught us won't work against a person. Cool Thanks again, this is the best place for advice. I wish I could join an orgy with all yaz
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When I'm emailing a couple for the first time I try to avoid sounding like a heavy breathing creeper. Maybe I'm going too far with my emails and sounding too bland. I've been avoiding the subject because I'm sure couples get mail all the time about the wife's looks. Still though, sex is what it's about and is it possible that not complimenting the wife it could give a bad impression? While things are starting out I don't go on and on about the things I want to do. Should I? Of course there are thoughts going on in my head but do women care to hear that from a stranger? At one point can the conversation get turned up a little?
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Trying not to get frustrated with online swinging
BeStylnIT replied to BeStylnIT's topic in Finding People to Swing With
No, it's me... I'm blowing it. Today a hot couple reached out to me and after we opened private pictures for each other I didn't get immediate response. I started feeling insecure and convinced myself they had lost interest and were going to ignore me. So I emailed them telling them they should tell me they're going to keep looking instead of making me sit and wonder. Turns out they got preoccupied with non-swinger related things in life and to quote him they were "VERY INTERESTED" but my impatients turned them off. They don't know me and with the impression of myself I gave them who can blame them. Getting rejected is one thing, I can deal with it actually. Knowing that this couple was interested and was attracted to me until I opened my mouth too much makes me feel like crap! I hate myself right now -
Trying not to get frustrated with online swinging
BeStylnIT replied to BeStylnIT's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Appreciate your advice and encouragement y'all!!! Frustration was taking over and in the driver's seat. That won't get anyone anywhere... Thx again -
Ok you wonderful swingers, I'm asking you for another review. I've added to my personal description and I have a main picture I'm wondering about. Please good people help me because my profile is crucial to making contact with the couples I want to meet.I'm sorry if I wasn't able to get it up to par earlier, don't give up on me y'all lol...
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That's what I'm aiming for, exactly as you put it. It's important to me for other reasons too. I'm genuine person and I don't want to misrepresent myself. I'm honest and a good person that doesn't take sex for granted. I love it, very much!!! Sex isn't something I would consider compromising myself for or lying to get. I think that's awesome and it's a quality I look for in others. I know there are other people who feel the same way. That's who needs to email me and respond to my message. We need to fuck! Lol
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Did you mean you don't mean to be a downer but don't believe it to be real? Believing it to be real wouldn't be so much of a downer. I may not understand you correctly. Thank you for your feedback it was helpful. I made some changes and actually feel pretty good about it. All I need now is the g rated main pic and I'm making that happen.
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Site must be getting a lot of traffic, these responses are taking forever.
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"A good G-rated pic to set as the profile default will set you up right. You don't have to show your face in it, but give them an idea of what you are about" This will be difficult without my face in the pic. I know what you're saying though...
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That's terrific feedback, thank you. I made the changes you suggested...great advice and thanks again. Wish I had waited to email until after I had finalised my profile. Your feedback was very insightful I'd love to hear more if you have the time.
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Thank you, I'd love profile feedback if you are cool enough to take the time.
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Does my external profile need to be enabled? Here is a copy paste link No cyber beat downs wanted...thanks for the advice on that. I've seen women's opinion of dic pics all over the net. I only ask because previously when I was on SLS I remember getting messages from couples immediately asking for dick pics. I have a great penis but couples who would sleep with someone based on a dic pick I want no part of.
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Photoshopping profile pictures - good or bad?
BeStylnIT replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
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I just joined SLS, do I post a link to my profile in this thread? Thanks, question in advance, to dick pick main profile photo or to not dick pic my main photo?