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15 GoodAbout nckittycpl29
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Rank
Contributor
- Birthday 06/19/1983
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
married female
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Location
Northeastern Wisconsin
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Interests
hockey, film, theater, music, volunteering
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Swinging Experience
never - only in fantasies.
Swinger Info
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SLS Name
4230kg
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Hello, everyone! Long time no post! It's been quite the long time. For awhile we lost all hope in finding that unicorn, but recently we decided to get back into looking for her. So here we are! (female posting, as always). I do have a question, I just want to know if this is common with unicorns. So, we posted an ad on Craigslist (I know, I know: not recommended but we were really careful in what we posted). Got at least five hits in two weeks which is more than what we got on SLS. Sidenote: Our old account got deactivated due to not using it in forever, so we created a new one. So here's hoping we get more hits there. Anyway, I digress. The second girl that replied to our ad was hot. Like, really, really hot. We thought it was too good to be true (turns out it was, but let me finish). Hubby and her trade emails through Craigslist, where you have your real email masked. Then she tells him she wants to email with me, too which is fine. So we do that. Then we trade pics. She wants to know about my experiences, which wasn't much. We talk about all the sex stuff which is fine. Then we wanted to know more about her, like interests, etc. I personally feel more comfortable when I know more about the female than just sex. Couldn't get anything like that out of her, it was like pulling teeth. Then after awhile it turns out she only wanted to be with me, and not the male at all. She claimed to be bi when responding to the ad, but turns out she was a lesbian. We are only interested in playing together, so having the hubby watch isn't going to happen. Then we got another response recently. Did the same thing as above except we got a lot more info that seemed to be legit. She kept wanting to see me completely nude, with face in the picture. Then she sends me a picture of her exposed, ahem...you know. I then ask for a picture like that with her face in it, and she wouldn't do it. Haven't heard from her in over a week. So, basically my question is: Is this normal? Our ad on CL is probably buried under hundreds of other postings so we most likely will not be re-posting there and sticking to SLS, since it seems like you get more verified, real people there. If you got all that, you get a cookie.
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Couples Profile Reviews
nckittycpl29 replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
The female half of nckittycpl here. I posted under New Swingers before about not getting the responses we'd like....but I'd like our profile reviewed if possible! I've updated it recently so hopefully it'll work. Thanks! nckittycpl29 swinglifestyle.com ~nckittyfemale -
What are your rules or limits?
nckittycpl29 replied to JustMe.'s topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
If we may jump in here as a new couple.... Our FMF rules are... -Everyone must be comfortable -No condoms (nckittymale is "fixed") but will use if needed -Yes to kissing, penetration, oral, not sure about anal with other woman -Female can play alone(this one is still pending...) -No watersports. -Bondage/spanking OK -No emotional attachment I (nckittyfemale) basically think that's it..... almost anything goes. At first when we first started talking about having a threesome, I didn't want him to have any penetration with the other female but since we are really close, and we trust each other 110%, I will let him penetrate her, oral, and kiss her. I brought up with my fiancè that maybe I could play with the other female here at home, to be sure that I know what I'm doing. He seems ok with it but when the opportunity is there to have the threesome, we're going to let it happen. I think that it is the key to having a successful threesome... if you set some guidelines, and you all feel comfortable, you can have an awesome time together. I have heard of SO many threesomes gone wrong, and I'm pretty sure that when we have it, it'll go pretty smoothly.