Does weight really matter?

[CanadianCouple]

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[Stratecpl]

CanadianCouple,

LOL at the posting!!! It's great to get to know you guys. And yes, the satellite dish just seemed to grow right up out of the ground... LOL And thanks, Julie!! It's been interesting!

EXIT, Grinning all the way!!
Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

[CanadianCouple]

Stratecpl --

Great getting to know you two as well. You guys look fantastic!!

You ARE coming back, right? Your most recent post almost sounded like you were leaving.

Dan of CanadianCouple

[Stratecpl]

Dan,

Not on your life, man!! We love this place!! I guess we're just sitting back, looking for some new topics to rant about.... LOL Maybe we can solve the world's problems in short order!!

Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

[CanadianCouple]

Good to hear, your post from last night almost had an air of finality to it.

Hope you guys enjoy your evening.

Dan and Janette

[JustAskJulie]

^Bump^ Interesting Topic - any thoughts?

[ILcouple]

All I have to say i dont care if the other person is big or skinny as a rail muscular or not as long as they have a good personality and are secure in themselves and are not bitter we have no problems we have met people of all shapes and sizes I have seen others put on their profiles no fattys and that seems so rude to us and you can bet even though we are not fattys we wont be replying to their ad we have no room for shallow people in our life. Just my 2 cents.
the better half of ILcouple

[CanadianCouple]

You know, what scares me is the fact we wrote that original post nearly ONE YEAR AGO!!!

My wife and I are a bit fatter then when we started swinging *heh* but we still fall in the "HWP" realm (though if I don't go on a diet it won't be for long). This seems to be a common topic on swingers message boards, but is kinda pointless and reminds me of the 'bi-male' topic.

We only swing with people we are physically attracted to, and neither of us are attracted to overweight people. Some seem to act like this is totally unacceptable, narrow minded, etc, but we like having sex with people we find pleasent to look at naked. This is what we want, and while it all might feel the same when the lights are out, we have our preferances. This doesn't mean we hate fat people, won't be friends with etc, we just don't want to have sex with them.

We have been rejected based on looks before and it hurts, but we get over it.

[anandjeff2]

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Originally posted by <Chicup>:


We only swing with people we are physically attracted to,
We have been rejected based on looks before and it hurts, but we get over it.

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Well to bring a new twist onto this subject..
I can't find myself attracted to stupid people..sorry but for me there has to be a brain wave...I can see thru the lack of conventinal looks and appreciate the character underneath..a lot of people find this hard to beleieve but it is very true in my case..while I would not consider a relationship with a person I find physically repulsive on the other hand I find charisma and intelligence really attract me. Stupid people give m e no pleasure as they just drive me nuts...granted some people ar enot what some would consider lookers but spend some time with them and you might be surprised how your opinion might change

An

[CanadianCouple]

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Originally posted by anandjeff2:

I can't find myself attracted to stupid people..

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Duhh, what?

Just kidding.

We're of a similar mind, specifically we like to be around people who can carry conversations that extend beyond the weather and what's on Springer today. We enjoy exchanging opinions on various topics of social and even political nature, perhaps learning something new in the process. We quickly tire of couples who can talk of nothing but the lifestyle, as interesting as that may be. We really have a keen interest in garnering a more well-rounded (pardon the pun) view of the couple we may soon be sleeping with.

Dan

[ 04-19-2002, 08:11 PM: Message edited by: CanadianCouple ]

[sccple29073]

Personally i do not care what someone looks like. I am not looking for strictly sex, so the person has to have a personality.

I don't care what your body looks like, if your personality is crappy, then there is no way we could get together. I have met plenty of women where it wasn't "lust at first site" but after talking with them i was attracted to their personality, which made their exterior looks unimportant.

i have talked to a lot of people online and the ones that seem so concerned with HWP I am not even interested in meeting. There is no way I could feel comfy with someone that may be taking mental notes on any "extra padding" I may have.

I am not sure if I would use the word narrow-minded for people that are concerned with HWP, but I have often wondered if those people just have that preference about people they are with in the "lifestyle" or is that in general. I mean do people that prefer only hwp actually leave their spouses or partners because they were no longer hwp or do they actually adjust to it and if they adjust would they still seek hwp in the lifestyle?

lol...I think this subject could go on and on, with people just continuing to add to it.

New graemlins i see



[ 04-20-2002, 07:43 PM: Message edited by: hllmail ]

[anandjeff2]

Hey Dan too bad we dont live near each other..I am getting sotired of wackos although we recently moved and met a nice new couple..they lurk here..LOL..so theyre prob reading this..hehehe...

as for HWP ads..I laught at those as I have seen some really wierd HWP people..LOL..I dont belive them one bit!

An

[Soscol]

Unfortunately, that is a fact you have to live with. Not too many people get turned-on by heavy couples. When we started this Swinging thing,we couldn't get anywhere. Took 3 months off, lost a few pounds and voila - everything started happening for us. Otherwise, be patient, sure there's others in your situation and maybe you'll hook up with them (just a thought).

[K2]

For what it is worth, when I look at a woman the first thing I see is her exterior. Just human nature and a fact of life. If after I get to know someone the exterior matters less and less but in the Swingers World there really isn't that much chance to get to know people in depth right off the bat and I think we all gravitate towards beauty and what we have been programmed to see as beautiful by Cosmopolitan Magazine and TV.

But, if a person wants to lose weight I was just told about something that apparently really works. I build and design websites for a living. One of the last jobs I did was for an escort service in Michigan. http://www.cleopatras.com is the website.

Well to try and make this as short and sweet as possible, one of the escorts on there wanted to lose a few pounds and get more toned. When I first took her pics for the website she was fine by my standards. Anyway, I just saw her Saturday and she was really super deluxe toned and slim.

I asked her what she did and she said she was using a product from a health food store that cost about $60 for a bottle of it. I told her that she could probably get it cheaper on the internet and she was all for that. I went to http://www.google.com and found the product for her online, much cheaper, directly from the manufacturer and with no sales tax. If anyone is interested in it, here is the manufactures website http://www.biosculpt.tv/biosculpt.html

This is not some scam by me to promote something and get money for it. I just posted the link for those of you that want to check it out. From what I saw and what she said, I can say that it truly works.

Would be interesting to hear if anyone else has used that product.