Want wife to do gangbang, what if she gets pregnant?

[highlander]

Here is a quote from the review. I'd have to look, but I don't think that 10% figure is the highest estimate.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg...97474?v=glance

"If you've ever looked upon sperm as a little army of white-coated soldiers setting off to sack and pillage a barely pregnable fortress . . . well, you'd be right, according to this fascinating new book. Dr. Robin Baker, who has studied sperm and cervical mucus in much greater detail than anyone would've thought necessary, has come to some startling conclusions: that less than 1 percent of sperm is actually designed to fertilize an egg (the rest are there to block other men's sperm), and that 4 to 10 percent of all children born to married couples are in fact the offspring of other men, usually of higher socioeconomic status, with whom the mother had a short-term relationship."

I honestly think that if an attractive, younger woman placed a personals ad looking for a husband with the condition that something during the marriage, she would conceive a child via a gang bang, she would have a substantial number of takers. I'm not saying that this is a good idea. I'm just saying that is how much latitude she would have in the present situation.

[Rombi's Girl]

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Originally Posted by Chicup
Am I the only one vaguely horrifed by this thread?





No you are not the only one.

Dito All I can say is bless their hearts. As for me, I'd want to know which man fathered my childern, and I'd like all my childern to be fathered by the same man.

[InterestingOnes]

A father is the man who raises a child, not the man who impregnates a woman.

[bunnyrabbits]

I concur with interesting.

So, here's my story. When I married my wife, she had an 18 month old daughter. About a year later, I adopted her. I love her very much and I am the only daddy that she has ever known.

Here comes the interesting part. About 6 years ago, my wife and I were doing the occassional threesome, MFM. And, she would go out with her boyfriend on her own at times. She was not on the pill at the time. We talked about the possibility of pregnancy and I wanted here to use some sort of BC. The boyfriend refused to use condoms and to make a long story short, she had his baby. This was very hard on me at first. But after he arrived, I really and truly began to love him. The biological father never had anything to do with him and we never asked him for anything. Our son is a very happy little boy.

I would not recommend this for anyone. But, if you are swinging and not permanently fixed, you must be prepared for the consequences.

[curiousagain]

Originally Posted by RnLinohio

No you are not the only one.

Ditto!!


BTW, I did recently read a study (not on the internet, in health care literature) that stated in testing done in several large cities across the US the rate of the husband not being the Father averaged 20% with some cities running one third. These test were done without the knowledge of either parent using blood from routine blood samples. The study did not mention any categories by first, second, etc. child or socioeconomic class, race, anything. This was overall.

[Sex Wonderer]

i'm really happy to hear your story bunny. it really helps me with my enigma. i believe its a noble act to raise the children as your own. and, like InterestingOnes point it out,

A father is the man who raises a child, not the man who impregnates a woman

i feel the same way..

bunny, when you said your wife wasnt on pill at that time, and you heard that her boyfriend refused to use condoms, you have taken into account the possibility of her getting pregnant with her boyfriend's child as well.

despite all that, you still allowed her to have sex with him. and for that, i think its honourable to be able to let your wife experience sex with other guys, allowing her to be pleasured by others, and also to raise and love the child she has in the process.

i'm not sure if there's a lot of others like you, but i share the same view, believing that love and sex are 2 different things. she can have sex with anyone she likes, and i would still love her. i love her so much that i dont mind if she gets pregnant with other guy's offspring. BECAUSE the mother of that child is my wife.

[BiNWAR]

Ok, im probably going to get hit because of what im about to say, but who cares.....Swinging is about being responsible to yourself, your partner and the people you choose to be with. Having sex with someone without protection is just plain idiotic and stupid....hello can we say STDs, how about HIV?? 3 little letters and a lifetime of agony
If the person I was with, whether is was my partner in life or a sex partner, didnt want to play it safe I would have to ask myself if they were safe for me!
Cream Pies are a huge turn on for me in all honestly and for my hubby also...would we love to do one,but will we? hell no not with someone we dont know....there is no way

As for preganancy....im fixed hubby isnt, i dont want him getting someone other women knocked up.
For one thing he is a very responsible adult, which means he would feel and obligation to take care of the child whether her hubby/partner wanted him to or not in his eyes that is his child not the other guys and 2) Purely selfish on my part, but we have 4 boys of our own that he needs to support not some offspring from a tumble 3) These are children that deserve to be brought into the world in a safe and loving enviroment...can you image what a child would feel like if he was told that he was a product of a swinging....
So that is my soapbox feel free to knock me off. I understand everyone is different in their beliefs and actions....
Heather

[Alura]

I'm just a hick Okie, Sex Wonderer, but if I were faced with your problem, I'd get her pregnant first, then go swinging.

'Mr. Alura

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Alura

I'm just a hick Okie, Sex Wonderer, but if I were faced with your problem, I'd get her pregnant first, then go swinging.

'Mr. Alura

You're a jewel Alura!

I want to kiss the top of your head...and you know I can reach it without you bending over.

Did you read that I just discoverd that I'm just under 5'10" tall?

Care to reveal your stature Alura? I figure this way people can clearly picture me giving your sweet head a kiss.

LM

[biblonde]

NO WAY IN HELL would I risk getting prego by that many men!!! And not useing anything just because it sounds fun??? WTF...The risks are just way to high for us. And I know hubby would never want me pregnent by another man. We have had many talks about this and I went back on the pill when we got into this lifestyle just incase a condom broke. Pleasing your wife in this way is just setting yourself up for lots of hurt!!! and what if you catch something besides getting pregnent or both??? Then what. Is it really worth the risk? NOT IN THIS HOUSE!! but to each their own. I think it is an awful idea but then again that is just my opinion.

[Alura]

My head is hairy, Mrs. LM. Not the best place to kiss. If your interest continues, I'll be sure to suggest a different venue.

Mrs. Alura is 5'9" and she kisses me on top of the head from time to time. It's only half a foot away.


Mr. Alura

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Alura

My head is hairy, Mrs. LM. Not the best place to kiss. If your interest continues, I'll be sure to suggest a different venue.

Mrs. Alura is 5'9" and she kisses me on top of the head from time to time. It's only half a foot away.


Mr. Alura

Kissing your hairy head would be fine by me. I like the smell of fresh washed hair. I also like running my fingers through men's hair.

I ran my fingers through lots of guys hair at the Memphis Meet Up. I've always like doing things with my hands. I also LOVE having my hair touched.

Now that's an idea. Line up a bunch a guys who will take turns running their fingers through my hair.

LM

[Alura]

LM wrote:

Now that's an idea. Line up a bunch a guys who will take turns running their fingers through my hair.

I'll bet I could arrange that during November in Tulsa...

Mr. Alura

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Now that's an idea. Line up a bunch a guys who will take turns running their fingers through my hair.

does that mean I don't get a turn?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Now that's an idea. Line up a bunch a guys who will take turns running their fingers through my hair.

Originally Posted by ALilOEverything

does that mean I don't get a turn?

Sure, Lilo, you can run your fingers through my hair.

That is what you meant, right?

LM