travcouple
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15 GoodAbout travcouple
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- Birthday 02/03/1974
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
New Jersey
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Occupation
Engineer
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Swinging Experience
2 years
Swinger Info
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SLS Name
livnlocoNJcpl
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Favorite Club(s)
Club Princeton
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Full Swap that made for an awkward situation...
travcouple replied to SwingingForFun's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I wouldn't be. We have been in a MFM situation many times and have yet to be with a couple or another woman. I love watching my wife getting pleasured any way she can. -
Wife's Friend Flirts with Me...
travcouple replied to travcouple's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I will say that I definately do not want to ruin the friendship my wife has with her and I don't want to ruin the friendship I have with her either. Something didn't seem right so I figured I would see what others had to say. Everything rang true to me and confirmed my own suspicions, I will keep everything at the status quo; friends with casual fliring and no farther. It is the best for everyone involved. -
Wife's Friend Flirts with Me...
travcouple replied to travcouple's topic in Finding People to Swing With
OK, I think I had to put this here to confirm what I already felt. There are some other details I haven't put here, just to not get too detailed in cas someone who Knew us and some of the situation stumbled upon this. After reading a lot of these responses, I guess I look like a pretty big jerk. My body tells me to go farther with the attraction, however my mind does not. I think I really knew what most would say before I posted this, but wanted to get it off my chest anyway. Thank you all for your input. -
Wife's Friend Flirts with Me...
travcouple replied to travcouple's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Unfortunately it would happen behind his back. I'm ok with that if she is, but I don't want to destroy her marriage either. She isn't happy, but isn't going to leave him either. I may be going way out on a limb and nothing is ever going past flirting and my imagination is running away with me. -
I have been debating about putting this here for a while and I have finally decided to do so. Please bear with me. My wife has a friend that flirts with me often and I flirt right back. I have always viewed this as harmless since she is not (to my knowledge) in the lifestyle. Her huband is very conservative and somewhat a jerk. If he knew that she and I flirted the way we do he would be pissed. Like I said I have always viewed this as harmless and nevr thinking it ould go anywhere. I would like it to go somewhere. I moved my family away due to my job. My wife and her friend stayed in touch. While I was traveling for business last summer her friend came to visit her. One night, after a few drinks, they decided to send me some pictures. Nothing to explicit, lingerie for my wife and bra and panties with one of my shirts for her friend. Now I'm not so sure of the innocent flirting. I talked to her shortly after I got the pictures and thanked her for them (my wife got a much more ardent thanking when I got home). My wife and I have talked about me being with her friend and of course my wife has no problem with it. I am now moving back and I would like to move past flirting with this friend, but I am not sure how to approach it since seh doesn't know about our lifestyle. I also don't want to make the attempt to move past flirting and jeopardize my wife's friedship with her or the friendship I have with her. So what are your opinions.
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travcouple replied to SnozzberryBlu's topic in Finding People to Swing With
hooking up words and phrases and clauses -
Not circumcized - should we tell up front?
travcouple replied to brandi511's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I don't know if someone will yell at me fr this or not, but I saw this joke that I thought was very fitting for this thread. Why do women prefer cicumcised men? Because they can't resist anything that is 10% off! I thought it was at least humorous. BTW I am uncut (and both my sons are too). My wife has never had anything to say one way or the other. I will ask her her preference and I will tell her to be honest with me. have fun -
How often do you have sex with your partner?
travcouple replied to Spoomonkey's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We are usually 3-7 times a week, depending on the week. I put 3-5 since I think that is close to our average. We have been married for almost 12 years and had our ups and downs, but we are just too horny to not do it all the time. Since we started in the lifestyle we have been pretty much the same. We have only had a couple real swinging events, usually we just play with each other at the parties, she likes to be watched. Unfortunately, since she is not here it will be 0 a week fora while:sad:.