Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else?

[Brian and Jo]

For both of us watching our spouse having sex with another partner is a huge turn-on. It is definitely one of the pleasures of swinging. The first time I watched Jo with another male I could'nt believe how erotic and exciting it was. When we started to swing we used separate rooms and the sounds of sex emanating from the other room were intriguing to say the least. So we made a decision to swing in the same room whenever possible. It is one of the best decisions we have made in this lifestyle. We both enjoy watching each other enjoying the pleasures of sex especially when we are experiencing orgasms. The look on Jo's face when she is cumming is very exciting indeed. I am bi and Jo just loves to watch me playing with another male. It is very stimulating for her to say the least!

[Chris&Amelia]

Originally Posted by lotsoffun201

Personally with all of our other experiences, the MFM was by far and away the most intense to me and arousing. Is that wrong?

Nope. I get great enjoyment in watching Amelia receiving pleasure. Sometimes I just want to stop what I'm doing and grab a tub of popcorn.

Maybe set up the velvet ropes and sell tickets.

(hope she doesn't read this thread...)

[ch85books]

Watching my wife with someone else, male or female is a huge turn on for me and she loves watching me with another woman. The very first time we did it with another couple was when we were dating. We had made love with each other while my best friend and his girl were doing it. We all just kind of naturally agreed to swap and it was awesome! After we had all cum I moved over to my wife to be, and spread her legs to look at here beautiful pussy dripping my best friend's cum. It turned me on so much that I got instantly hard again, and started fucking her again. Ever since we have each enjoyed watching the other. My dear wife has had a lot of gangbangs through the years and I usually wait til the end to do her. Watching all those guys fill her up gets me going!

[CaptK]

Aroused doesn't describe how it excites me. I was surprised the first time I watched her making love to another man; rather than feeling anger or jealousy, I was incredibly hard. I don't think anything had made me so excited as then. It remains an emotional high of the greatest proportions today, after many experiences in the lifestyle.

[JDApopka]

MFM is all we do and well I find it Hot watching her please other men she thought I was nuts when I first brougth it up but now she enjoys and i love it

[AdultSocials]

I love watching my SO with someone else. It makes the whole expierence better seeing him pleasure someone else!

[tncinmd]

Like a lot of other men here have said, aroused doesn't cover half of it. My greatest pleasure is watching hers.

[LFM2]

I think watching Mr. LFM is one of the hottest things I've ever seen while he's pleasuring another woman!

[oc1234]

For the last few years, all we have been doing is MFM 3somes with a male friend we have know for 28 years.

We actually started with a couple of full swaps with him and his now ex-wife. While I enjoyed sex with his ex-wife, what I really enjoyed was the thought of him with my wife.

And after the full swaps with them, he and my wife met a number of times alone for sex. I found that extremely exciting and encouraged my wife to continue.

After they got divorced, not due to swinging with us, we stated having 3somes with him. We don't get together that often, but when we do, we all enjoy it.

[ackjae0]

the thought of watching wife take cock is the most stimulating of all sexual visions..after the orgasm its like significant shrinkage of all sexual desire..then that goes away and you still have the memories filed ...all sexually good

[hannah_mark]

We love it. For us it's one of the best, of not the best, thing about swinging. I love seeing Rob with another girl. Even the thought of it turns me on. It's a 2 way things though, Rob gets really hot when he sees me having sex with another guy.

[mjsocal]

For me, watching her is the most erotically compelling aspect of the lifestyle, which I've enjoyed with four different women over the years. With each, we would begin by swinging equally but would progress to my watching. The images of her with another make for the most potent memories.

[WeMayTryIt]

We both think it's very hot to see the other one with someone else. While I (the male), really enjoy the variety of other women, there is nothing--and I mean NOTHING--like watching my wife receive pleasure. When she's being pleasured by someone else, the view is so much better, even though it's very hard to beat the view I have when I'm behind her

[lustylearning]

Mmmm... depends on the someone else

[lakeluvrs]

I'd have to say watching my wife cum with another man is the hottest thing I've ever seen. The feeling from watching it the first time is hard to describe. I actually submitted a story about it, so there's my attempt at describing it.