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losAmantes last won the day on June 13 2013
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- Birthday 01/12/1960
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Virginia Beach
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losAmantes started following Creepy vs. turn-on, Do you recall your feelings after your first few experiences? Did you feel any pain?, What are your profile red flags? and and 4 others
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What are your profile red flags?
losAmantes replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
"Friends first" We want to go bowling, have a picnic, and know all your kid's names and ages before we'll have sex with you.- 40 replies
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I don't know what you have planned, or how well you know the girl, but you might have a better chance if you and your wife meet with her together, especially if she already knows you're married. Explaining that you're married with a hall pass would probably have her rolling her eyes and stomping out. If she's a vanilla friend, having your wife there will let her know you're all on the same page.
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Thanks, that explains it. We'll be looking for it.
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We still have the old one as well, I hope the new one is much better! Can't seem to find the new one, can you point us in the right direction?
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Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers?
losAmantes replied to good times's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
It seems that swinging parties have become a vanilla fad now. We've noticed within the last year or two that there seem to be a lot more couples that just stand around fully clothed and watch; hotel parties are the worst, but we've even seen it at house parties. Like a previous poster said, when they're approached for an introduction, they blush and scurry off to safety. Nothing wrong with newbies watching, and we love putting on a show, but at least introduce yourselves. Several years ago I would have probably said that voyeurs and exhibitionists were swingers because that's how we got started. Now that most of them just come to parties for the live sex show and with no intention of swapping, I've changed my mind. Years ago it was "cool" for vanilla couples to go to a strip club together, now they've figured out that they can go to a swinger party and get a much better show for a lot less money.- 33 replies
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Is it possible to ask him to stop swinging?
losAmantes replied to hedobandito's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
My guess is that he'll use that as justification to continue cheating and bending the rules. Sounds like you're in a no win situation. -
Swinging not working for both of us - please help.
losAmantes replied to sexyhornycouple's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Have to agree with Chicup on that. Maybe you're just not running with the right crowd. You're right not to play unless he finds someone. A man's ego is a very fragile thing and when it's damaged women can smell it a mile away and they steer clear. Maybe best just to hang back at parties together as a couple and see if you can draw in any couples that want to play with both of you. -
Be careful when attending small house parties (3-5 couples). Although no always means no, there can be a bit of unspoken pressure to play with someone you're not attracted to, and if you don't participate, don't expect to be invited back. Large house parties are much safer because there's usually something for everyone so to speak. For best results, split off from your spouse and seek fun in your own separate directions. Most house parties consist of a core group of friends that invite 2 or 3 new couples to each party. If you don't know anyone, then you're obviously one of the new couples being checked out on a trial basis. Probably not, at least not in such a small group setting.
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Your "hit rate" with online swinger profiles
losAmantes replied to MrMarvin's topic in Finding People to Swing With
My wife being straight has been a total non issue for us. Almost everyone we play with is listed as bi or bi curious and I can't even remember the last time anyone even asked about g/g play. -
Stud vs dud.
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House Party Games
losAmantes replied to austxmark's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Truer words have never been spoken.- 39 replies
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Block free members on SLS If they say they want to be "friends first" run the other way fast.